I can get into it deeper if yall want but my pops has the potential for this. I moved back to my hometown last year. My moms was already on her last leg dealing with him. My dad is a selfless dude and his side of the family really ran him through the ringer. Depression set in and drinking started and early set on dementia.
I came home at the right time to help him. My parents house has all of these unfinished products going on. Kitchen renovations where stalled. In the living room there was piles of stuff that he meant to put in storage. They had a full storage unit also. And one of their rental properties is a 4 story building with a huge basement. That basement was also full of shyt.
I showed up and was

This is NOT my dad. He is a electrical engineer ( retired two years ago ) Very analytical and everything was always in order. I said naw I have to get this shyt in order. . . But as a man it was and still is a sticky situation. My mom's patience is very thin at this point. She has been dealing with this for a while. So she wants me to come in and just take all this shyt over.
I am more than willing to do that. but as I told her. He is a M A N. A proud man. A man who got his family out of the mud with hardwork and was a homeowner at 21 in a suburb where he he was not supposed to be able to afford. So he has been the king of his castle since before I was born. He loves me. I am his first born son. But he is not BUILT to let another man come into his house and move his shyt around without a fight.
Its not rational but it is what it is. Finally got my mom to understand that. So we are making progress and getting him help.If he was left unchecked he could easily be a full blown hoarder. My mom made a apt observation one day. She said he likes the clutter around the house because his mind is cluttered.