Mickey Kane
All Star
I'm all for stoicism, in healthy doses from men. Especially as it pertains to conflict, etc.
But we don't care for the emotional and mental well-being of men, Black men specifically, if we keep perpetuating the notion that they cannot disagree and have a HEALTHY argument with a woman. Keep telling Black men to just bottle sh*t up, without being able to vent. That energy will be redirected and channeled in a lot more harmful ways, sooner and later. For both men and women.
Let's stop infantilising women and hold them to a higher standard. They are not children. They are adults.
But we don't care for the emotional and mental well-being of men, Black men specifically, if we keep perpetuating the notion that they cannot disagree and have a HEALTHY argument with a woman. Keep telling Black men to just bottle sh*t up, without being able to vent. That energy will be redirected and channeled in a lot more harmful ways, sooner and later. For both men and women.
Let's stop infantilising women and hold them to a higher standard. They are not children. They are adults.