I had my homeboy's girl get mad at me, wondering why I deleted her off of yahoo. I told her when ya'll broke up back then I had to do it. What it look like if we all cool while you and my boy are broke up.
Thing is, your boy's girl knows what she is doing. She's not going to outwardly jump on your lap so to speak, but from her availablility, you can definitely tell her interest in you. It's out of pocket behavior on her part for her to be touching you on the knee, which is a sign of interest and to add you on facebook out the blue and to try and have conversations with you. If you let HER tell it, she's going to talk about oh it's just innocent. We're friends. Why are you so insecure? You know the first person she's going to run to when she is having problems with her boy? YOU. On some, well he's not treating me right... followed by complimenting you in some manner. "I wish he could be more like you." These females love to build options on the sneak. You got to be extra careful when dealing with the girls of your friends because they know your boys and your boys are so emotionally caught up with them they can manipulate perception and make you look like you were doing wrong when it's them. YOU know you aren't going to let it go further, but from the perception of it all, your boy isn't privy to your deepest interior thinking, so he's like what in the world is my girl on my boy's page liking all of his stuff and they're having conversations? What's really going on there? Perception is just as powerful to one's beliefs as what may really be occurring, if not more in many cases. You always have to be guarded with your boys' girls because they are the ones doing wrong but will flip it on you in an instant.
The final point is we cannot expect our boys to live the same principled lifestyle as us, because they may not have been reared on that or have had the experience that would snap them into thinking how we think. It's a bitter pill even for those who have been conditioned to see their woman just outwardly show interest in another man despite all of their investment, much less someone who is not principled. Best solution? Never be friends/buds with your homeboys' girls, but be cordial in her presence. Always limit personal conversations to a way which ups your boy... If she brings you a problem, you can say, well i know my boy wants to end up doing right by you, so best solution is for you two to talk about it. These kind of things will go a very long way in not allowing a woman to kick dirt between you and your compadres.
Thing is, your boy's girl knows what she is doing. She's not going to outwardly jump on your lap so to speak, but from her availablility, you can definitely tell her interest in you. It's out of pocket behavior on her part for her to be touching you on the knee, which is a sign of interest and to add you on facebook out the blue and to try and have conversations with you. If you let HER tell it, she's going to talk about oh it's just innocent. We're friends. Why are you so insecure? You know the first person she's going to run to when she is having problems with her boy? YOU. On some, well he's not treating me right... followed by complimenting you in some manner. "I wish he could be more like you." These females love to build options on the sneak. You got to be extra careful when dealing with the girls of your friends because they know your boys and your boys are so emotionally caught up with them they can manipulate perception and make you look like you were doing wrong when it's them. YOU know you aren't going to let it go further, but from the perception of it all, your boy isn't privy to your deepest interior thinking, so he's like what in the world is my girl on my boy's page liking all of his stuff and they're having conversations? What's really going on there? Perception is just as powerful to one's beliefs as what may really be occurring, if not more in many cases. You always have to be guarded with your boys' girls because they are the ones doing wrong but will flip it on you in an instant.
The final point is we cannot expect our boys to live the same principled lifestyle as us, because they may not have been reared on that or have had the experience that would snap them into thinking how we think. It's a bitter pill even for those who have been conditioned to see their woman just outwardly show interest in another man despite all of their investment, much less someone who is not principled. Best solution? Never be friends/buds with your homeboys' girls, but be cordial in her presence. Always limit personal conversations to a way which ups your boy... If she brings you a problem, you can say, well i know my boy wants to end up doing right by you, so best solution is for you two to talk about it. These kind of things will go a very long way in not allowing a woman to kick dirt between you and your compadres.
over OP's words.... The broad know what she's doing. OP should just cut bait with 1) the dirty broad and 2) his weak mans.
ya you that important
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