Yeah, I read after the fact that it can be

if you don't know what you're doing and hit the

.
I didn't do it myself though, and I wasn't trying to speak to anyone

just looking for insight. I got it done by an experienced reader. She prayed before she did it and everything, the results were actually positive. Too positive, in a way. For a few of the questions, I was kinda hoping for the opposite answer (posted this in my OP then deleted it) just so I could cut ties once and for all, but nah pendulum was like

you were right to be caught up and

don't give up or else

tarots said so, too.
Honestly, I'm just trying to live by faith and be patient...but kinda wanna read with a straight up psychic for the 1st time to confirm stuff
Yall know any good psychics?