BlackJesus
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it's not a "cope"..
you literally have contact and memories with the people in your family that hold that same last name... you should have a lifetime of real world experience with your elders/peers that hold the same name. But maybe you don't rock with your family like that. So the idea of where the name came from is stronger than the actual current reality of the name your whole family holds.
That is exactly a cope. lol. You only find comfort in seeing your family members with the same slave name