My boy thinks I'm trying to smash his chick

[Gallo]

True, but trust me, it's a lot more trickier than that.

If he saw her in his page already, why didn't his friend say something
to him then? Before she started liking all of his posts.

Folks become real gotdamn insecure when they go into relationships.
As long as Sharp stayed in his place, he's good.

Why create a problem before it becomes a problem and jeopardize a friendship? Sounds like his friend was already insecure to begin with.

And they all hanging out together too...

Well that's why i called his boy a bytch as well. His boys insecurity is the main problem, the second problem is the OP. If he's truly his boy there is nothing to shooting him a quick message. If he's messaging and talking to his girl and his boy doesn't know about it, i wouldn't be surprise if he thinks his boy(OP) is not keeping it 100. The whole create a problem before it becomes a problem, nah, you keep it 100 with your boy at all times, period. If that jeopardizes the friendship, then good riddance.

 

[ThumpDaddy]

Man, you did right. To me both are wrong, she was playing up to you and then he was being insecure by trying to check you when if he felt that way he should of checked her. When dealing with friends and their S/O's it really doesn't end well. I would just remove myself from the situation the best that you can. If "They" are going out somewhere, just respectfully decline.

 

[BedRoomI'z]

Man, you did right. To me both are wrong, she was playing up to you and then he was being insecure by trying to check you when if he felt that way he should of checked her. When dealing with friends and their S/O's it really doesn't end well. I would just remove myself from the situation the best that you can. If "They" are going out somewhere, just respectfully decline.

real fukking shyt

even if he had said something, it wouldn't have done any fukking good.

your boy know what type of bytch he has, why allow those vines to choke
the friendship?

real friends work in the best interest of the friend, sometimes, w/o them knowing

 

[Doin2Much Williams]

Irregardless... The whole dilemma would definitely give your ego a Boost. Nutritional drink.


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[Sharp]

just ignore her and let him know. dont do nothing stupid, even if you think you choosing her, she's gonna choose him back right after. its a lose/lose, that hoe aint worth it for you or your boy

I'm not even trying to get at her and she hasn't flirted with me or said anything sexual. He actually told her to add me as a FB friend because I be saying some profound stuff on my page. I don't think she's trying to get at me. She PMs me on FB, but that's the only way she can get in touch with me. She doesn't have my number and she's not getting it.

Well that's why i called his boy a bytch as well. His boys insecurity is the main problem, the second problem is the OP. If he's truly his boy there is nothing to shooting him a quick message. If he's messaging and talking to his girl and his boy doesn't know about it, i wouldn't be surprise if he thinks his boy(OP) is not keeping it 100. The whole create a problem before it becomes a problem, nah, you keep it 100 with your boy at all times, period.

He knows that she messages me. I told him that much. I told him that it don't really be about shyt, but I question if he believes me.

Man, you did right. To me both are wrong, she was playing up to you and then he was being insecure by trying to check you when if he felt that way he should of checked her. When dealing with friends and their S/O's it really doesn't end well. I would just remove myself from the situation the best that you can. If "They" are going out somewhere, just respectfully decline.

I think the real problem is that he got jealous because she always came back to him amazed about some of the things I said on my page. Giving me mad compliments about my intelligence and stuff like that. They would have conversations about some statement I made on FB. I don't want his girl, nor would I even try. Like I said, she hasn't tried me or made any sexual comments... but I feel you guys. I just need to stay away from that situation.

 

[Carolina Slim]

I think the thing is your mans sounds like a weak nikka, at least for this girl. She go telling him about some stuff you spit on FB like and he all mad cause she sees his FB posts like . Now he wanna get mad at you on some cause his girl digs your stuff more than his.

 

[Nintendough]

Peep this...

Few weeks back I'm chillin at my boy's crib with him and his girl. This is the first time I met her. So all of three of us are on the couch having a conversation with her sitting between both of us. When she talks she happens to touch my knee frequently with her hand, but I didn't think nothing of it, cause she would touch my man's knee too. When I left that night, she kissed me on the cheek.. of course I didn't think anything of it, considering it is customary.

I guess my boy must of given her my full name because she tried to add me as a friend on FB, but I didn't accept. I mean, what do I look like adding a chick I don't know, let alone she is my man's girl. So she messages me on FB like "How come you aren't accepting me as a friend." I responded "I usually don't add my friend's girlfriends". So she messages back a couple of minutes later "well let's get to know each other so we can be friends".

She started asking me questions, really minor stuff.. nothing to get suspicious about. I responded since they were harmless. So my dumbass added her as a friend. Next thing you know she's liking almost everything I post. My boy is my friend on my page too. He kinda got tight on some "Why is she liking everything you post?"

Now, I know I'm not f*king with her or doing some foul shyt, but it seems like he thinks me and her got something going on, cause he never comes to get me when she's around like he used to (not that I care). But I just wanna tell the dude to relax and to know that I won't snake him.

