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look fam..it's more chicks out there tryna be strippers than EVER before cause of the news traveling faster...what's good and bad is getting blurred and the internet and fast age is desensitizing people to alot of shyt...and being how easy it is to influence kids...growing up in an age like this u dont think it affected them at all?..really?..come on fam...this aint even really up for debate...

Again, I don't agree.
I don't put the old days on a pedestal.
 

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Again, I don't agree.
I don't put the old days on a pedestal.

I don't either...but when literally most females I run into is willing to be a stripper and take pole dancing lessons..u tellin me it was like that before?..come the fukk on son..lol...I know chicks who became strippers to pay a damn phone bill...and not catch no kinda flack for it either...twerk team...all these strippers getting famous FOR BEING STRIPPERS...so u sayin it was always like that?..like I said..this shyt was ALWAYS goin on..but it's goin on at a faster and higher rate now...reason for that is cause EVERYTHING is faster...I mean bytches get on webcams and take off clothes like it aint nothin these days...
 

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I don't either...but when literally most females I run into is willing to be a stripper and take pole dancing lessons..u tellin me it was like that before?..come the fukk on son..lol...I know chicks who became strippers to pay a damn phone bill...and not catch no kinda flack for it either...twerk team...all these strippers getting famous FOR BEING STRIPPERS...so u sayin it was always like that?..like I said..this shyt was ALWAYS goin on..but it's goin on at a faster and higher rate now...reason for that is cause EVERYTHING is faster...I mean bytches get on webcams and take off clothes like it aint nothin these days...

stripping and all that other shyt always sees a serious jump in a terrible economy,
that isn't new though
 

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stripping and all that other shyt always sees a serious jump in a terrible economy,
that isn't new though

who said it was new?...I just said it's more rampant than before...that's all...there's less embarrassment surrounding it now...it's actually becoming the cool thing to do...when that happens..its a makes a difference...
 

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I graduated high school in 2008 and all of these things were going on when I was 12. Once puberty hits they are going to become curious about the world around them and start to carve out their own identity. If a parent raises their child to have healthy self esteem the child will be fine. They wont do things they are uncomfortable with just to be accepted.

People need to also accept that kids will experiment at some point in their life and that is not a bad thing at all. People need to go through shyt the hard way in order to understand sometimes. All the pep talks in the world wont stop it. If you did your job correctly as a parent, then you should trust your child.
 

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Good topic OP..........I do notice that nowadays, interracial relationships are starting earlier in middle and high school too. :manny: .... I think you doing the right thing though, being an advocate and advisor. Just got to make sure she stays busy.....instruments, sports/martial arts, girl scouts, SGA, tell her to write a book/ebook and market it on the internet before she's 18 (or any kind of entrepreneurial activity while she is young and few responsibilities). By the time she hits her senior year she willl be a Renaissance young woman.

I get it. She's female, hormones are making their debut, and she is going to want to "have fun" as most kids would, and she's going to feel like she's missing out. So all I can say is that you should guide her and say your priorities should be thinking about careers and to graduate from high school with a 4 year college scholarship, that should be her goal for the next 5 years. Hence, she can spend time looking at careers and what programs/scholarships they offer NOW...not later, making the process easier by the time her Senior year comes around. Thus, getting in trouble, having baby early, all the other ramifications of "wildin out" will prevent that.....and that she must be see that life is even better when you are an independent adult. HELLA EASIER SAID THAN DONE, BUT NOT REALLY....

You might can't stop her, but at least she'll have a target/ultimate goal, and think about her actions/moderate them, cause it will affect her hitting that target.
 

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who said it was new?...I just said it's more rampant than before...that's all...there's less embarrassment surrounding it now...it's actually becoming the cool thing to do...when that happens..its a makes a difference...

that's because we don't live in Afghanistan, countries with the most liberal sexual attitudes generally tend to be better places to live in general, nobody wants to live in a some backwards third world society here in America
 
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