"My Husband Let Me Take a Year Off From Our Marriage — Here's What Happened"
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#GMB wins again
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Spades Of Aces
The Infinity Watcher
She would have left anyways....a man can give a woman the stars and all the planets and she will leave you for a bum ass nikka who sweet talks her and gives her the moon.
bytches be fickle as fukk...doesnt matter how good he dikked her down she WANTED TO fukk OTHER PEOPLE... what part of that do you not understand???
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It sure is easy to tell someone else how to live their relationships, 18 years no less
If the spark is gone and sex ain't poppin trouble is brewin. They made a responsible and mutual agreement. Things could have been wildly different/worse.
It was more than the spark
she wanted children and he didn't that's major. They should have never been married. After years of with someone and being unhappy because you want children, you decide the way to fix it is sleeping around. Then get divorced anyway. She was fed up with him not giving her kids.She was no longer in the marriage from jump. She didn't go to counseling or talk to him about what they could do. She decided she wanted to see other people and told him about it. He agreed which is fine, their life. But be real. This was never an attempt to save anything. She just wanted to keep her foot in the door in case it went horribly wrong.
Whatever dude, I couldn't give a fukk less. You, however, sound invested in thisIt was more than the spark
She was no longer in the marriage from jump. She didn't go to counseling or talk to him about what they could do. She decided she wanted to see other people and told him about it. He agreed which is fine, their life. But be real. This was never an attempt to save anything. She just wanted to keep her foot in the door in case it went horribly wrong.
Whatever dude, I couldn't give a fukk less. You, however, sound invested in this
How do I sound invested when I haven't been in the thread since this morning? You quoted me and I replied.
Dont we do the same thing as men? I mean we go out the country and we're on top of foreign brawds like white on rice. We also often find ourselves between the thighs of another woman who isnt our wives..
We're only human. ANd i dont blame us for it. I blame the fact that traditional marriages are too restrictive. You call these women whores well perhaps it's natural for humans to whore around. Could you imagine living life the way man's bible intended? Having been with just one woman all you life?
To me thats a prison sentence that never ends.
No, we don't...........Let me make myself clear speak for yourself and only yourself.nikka's like you and Thots kill me with this shyt.
@Spotlessmind Your breakdown gave off the impression of someone who gave a shyt more than anyone else in this thread.
The Devil's Advocate
Call me Dad
i will say this.... shyt CAN work like thisOld story...
but whatever....stupid to do this, just divorce and start over. To me, she did THE MOST just to end up where probably 90% of us (the readers) knew she would.
I mean, that's not an experiment, that's a whole new life...she rented a place out and only came home on the weekends. I mean, what kind of marriage/relationship did she expect to keep up that way? She threw away a lifeless marriage for the opportunity to have as much younger dikk as she could handle, she probably shouldn't have married in the first place.
I'm just trying to figure out what was the goal in this? To save the marriage? (by sleeping with whomever, whenever you want?yeah ok, that'll work with no problems
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To "find" herself?
All in all, I just feel people use ANY excuse to do what they ultimately want to do anyway...This (the experiment or the marriage) was doomed from the beginning
i've had relationships were it was ok.. but not on some "oh my god i can't live without you" type of shyt... so we go ahead and take a break.... go fukk other people... but still kinda talk.....
and at the end of all that fukking... you realize the rest of these bytches really ain't shyt, and don't compare to your girl, so you go ahead and get that back
just so happens this other nikka was knocking the walls out her ass and made her realize her husband was lame... instead of these other nikkas being lame and making her realize her husband is that nikka
Some people take marriage and relationships seriously. Motherfukkers out here treating it like a science experiment.
Lmao!! So that's the type of games you want to play with women all your life? Pretending you don't want something you really do just so she can behave the way you want? A life of fukking reverse psychology. fukk that.
you speaketh 100% facts!!!
I had to learn the TRUTH OF WHAT REALLY GOES DOWN IN A WOMAN'S PSYCHE from a book several years ago...
which basically shattered EVERY MYTH i assumed true about women....(women value monogomy more than men...sex is not a primary thought in thier minds...sex is a more emotional ideal than physical for women)
the book i picked up i recommend for everyone said exactly what you said...that WOMEN have been oppressed from thier TRUE NATURE and made to feel like WHORES, SLUTS and WICKED WOMEN if they didn't conform to so-called standards and conceptions of what being a lady is..
this is THAT book...go cop that
Not to mention ...cats like Jay-z further enlightned me on the nature of a woman when he said............
"She used to love ya, but she feeling different today
You used to smother her, look at your honey slippin' away
Consorting with hustlers, nikkas that be giving her space
She said she feel free when she's around me
I'm letting her do her and in turn she's doing me
i can testify to the TROOF of that statement!!!!!!!!...i get more "enjoyment" and satisfaction from a woman when im NOT cuffing her to be "exclusive" or monogomous with me.....at the end of the day the WOMAN will choose whom she wants to cling to
just got a text from my ex....saying how she like to "come over" and play dominoes ..ever since i basically stop keeping up with her.....just playing distant......
The Devil's Advocate
Call me Dad
yea but you're missing the part where she said she was going to cheat either way... not leave him like a stand up person... but she "just knew" she was about to have an affair
then this was her idea.. to have this open marriage... he didn't come to her with this nonsense
then while he found another girl.... this bytch out here fukking 12 different people in the span of a year, sleeping with women, and having threesomes and shyt
but we supposed to believe in marriage and shacking up for 60 years is really a viable option?
Shut your borderline retarded ass up
Followers get what they deserve then.