How do I get this across to him that I don't want his girl, or do I just let the shyt go? She still does private message me, but never on some next sh*t. Did I do something foul? I think I kept it 100.

He is either insecure for no reason or he probably knows she doesn't respect him so he has to watch everything like a hawk.

 

[L&HH]

The problem isn't the girl. The problem is you and your boy. Hoes gonna hoe, with you or some other dude. She's irrelevant. You already snaked him when you didn't tell him about the messages and her trying to add you on Facebook.

Your boy is a bytch and snake as well cause instead of checking his girl, he checked you. That tells me he's insecure - a real dude knows no one can take his broad if she honestly is his. If anything, him being your mans, he should let you make a move on her to see what type of chick he's dealing with. When me and my current girl were dating, I let 3 of my wolves make a move on her. They all failed, I knew they would, that's how i knew she was a keeper. If they had succeeded, then props to my wolves and on to the next chick. That's how real dudes roll. You and your friend need to stop acting like b1tches over a broad.

This. I wouldnt necessarily tell my nikkas to make a move on my bytch but if they did fukk then hey they was doing me a favor. If she going fukk your mans and dem, you was prolly sharin that girl to begin with. But yea ur mans sound mad insecure.

 

[Mr Uncle Leroy]

reminds me of the post I made about the folks I met...

I was playing it neutral...

as for the chick...ignore her...texts...advances...she is flirtatious

keep it cool with the homie

 

[Gallo]

This. I wouldnt necessarily tell my nikkas to make a move on my bytch but if they did fukk then hey they was doing me a favor. If she going fukk your mans and dem, you was prolly sharin that girl to begin with.

Haha we were seeing each other for only a short period and I was seeing other girls as well. I was trying to get rid of her to be honest. She and her friends were coming out and I told all 3 of my boys that she was fair game. I thought it was funny watching them get shot down one by one. After seeing each other a few more times she asked me to "be together" (be exclusive) and that was that.

Agreed with everything else.

 

[Art Barr]

why are you on facebook, is my question?


seems to me that is the problem.

you should not be available to anyone.

who can google you and then contact you so readily.

anyway,...your guy is also the problem.

as you should not be around when he is with his girl.

for future reference,..your love life is separate from your friends.

women, i have as lovers never meet my friends.

as it spells a recipe for disaster and nobody needs to know what female you smashing but you.





art barr

 

[Ethnic Vagina Finder]

you're friends with her on facebook and yet I stil don't see no pics in this thread.

I'm starting to think this story is either happening to somebody else or completely

 

[shopthatwrecks]

Peep this...

Few weeks back I'm chillin at my boy's crib with him and his girl. This is the first time I met her. So all of three of us are on the couch having a conversation with her sitting between both of us. When she talks she happens to touch my knee frequently with her hand, but I didn't think nothing of it, cause she would touch my man's knee too. When I left that night, she kissed me on the cheek.. of course I didn't think anything of it, considering it is customary.

I guess my boy must of given her my full name because she tried to add me as a friend on FB, but I didn't accept. I mean, what do I look like adding a chick I don't know, let alone she is my man's girl. So she messages me on FB like "How come you aren't accepting me as a friend." I responded "I usually don't add my friend's girlfriends". So she messages back a couple of minutes later "well let's get to know each other so we can be friends".

She started asking me questions, really minor stuff.. nothing to get suspicious about. I responded since they were harmless. So my dumbass added her as a friend. Next thing you know she's liking almost everything I post. My boy is my friend on my page too. He kinda got tight on some "Why is she liking everything you post?"

Now, I know I'm not f*king with her or doing some foul shyt, but it seems like he thinks me and her got something going on, cause he never comes to get me when she's around like he used to (not that I care). But I just wanna tell the dude to relax and to know that I won't snake him.

How do I get this across to him that I don't want his girl, or do I just let the shyt go? She still does private message me, but never on some next sh*t. Did I do something foul? I think I kept it 100.

fukk her..get it over with...u violated breakin ya rule...of not adding ya potnas gal..

not to mention she kissed u first...if he didnt check her then..thats p*ssy for u to take..he cant control his broad..


let one of my potnas gals kiss me...promise u i am testin depth

 

[whatthatthangsmelllike]

He sharing, u gonna share?

 

[SuikodenII]

The problem isn't the girl. The problem is you and your boy. Hoes gonna hoe, with you or some other dude. She's irrelevant. You already snaked him when you didn't tell him about the messages and her trying to add you on Facebook.

Your boy is a bytch and snake as well cause instead of checking his girl, he checked you. That tells me he's insecure - a real dude knows no one can take his broad if she honestly is his. If anything, him being your mans, he should let you make a move on her to see what type of chick he's dealing with. When me and my current girl were dating, I let 3 of my wolves make a move on her. They all failed, I knew they would, that's how i knew she was a keeper. If they had succeeded, then props to my wolves and on to the next chick. That's how real dudes roll. You and your friend need to stop acting like b1tches over a broad.

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