My Ex Got Engaged, Keeps Blowing up my Phone :UPDATE: Blocked her and told her to not txt

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Did you get a pic of a ring yet?

Sounds like she wants you to save her... :sas2:
 

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So my Ex got engaged on New Years Day

She called me to let me know that she was engaged to a "Rich Nigerian Doctor" (her words).
I said congrats and kept it moving.

Its been 7 days and she's texted me on 7 different occasions since then.

Asking me shyt like:
-"Would it be weird if I invited you to the wedding?"
-"Did you ever think I would get married so fast?"
-"You guys have similar builds. He's tall like you"
-"There is nothing like true love! I cant wait for you to experience what I'm feeling now"


I just responded with stuff like "I'm happy for you" and "Wow that's amazing"

She's not the petty type but... But in the back of my head... :patrice:

It doesn't help that she lives in walking distance from me and I see her running or shopping regularly.


I told my girl and she told me that she doesn't trust her.:usure:



I'm doing my best to politely ignore it but... Is this even an issue? What does this mean? Brehettes help me out.


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Hello from the other siii- er, wait. :jbhmm:

She lives within walking distance from you and is engaged, but she still lives separate from Igbo Heathcliff Huxtable? And you still feeling her cause you ain't blocked her goofy ass from your phone even though your new chick ain't cool with this shyt? And if you fukked up and messed with this chick it would be a mistake because even if she dropped Cliff for you it just makes it more blatant that she's a goofy ass chick playing goofy ass games to get back with an ex? That she's not to be trusted?

That if you were serious about your chick you would answer the next call from this chick like, "Ay baby girl, I want you to know I'm truly happy for you. We just weren't meant to be but I always knew you were special and another guy would scoop you up, so I'm glad to hear you got a man who's worthy of you. I'm with someone who's special to me and we're trying to build something, and I don't mean to be rude but it would be very unfair to her, and to your fiancée, for us to continue communicating like this. I wish you the best, though, and I'll always be grateful for our time together. Muddasucka, I can't get jiggy wit dis shyt!"
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Breh I don't mean to sound like a dikk but you acting like a gullible ass nikka right now "but she's not that way". Come on nikka she broke up with you and now that narcissistic ass bytch is tryna rub it in your face. I dated a bytch like this once and trust me breh she has absolutely no feelings for you she just a thot riding the marry go round. Call her ass up...hold up you call me and well call her ass up and tell that Bytch to kick rocks. Trust me breh this bytch is an undercover thot just looking for the next best thing.
 

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This is just a chick wanting attention. She wants her "hollywood" moment, two men vying for her and she's conflicted and crying to her female friends. It's all about attention.





You know that's Nigerian parent talk. But they don't talk about the 300k loan for school and the other 300k for the practice since you know we don't get in the really good hospital positions like that. Our community is good for half way bragging.

Unless they got a scholarship, or even received money to go to a particular school. It happens.
:what: So 150-300k ain't rich especially considering you can use that money to invest in other areas with ease?

No it isn't, especially if you have kids and debt and live somewhere like CA or NY.

If you're child free, debt free, and budget your money correctly, then you can eventually become rich through investing and saving however.
 
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