New #HOH Anthem “Now You A Single Mom” *6/11 Update: Madre Soltera Music Video added to OP**

[HarlemHottie]

Oh, I have no doubt a lady is going to clap back with something equally as catchy.

Being honest, I doubt it. In the modern era, the onus is completely on women. How do you blame men when they have no control over who is getting birthed?

 

[Buddy]

What about 'Shut your bytch ass up" did you misunderstand? S.T.F.U.

Black Americans are not well-served by the single mother epidemic. What exactly are you arguing for? Or are you just being a contrarian ass fakkit?

I'm arguing that brehs are just as complicit. Brehs complain all the time... "mAn My BM XYZ." -- We literally have a thread on women you'd be morally obligated to nut in". Now I aint gon front, I post in that thread periodically but I'm not being serious.

The better question is what are YOU arguing for??? Cause one minute, you're on this RahRah shyt about lineage and stoking flames with relations across the diaspora and the next you're endorsing the shyt that stokes the flames WITHIN our lineage. You're apparently all in on Diaspora Wars AND Gender wars so what the hell do you actually want?


EDIT:.... Do you wanna BECOME WHITE?

 

[HarlemHottie]

The better question is what are YOU arguing for??? Cause one minute, you're on this RahRah shyt about lineage and stoking flames with relations across the diaspora and the next you're endorsing the shyt that stokes the flames WITHIN our lineage: Black Men vs Black Women. What the hell do you want?

I'm arguing for people taking control of (and responsibility for!) their fertility. Men are doing better now that the state done stepped in, women still acting up.

 

[Buddy]

I'm arguing for people taking control of (and responsibility for!) their fertility. Men are doing better now that the state done stepped in, women still acting up.

Does love, marriage, family building, legacy have anything to do with this or does "lineage" just boil down sex and fertility? You're endorsing brehs that DONT wanna get married laughing at a song about single moms. And you're supposedly some warrior for lineage. Internet ass.... you make less sense than them.


This shyt ain't adding up.

 

[Gloxina]

Does love, marriage, family building, legacy have anything to do with this or does "lineage" just boil down sex and fertility? You're endorsing brehs that DONT wanna get married laughing at a song about single moms. And you're supposedly some warrior for lineage. Internet ass.... you make less sense than them.


This shyt ain't adding up.

I see where you’re coming from, but I think the disconnect is:


When women encounter men who are GMB, we don’t have to have their babies.

That’s the point.


If a negro doesn’t think enough of me to sign that marriage license and give me his last night, he isn’t good enough to get inside my body (without protection).

Men play games, they lie, etc. All that. This is where a dose of logic has to be at the forefront of our minds. The rule is, no matter what, “marry before you carry”.

Now if you get married, things fall apart, etc —at least y’all got married and created a household. At least you TRIED. You don’t have to GAF about what anyone says at that point.

But getting knocked up and going through a life altering experience for a man who won’t give you his name has to stop.


If Black men are GMB then Black women have to stop birthing children. THAT is the mentality Black women need to have.

 

[Buddy]

Oh, I have no doubt a lady is going to clap back with something equally as catchy.

The gender war ain’t going anywhere just yet.


And you are absolutely right and I speak up for the ladies who get screwed over by a$$holes.

A few of us have already mentioned how Black culture across the board does not encourage marriage and is now harping on young women getting knocked up, but not harping on the young men who are overly represented in the nation’s negative stats.


THAT BEING SAID- there’s a difference between a women who is divorced, a woman who had one kid out of wedlock and learned the lesson, and the woman who has multiple kids out of wedlock.

We have a babymomma culture which is the issue. Terrible images of Black women in popular culture, strip club culture took over Hiphop which has influenced how young men and women conduct themselves and behave, etc.

At this point we need something powerful to go up against this shyt.

It’s bad enough young girls might not be in environments where they are taught about men’s games; they are also wrapped up in a music genre/culture that promotes all these stripper-rappers.

Like I said on here last year, it isn’t a problem for some of us because those wayward chicks make the classy Black women stand out. But the shyt has gotten out of hand and is affecting our collective image worse than ever before.

If a little song can make a few girls stop and say “hold up, he’s saying all this and that but when the topic of marriage comes up he starts acting funny— naw lemme be careful!” then so be it.

I don't think thats gonna be the result at all. Its just another tit for tat. The way that a lot of people date and pursue the opposite sex is severely flawed, and it manifests in this kinda shyt, Sexy Redd, etc. Yer they hate Sexy Redd... There's an elephant in the room

 

[Problematic Pat]

He better have a cowboy hat on when it happens

He need to do that little motion with the pampers on top of a horse like he does on top of his car

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Why is this guy being praised, but Kevin Samuels was constantly dissed? They're both in the same lane.




The coli is confusing because it's all rahrah on single moms 24/7, but the minute Kevin stepped in it was incel this, incel that.

 

[Problematic Pat]

 

[Neuromancer]

Yall are laughing now but wait til a creative woman claps back on child support/visitation

Most of the dudes who are laughing at this don't have kids.

 

[humminbird]

I have nothing to say about the subject matter but Jesus Christ
this is so off key I don't know how anyone can listen to it for more than 5 seconds
just twisted the agora hills instrumental any old way huh
breh needs to never touch music again

 

[Gloxina]

I don't think thats gonna be the result at all. Its just another tit for tat. The way that a lot of people date and pursue the opposite sex is severely flawed, and it manifests in this kinda shyt, Sexy Redd, etc. Yer they hate Sexy Redd... There's an elephant in the room

….?

 

[Neuromancer]

I see where you’re coming from, but I think the disconnect is:


When women encounter men who are GMB, we don’t have to have their babies.

That’s the point.


If a negro doesn’t think enough of me to sign that marriage license and give me his last night, he isn’t good enough to get inside my body (without protection).

Men play games, they lie, etc. All that. This is where a dose of logic has to be at the forefront of our minds. The rule is, no matter what, “marry before you carry”.

Now if you get married, things fall apart, etc —at least y’all got married and created a household. At least you TRIED. You don’t have to GAF about what anyone says at that point.

But getting knocked up and going through a life altering experience for a man who won’t give you his name has to stop.


If Black men are GMB then Black women have to stop birthing children. THAT is the mentality Black women need to have.

Simple as that.

 

[BruhManFromTheFifthFlo]

Yall are laughing now but wait til a creative woman claps back on child support/visitation

And it’ll get added to the million of other “nikkas ain’t shyt” tracks that we don’t care about

 

[focusloco]

I've fukked plenty of single mothers... this shyt got me rolling man