it depends on the situation imo
if she been with 3-5 partners but all of them were relationships that lasted for a moment i.e i was with this guy for 2 years, this guy for 3 years etc.
5 partners at age 25 or older really aint that bad.
now if you start hearing shyt like, one night stands, i met this guy on facebook, we only hooked up a couple of times but he was tripping type of shyt. then honestly if she say 3-5 its really around the 10+ area and yea that type of women is hard to connect to. she is at a point where sex aint even something she view as a connections intimately with a partner, she sees it as a means to get ahead, gain what she wants and control her surroundings. she wont even allow her self to connect because she done likely met someone who tap that and bounced very quickly and that makes a women lesson the value of they puss. women after all these years still dont understand that men really can only hit it and not have any emotional attachment. they really think that if a guy hit it and dont want her later she thinks her sex wasnt good enough or whatever. in honesty he probably hit it and wont do it again out of fear of being caught by his main girl. lol
but women who say shyt like "well men do it and nothing is said about them" or " i was just with him for the sex" is a women you stay far the hell away from. she is gone and is only giving up that little puss to the better situation. more money better status and she bouncing. she is not longer down to earth. she only there for the good times and when the bad times hit she easing towards the door.