"My Husband Let Me Take a Year Off From Our Marriage — Here's What Happened"

[Guile]

Dumb bytch lost trying to replace her need for kids with sex.

Edit: anyone who laid up with this busted broad lost too.

 

[Dameon Farrow]

He was fukking other women too believe it. I said that not to justify....but to point out that separations and things of this nature open the door for both parties to go out and do their thing. Also, you guys really think this just applies to white people? Sharing it with the world might be more apt to be a white thing but people get into fukkery you wouldn't believe.

Motherfukkers are obsessed with race. It has a place and it doesn't. That's probably a fairy tale to a lot of you all, though.

 

[Dameon Farrow]

Neither of them really truly wanted each other anymore. Husband probably didn't even argue with her and had one foot out the door and the other ready to download tinder.

Some people get bored. And they walk away from these things feeling just fine because there was nothing left to save.

This is the real right here and is what I'm seeing. He wanted out and agreed to this shyt. She played herself in more ways than one. This shyt was chess, folks.

Read between the lines.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

The story is about her not him..We don't know why he did anything so there's no point in speculating. But even then he went out and found 1 new woman while she was out there playing musical dikks. Its some sad shyt really because at the end of it all what did she even gain? no dude is gonna take a woman like this seriously after that and worse of all she's all over the internet and writing books about this like its some kinda revolutionary act when she just looks like a sad old whore

Unless she held a gun to his head, he did what she did and therefore gets no sympathy from me. I don't need to speculate. As far as her, she got to fukk like she wanted , she got out of an unhappy marriage, she got a new man and she got a book deal. Sounds like she got exactly want she wanted. I doubt she even wants to be married again. I know it may be hard to believe but for plenty of women our hopes and dreams don't start and end with whether one of ya'll will marry us. And our world doesn't rise or fall b/c ya'll disapproved of our sexual behavior. Just b/c you don't like it doesn't mean it's not an W for her.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

i never got with the idea of it personally... i guess stories like this, make my point... while stories of your family, make yours

50% of marriages end in divorce, so technically, both sides are absolutely correct... it can work and it also cannot


me personally... i always side with science.. if i have to force myself to be with this person and resist natural urges to want to fukk other people... then it's not really for me.. people change, people grow... not just 1-2-5 times... but damn near by the year.. the person you are at 16 is not who you are at 21.. who isn't who you are at 25... you maybe change and grow up by 30... but start realizing what you want by 35.. get your plans ou of the beginning stages by 40... so on and so forth untilthe age of 80-90-100 years old


i really think two people married 50-60 damn years prior, aren't anything like those people. and maybe there is someone else out there better for the person you are now.. but you can't just go do that... not because some natural thing... but because a piece of paper says if you do that, you bout to give up half your assets

but the exact same relationship, exact same years, exact same life... you can leave with no problems if you two feel it ain't working.. and stories like this prove my point

she loved him... he loved her.. they was still fukking.. they didn't want a divorce.. it was a comfort thing

but down deep they wasn't the same people, didn't have the same attraction, didn't want the same things as when they met, and wasn't even passionate about each other... and the moment they found other people, they was out

and i'm sure that man still had to lose money when they divorced

Then don't get married breh. But the point of being on this planet is to work. If you're gonna run from something b/c it doesn't feel natural than you are wasting your time here. The point is to get beyond nature. Most marriages don't work b/c they have no foundation and you don't have people who are willing to work on them. Marriages should be founded on respect. I don't use marriages that lack respect as a model for me b/c I know at the end of the day there was no thought or intelligence behind that decision. Also as far as the end of a marriage that should be talked about and addressed as well. Arrangements should be made in case of that split. It all seems a pretty easy ordeal if you have standards, demand respect and set forth a game plan. But marriage should be held in a higher regard. The vast majority of people married shouldn't be.

Also I don't see an 18 year marriage endings as a fail. 1 or 5 years yeah but 18 was a good run. But then again I don't have a fairy tale idea of what marriage should be. Unless you want kids or plan to build I don't see the point.

 

[Booker T Garvey]

 

[Copy Ninja]

Here's what happened


Whore

The end

 

[mr. smoke weed]

Pick your women wise brehs. If you love them don't let 'em leave simple as that.

 

[DrHackenbush]

Unless she held a gun to his head, he did what she did and therefore gets no sympathy from me. I don't need to speculate. As far as her, she got to fukk like she wanted , she got out of an unhappy marriage, she got a new man and she got a book deal. Sounds like she got exactly want she wanted. I doubt she even wants to be married again. I know it may be hard to believe but for plenty of women our hopes and dreams don't start and end with whether one of ya'll will marry us. And our world doesn't rise or fall b/c ya'll disapproved of our sexual behavior. Just b/c you don't like it doesn't mean it's not an W for her.

Behaving like a teenage slut when you're in your 50s is not a W

 

[Gutzman]

What is GMB?

 

[Alexander Wiggin]

12 partners in one year?

 

[Raava]

you actually believed that shyt



She wrote in The Wild Oats Project, "I refuse to go to my grave with no children and only four lovers ... If I can't have one, I must have the other."





who in their right mind puts having kids so high up on their list... that when they find out they ain't having any, their second option is "to not die only having fukked 4 guys"


either i want to create a life, raise it, and love it unconditionally as i watch him grow into a man with kids of his own..... OR..... i need to get some fresh dikk







anyways.... vids and pics of this woman... and yes her husband definitely won getting a younger broad

You missed it. I believe she was unhappy about childern for years thinking she could convince the guy. The "spark" wasn't the only thing wrong with the marriage.

Do I believe that was the reason she wanted to cheat then took a break? Heck no. She was just ready to move on. Her saying that sounds childish and spiteful. "You don't want to give me a kid? Fine I'm going to go sleep with a bunch of people!" Do I beleive she is telling herself that to make her feel better? Yup. I had already stated she was throwing the childern thing in as an excuse.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Behaving like a teenage slut when you're in your 50s is not a W

Again to you. What you think is a W doesn't matter. She's living her life exactly how she wants. Sorry that's not losing. Even if it bothers you.

 

[Gold]

Why did you marry someone who had different beliefs as you on someting a major as that? Then used that to justify it.

People are really... really fukkin lazy when it comes to marriage.

People start off like "I gotta marry someone of my race, same religious views, same family views, loyal, etc etc"
And then end up with some attractive, aint shyt person who doesn't have the same views on anything they do

I've lot a lot of friends by being honest with them when they ask me for relationship advice.

 

[DrHackenbush]

Again to you. What you think is a W doesn't matter. She's living her life exactly how she wants. Sorry that's not losing. Even if it bothers you.

It doesn't bother me, it's only an observation