New Generation Of Black Men Will Not Suffer In Silence And I'm Here For It(DDG vs Bonnet Brigade)

[Luke Cage]

Most career minded women aren't letting themselves get pregnant right when their career is potentially about to breakout.

 

[mag357]

In any realm of life, online or in-person, speaking on my child, my child's mother and saying WILD sh*t like I trapped her, for it to live on the f*cking internet, based on NOTHING tangible would and SHOULD be challenged.

If you're speaking on just me, as a known entity/content creator...sure. My child? My child's mother? Yeah, I'd honestly be sending out hits on people on the low. Get your shyt hacked via IP addresses/digital footprints. Have you framed for some wild shyt from across the country. I understand why Cardi B moves the way she moves sometimes, lol.

People, and in this case women are too comfortable talking CRAZY online. The para-social disease that people have with celebrity is scary man.

"He put his business out there so it's fair game..."

When will people realise that just because a celebrity puts their business out there, that doesn't make us as an audience entitled to talk crazy? Such a weak excuse, honestly.

I feel similar. But I actually think people have the right, I guess, to speak on things about celebrities. This is apart of being a public figure and trying to live ur life in the public eye. The good and bad.

But I just think as a society we should look at people who spend time talking about people they don't know, in general, as fcking crazy. And low lifes.

So basically it's ur right to do it..but ur letting us know ur life is ass and ur a weirdo. So u should be ashamed to do it

 

[cyndaquil]

I think it's about perspective. Why waste time and energy with someone disrespecting you especially if you know it isn't true. Could be using that energy towards forwarding your career or pursuing another woman.

What do you gain by staying and arguing?

What do you lose by walking away?

Its about your Dignity. As a man you not bout to sit there and let somebody dunk on you man or woman. You can tell a woman about herself then walk away. The key is staying level headed. When brehs say don't argue with a woman it means don't stoop to the level of getting emotional with it. Keep composure, respond logically, say your peace and keep it moving. She probably gonna keep going but you already done said what you needed to say. You'll look back fondly knowing you handled shyt like a man and not a child.

 

[Jasonmask]

I hear you, telling them about themselves and arguing are two different things in my book

Telling someone off and going back and forth with them about something neither of y’all will EVER settle (especially to some random stranger woman you have no connection to) doesn’t help me or the situation at all….that’s when you walk away.

Ok I see what you mean now like I know when to pick my battles sometimes you have to eat whatever she saying because it’ll turn into a women logic conversation you know we not winning or I might actually be in the wrong and as a man one should be able to express that

 

[Jaguar93]

I have no problem with people clapping back. It should be expected when you’re commenting on shyt. That doesn’t have anything to do with you lol. Worry about yo damn self. DDG talk to em

 

[Mordith]

nikka your 5'6 and shop in the medium section of Forever 21. I could never be as much of a bytch as you

Nikka, you sassy and wrong as a bytch....

 

[ba'al]

Its about your Dignity.

What exactly do you mean by dignity? Do you want that person validation and/respect? Does the negative words effect your pride/ego?

As a man you not bout to sit there and let somebody dunk on you man or woman.

To be honest as I get older I'm not as prideful. What you're calling a slamdunk to me is usually just a hurt, jealous, bitter or all the above person trying to bring you down emotionally. Arguing tends to lead to more arguing. Me personally I rather just not deal with a quarrelsome people all together. And no matter what you do someone will always have something negative to say so it seems like a waste of time to become trauma bonded and codependent on this person you're trying to win over through arguments.

Edit- Even viewing that person's action as a dunk is becoming foreign to me. I rather just view their actions as a poor sad attempt to upset me.

You can tell a woman about herself then walk away.

Ok now lets say you do "tell a woman about herself" most the time they just double down. If you call them loud they will just double down and not be receptive to the criticism. SO from my perspective I rather just save time and go about my day.

The key is staying level headed.

What's more level headed then simply walking away and going about your day? You adding in a unnecessary step in my opinion by trying to check her or put her in her place. I think being at peace with other negative views on you and not needing to clapback at every chickenhead broad is better for your own mental. And if you be patient usually broads like that end up in trouble so you really don't even have to say anything her own bad behavior will trap her.

When brehs say don't argue with a woman it means don't stoop to the level of getting emotional with it.

