My friends wife wants him to stop skyping his ex

[Drew Wonder]

i just peeped the triple-entendre

don't even ask me how

 

[kevm3]

Your potna also needs to set some boundaries and a cut-off date with the ex to respect his marriage as well. He's going to have to sit down and talk with his ex and let her know that as a married man, the talks they are having eventually will have to come to a stop, but at the most he will be there for a little while just to help her get her mind straight and that his wife will be in on the conversations in respect to his wife. He should be up front with his ex and let her know that it WILL come to an end, but also ease himself out of her life just to give her time to adjust.

He will also have to let his wife know what it is he will do and then roll with the plan from there. Bring the wife in on the conversations so she can get an idea of what is going on. You never want to come off as being a sneaky dude because it will make HER start thinking about being sneaky. He willingly opened the door with his ex and she is very vulnerable now and dependent on him, so it wouldn't be right for him to just abandon her out of the blue, but he has to do what he has to do in respect to the marriage... He has to give his ex that understanding to where she can say, "I see where you're coming from and I understand. Him being firm, but giving her time to prepare will allow him to smoothly exit from the ex's life.

 

[iamstr8fire]

Para-Lies

Written and Directed by Tyler Perry

Starring Morris Chestnut as Dexter Warrington

Nicole Ari Parker as Cassandra Warrington

Robin Givens as Teresa Champion, Dexter's crippled ex

Anthony Anderson as Bravo

Special appearance by Tyler Perry in a duel role as Madea and Teresa's Doctor

Con Edison flow I'm connected to a higher power

 

[Blown Moon]

If you can't tell the difference between a girl that you want to be with more than you want to be with your wife and a normal friend, then I can't help you there. This is why I said a lot of men don't believe in emotional affairs.

I don't think he wants to be with his ex more than his current, he just wants to be there for her.

I'll have to put myself with men who don't believe in it, an affair is a sexual exchange between me and someone else besides my s/o in my book.

 

[Metta World Movement]

I see a lotta people in this thread tryna flip it, and say if this was a wife contacting her crippled ex, most nikkas in here would be telling the husband to either put her in check or leave her

So we gonna act like in that same scenario, we wouldn't have bytches (and bytchmade nikkas) on here clowning the husband, and acting like he's insecure for showing support to her ex?

As if there wouldn't be any " damn nikka, she just talkin' to dude, and he crippled anyway" replies, no "you can't tell her who she can and can't talk to" replies....no jokes about him being scared his wife will leave him for paralyzed dikk

We just had a thread where nikkas was gettin' clowned for not wanting to wife women who like to hit up the club often.....people was callin' those nikkas insecure.....yet in THIS thread (where the husband is the one doing the 'questionable' shyt) y'all wanna talk about boundaries and respecting the spouse and the relationship? Get the ENTIRE fukk outta here.

 

[Slaimon Khan Shah]

@Slaimon get in here and share your opinion breh

THANK YOU. MY OPINION IS JUST DO YOUR BEST IN LIFE UNTIL YOU DIE.

 

[Black]

To think if he never got married he wouldn't have these problems.

 

[Buckeye Fever]

My homie went to visit his wife at work and she left him in her office to go to the restroom and while she was gone, he saw an instant message conversation she was havin with her ex. She forgot to log out and my homie found out she was making plans to take off work the following Friday to meet up with her ex at a hotel in Peoria, IL.

 

[MikelArteta]

In that tyler perry she didnt go back to her pralyzed ex

Sent from royalty breh

 

[nineteeneightysix]

If he values his marriage, he should follow his wife's wishes. It honestly sounds like the start to an emotional affair, which is cheating.

There is no such thing as an "emotional affair"...What the hell is that? hahahaha...

1) Dude obviously married a jerk of a woman...

2) He should tell his wife that he will stop skyping his friend, and explain to the friend what is happening with the wife, and let her know that he will continue to support her, but secretly...

3) If his wife doesn't believe and trust that he has already committed to her, then the relationship is already built on sand, and it wont last (if a storm comes through in their lives)...

Honestly, if I was married to a woman so insecure, that she would not let me support a friend in such a terrible time in her life, I don't care if my wife divorces, I will not abandon a friend when she is need...

 

[BlvdBrawler]

There is no such thing as an "emotional affair"...What the hell is that? hahahaha...

1) Dude obviously married a jerk of a woman...

2) He should tell his wife that he will stop skyping his friend, and explain to the friend what is happening with the wife, and let her know that he will continue to support her, but secretly...

3) If his wife doesn't believe and trust that he has already committed to her, then the relationship is already built on sand, and it wont last (if a storm comes through in their lives)...

Honestly, if I was married to a woman so insecure, that she would not let me support a friend in such a terrible time in her life, I don't care if my wife divorces, I will not abandon a friend when she is need...

 

[TELL ME YA CHEESIN FAM?]

Demonic ass wife

i'd divorce a woman over some shyt like that..straight up

she didnt turn selfish and insecure overnight..he knew who he was marrying
fukk em both

 

[newworldafro]

emotionally cheating?? ....... ....

 

[Nemesis]

Demonic ass wife

i'd divorce a woman over some shyt like that..straight up

she didnt turn selfish and insecure overnight..he knew who he was marrying
fukk em both

Truth

..... Im a person that is strong on loyalty.... If my wife couldnt understand that then shes obviously not the right woman for me....

your friend is obviously just trying to be a decent person and do the right thing

Woman must be going through hell wondering whether she will ever walk again, I would be absolutely devastated If that happened to me.....

To be in one of the worst situations a person can think of and all the wife is concerned with is her petty jealousy makes her seem a bit of a bytch to be honest

The bottom line is this for everyone reading this thread someone somewhere wants your girl/man... you might know them you might not....so what are you gonna do? lock them away?

If someone wants to cheat they will cheat its that simple....

It always comes down to trust....If you dont trust the person you are with you shouldnt be with them


If I were your friend I would ask my wife "do you trust me? and If you do then it doesnt matter whether ol girl wants me or not Im with you and nothing is gonna happen


at the same time he has to respect his wife and make sure old girl doesnt overstep any boundries

 

[Dada]

I'm a day late and a dollar short but I'll add my opinion for the heck of it:

That's great that he got back in contact with her and they remain friends. His wife does have a point if he's carrying on an emotional affair with her. There are ways you communicate as friends and there ways you can cross the intimacy line. Not seeing what's going down, who knows, but wheelchair or not she's still a woman (a human being with whom he can connect emotionally, whether platonically or romantically) or mean she doesn't still get it in (I know a guy who is paralyzed and he still has sex..says it's emotional/sensual).

The new demonic smiley scared the crap out of me as I was scrolling down.