Its all new to me shytttttt
We werent doing these types of things in middle school.
My God Sister said some of the most saddest **** to me today
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Its all new to me shytttttt
We werent doing these types of things in middle school.
Idon'tWannaillIjustchill
Reppin' Beautiful Buds
shyt is messed up mayne.. Where all the parents at. I think you just need to make sure that ol girl knows that doing that stuff doesn't make you cool, and even though a lot of people may be doing it around you, it isn't. There has gotta be some "normal" kids around her, somewhere, with good parents?Same thing I said
We were still bragging about who had the most fun on spring break at kiddy land or a water park or something. These kids now at days bragging about who got the most head, types of liquor and weed they got fukked up on during spring break.
Being the cool older person is one thing, but if you still have time to get through to her before her peers do, I say use every tool you have.
This is some "if I can save only one" type moment. Do what you gotta. Chances are if she can get through the next few years without getting caught up then she might just be able to develop that confidence that will carry her through early 20s without falling prey to the BS
This is some "if I can save only one" type moment. Do what you gotta. Chances are if she can get through the next few years without getting caught up then she might just be able to develop that confidence that will carry her through early 20s without falling prey to the BS
I graduated from high school in 09...I aint old or anything but back wasnt anyone doing these types of things back when I was in middle school
Damn son, If I were to guess the hoe pioneers started around 7th grade, but doing drugs and getting wasted?
Getting handies in the back of the bus is different from all that, why it got to be this way brehs
Because men want women to have the bedroom skills of pornstars by the time they're 18.
I didnt even know it at the time, but one the saddest things was when i was like in 5th grade my homie who was around my age was talking about killing these nikkas he was beefin with, who was our age too. nikka was dead serious too 
I'm 21 yrs old. Oral sex in 5th grade?
Yeah mane fifth grade she could be 12 with a minstrel cycle... did u go to private school?
Libra Lady
All Star
I think that you need to tell her that at such a young age, she should continue to stay focused on her schooling. Also stress that while it may seem that everyone is behaving in such activities, not everyone is and that in itself makes her special.
Let her know that being a kid doesn't last long, and she will have her entire life to engage in adult behavior. Also point out that as a female she will be judged more harsh as time goes on. Tell her that trying to get rid of a bad reputation is like trying to un-ring a bell.
I also think that you should speak to her parents. It's very hard to try to keep things under control, when you aren't physically there.
Let her know that being a kid doesn't last long, and she will have her entire life to engage in adult behavior. Also point out that as a female she will be judged more harsh as time goes on. Tell her that trying to get rid of a bad reputation is like trying to un-ring a bell.
I also think that you should speak to her parents. It's very hard to try to keep things under control, when you aren't physically there.
Kids don't listen unless your 100% there.
I remember my brother writing me letters in the pen talking about don't be a thug , don't sell drugs blah blah shyt aint cool, I was 13 at the time so I was like
13 year old me :Sell drugs , please
16 year old me: Selling drugs aint so bad
See this right here!
I'm visiting my god parents for 2 weeks this summer....hopefully I can change her mindset about a lot of things.
Sierra Mist
Banned
I'm 21 yrs old. Oral sex in 5th grade?
I'm older than you and that shyt was going on in 5th grade. And I've never lived in the "hood" either. I remember there being a fire drill and she took like 5 guys behind the bleachers and gave them head. This isn't new by any means. If you had your eyes and ears open you would notice these things.
nah....I went to a magnet school...grades 6th-12th. I guess my classmates were either real good at hiding this shyt or we were "prunes"
I hate to break it to u breh but I cant remember a time where those things weren't considered cool? Maybe the 50's?
These kids grow up faster every generation, so it's not shook to me that it's not cool in Junior High.
Just let her now that it takes a strong individual to do whats right when everyone around them is doing wrong.
I told my brother who is about to graduate High School tomorrow that it's almost sad that decisions you make in your life b4 you are even old enough to understand the decisions your making (Junior High - High School) can and will effect the rest of your life. The game starts whether you are ready or not, while your in school bullshytting you may just may be ruining the rest of your life and not know it.
These kids grow up faster every generation, so it's not shook to me that it's not cool in Junior High.
Just let her now that it takes a strong individual to do whats right when everyone around them is doing wrong.
I told my brother who is about to graduate High School tomorrow that it's almost sad that decisions you make in your life b4 you are even old enough to understand the decisions your making (Junior High - High School) can and will effect the rest of your life. The game starts whether you are ready or not, while your in school bullshytting you may just may be ruining the rest of your life and not know it.
