Nerdy black girls: Do you ever feel like...
- Thread starter Neuromancer
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Not the question. But thanks for the input.
Lol you're welcome. The answer applies for any type of woman though. So specifically for nerdy black women if youre feeling like a back up or second choice, then you are.
Ah. Dually noted.
Sorry to hear that sis.
It's alright. if I'm/was feeling like a second choice, then i most likely was in their eyes. But the bright side to it is that if that was the case, then I don't want to be with them.
Ok well stop thinking that way lol and stop pegging yourself as a nerd...you're a woman with interests and hobbies. If you consider yourself an outsider or different you allow someone to treat you that way.
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Nerdy Woman Input Incoming
- Yes I absolutely have. You hear a lot on this site about how women get pregnant and ran through the want a simp, but comparatively less about the manthots who give their dyck rugburn and then want to cuddle up with Quiet Keisha from algebra class. I don't lend much credence to either stand point but there is anecdotal evidence from both sides.
- Whenever I look up and find myself in that situation, I address it immediately. As awkward, ugly, and wack I feel sometimes, I can never allow myself to knowingly be someone's fallback, and you shouldn't either.
- It's NOT a good feeling, thinking that there is someone out there they would rather be with then you, especially when try so hard
- However it is a worse feeling to commit to that person and know the entire time, you aren't what they truly wanted.
- So be frank about what you want and expect so you can avoid that pain and shyt at all costs
- No matter how many times you are rejected or passed over completely: Know that who you are, every nerdy molecule that composes your geeky existence is wonderful, and you are SOMEONE'S first choice.
We'll saidNerdy Woman Input Incoming
- Yes I absolutely have. You hear a lot on this site about how women get pregnant and ran through the want a simp, but comparatively less about the manthots who give their dyck rugburn and then want to cuddle up with Quiet Keisha from algebra class. I don't lend much credence to either stand point but there is anecdotal evidence from both sides.
- Whenever I look up and find myself in that situation, I address it immediately. As awkward, ugly, and wack I feel sometimes, I can never allow myself to knowingly be someone's fallback, and you shouldn't either.
- It's NOT a good feeling, thinking that there is someone out there they would rather be with then you, especially when try so hard
- However it is a worse feeling to commit to that person and know the entire time, you aren't what they truly wanted.
- So be frank about what you want and expect so you can avoid that pain and shyt at all costs
- No matter how many times you are rejected or passed over completely: Know that who you are, every nerdy molecule that composes your geeky existence is wonderful, and you are SOMEONE'S first choice.
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Now are we talking about legit nerdy women or are you talking about that the annoying chicks who try ultra hard to be different?
Anime comic gamer girl nerdy.
Now are we talking about legit nerdy women or are you talking about that the annoying chicks who try ultra hard to be different?
4North1Side2
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I have a very hard time believing you are someones second choice then unless you are less than appeasing to the eye.
Nerdy women are highly sought after and many men dream of having one. Being black makes you even more of a rarity.
Maybe you are disregarding or plain not interested in men who want you as there number one choice