I'm not saying don't argue. You're grown do whatever make sense to you. From my perspective it's just a waste of time. And the less emotional thing to me is not trying to clapback and win back/defend your dignity but get to a point where no matter what someone says or does it doesn't effect your diginity.

Keep composure, respond logically, say your peace and keep it moving. She probably gonna keep going but you already done said what you needed to say. You'll look back fondly knowing you handled shyt like a man and not a child.

So if she's going to keep going and double down on her behavior what's the point? Seems like a waste of time. From my perspective I don't even need to look back you just keep going about your day like nothing happen. From my perspective ya'll one in the same. Her ego dignity got hurt now she trying to clapback at you and you doing the samething

 

[DonB90]

Nikka, you sassy and wrong as a bytch....

nikka you and my neice wear the same jeans. Go sit down

 

[RickyDiBiase]

That’s that southern simpleton mindset if you wanna enable and coddle these hoes just because they not a guy just say that sometimes you gotta tell them about themselves because who else will

 

[RickyDiBiase]

Its about your Dignity. As a man you not bout to sit there and let somebody dunk on you man or woman. You can tell a woman about herself then walk away. The key is staying level headed. When brehs say don't argue with a woman it means don't stoop to the level of getting emotional with it. Keep composure, respond logically, say your peace and keep it moving. She probably gonna keep going but you already done said what you needed to say. You'll look back fondly knowing you handled shyt like a man and not a child.

You can't explain dignity and pride to men who never had any

 

[LadyJ2]

I hate bonnets and TikTok.

 

[Gloxina]

facts. I dont look at divorced women as a babymoms. The father of her kid(s) isn't a "baby daddy". It's her ex-husband.

Exactly. And they wonder why the community is the way it is. Again: Black women AND men devalue marriage and what it represents and want to talk mess about Black women being unmarried, selecting dads who aren’t responsible, etc.

 

[In The Zone '98]

Smoked her

 

[Pazzy]

The new generation will not live vicariously through celebrities

 

[cyndaquil]

What exactly do you mean by dignity? Do you want that person validation and/respect? Does the negative words effect your pride/ego?


To be honest as I get older I'm not as prideful. What you're calling a slamdunk to me is usually just a hurt, jealous, bitter or all the above person trying to bring you down emotionally. Arguing tends to lead to more arguing. Me personally I rather just not deal with a quarrelsome people all together. And no matter what you do someone will always have something negative to say so it seems like a waste of time to become trauma bonded and codependent on this person you're trying to win over through arguments.

Ok now lets say you do "tell a woman about herself" most the time they just double down. If you call them loud they will just double down and not be receptive to the criticism. SO from my perspective I rather just save time and go about my day.

What's more level headed then simply walking away and going about your day? You adding in a unnecessary step in my opinion by trying to check her or put her in her place. I think being at peace with other negative views on you and not needing to clapback at every chickenhead broad is better for your own mental. And if you be patient usually broads like that end up in trouble so you really don't even have to say anything her own bad behavior will trap her.

I'm not saying don't argue. You're grown do whatever make sense to you. From my perspective it's just a waste of time. And the less emotional thing to me is not trying to clapback and win back/defend your dignity but get to a point where no matter what someone says or does it doesn't effect your diginity.

So if she's going to keep going and double down on her behavior what's the point? Seems like a waste of time. From my perspective I don't even need to look back you just keep going about your day like nothing happen. From my perspective ya'll one in the same. Her ego dignity got hurt now she trying to clapback at you and you doing the samething

It's not for them. It's for you. It's not responding back because the words hurt you it's responding saying your peace and ending it. You keep your composure, logically respond with a statement and walk away.

They can take it how they wanna take it but at the end of the day you didnt just hold shyt in and youre proud you handled it maturely. I understand what you're saying but people are not robots. You will walk away and continually allowing yourself to get shyt on by people will build up. Unless you got a journal or something that's not good for you.

You're telling black men to just hold more shyt in and walk away when we already hold a lot of shyt in at all times and I've seen brehs crash out eventually from it. There's a mature and reasonable way to handle someone taking jabs at you without getting emotional and arguing with them. Brehs are tired of it. I get it not everything needs a response but a response isn't bad it's about how you respond.