A dudes second choice? Like someone gave you the time of day only cause the well ran dry? Like someone is only with you cause they had their fun and now want something stable. I ask cause I'm curious.
Nerdy black girls: Do you ever feel like...
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@Milk N Cookies and @awkwardblackgirl I'd like some input.
Sam Davison
Pro
I like nerdy black girls, just cause they're nerdy does't mean they're not pretty.
VFib
All Star
I don't know if I would be considered a nerd.
Growing up, I was extremely shy and socially awkward, especially when it came to the opposite sex.
With that said, to my shy ass dismay, I never had a problem with finding someone who wanted to be with me. Whether it was a "nerd", an athlete, the quiet introvert, etc. I mostly attract extroverts. I'm told that I'm "mysterious" and folks want to find out more about me. (I'm just quiet and an introvert)
I find that I don't click with introverts because they expect me to read their minds, where an extrovert makes his intentions known.
ETA
Growing up, I was extremely shy and socially awkward, especially when it came to the opposite sex.
With that said, to my shy ass dismay, I never had a problem with finding someone who wanted to be with me. Whether it was a "nerd", an athlete, the quiet introvert, etc. I mostly attract extroverts. I'm told that I'm "mysterious" and folks want to find out more about me. (I'm just quiet and an introvert)
I find that I don't click with introverts because they expect me to read their minds, where an extrovert makes his intentions known.
ETA
Idk if I'm a nerd, I'm random & weird 
I guess that makes me a nerd. 
but do i feel like 2nd choice? Yeah, but the dummy who passed him up missed out &now he's all mine!!
Hahahahaha now she got egg on her face & I can be like
I guess that makes me a nerd. but do i feel like 2nd choice? Yeah, but the dummy who passed him up missed out &now he's all mine!!
Hahahahaha now she got egg on her face & I can be like
Aceofspades404
Superstar
sounds like me
CinnaSlim
Queen of Swords
Yup. Being small and slim definitely didn't help. Most guys my age are looking for T&A. I just sit in the corner with my book, phone or computer.
One guy told me he wanted someone else. He was an very oblivious a$$hole.
It just made me
at dudes who approached me because I couldn't see why they were giving me attention. Now, im older and my self-confidence is higher, I think guy are attracted to that and want a seemingly nice girl after they're tired chasing ass.
One guy told me he wanted someone else. He was an very oblivious a$$hole.
It just made me
at dudes who approached me because I couldn't see why they were giving me attention. Now, im older and my self-confidence is higher, I think guy are attracted to that and want a seemingly nice girl after they're tired chasing ass.
Appreciating the honesty.
Sorry to hear this . Sounds like we had similar issues. But we're different gendersYup. Being small and slim definitely didn't help. Most guys my age are looking for T&A. I just sit in the corner with my book, phone or computer.
One guy told me he wanted someone else. He was an very oblivious a$$hole.
It just made me
CinnaSlim
Queen of Swords
I love you Prynce and your big heart.You always got me cin
philmonroe
Superstar
They are depending on what types of dudes they are into. Similar to nice guys if they stay in their lane they'll be ok if not chances are they'll be second/third choices. People have to stay in their lanes period male/female unless you banking on being an outlier.
I hope this was constructive.
I expected this to take off a bit. But it maybe because of the folks I have on ignore.