My boy thinks I'm trying to smash his chick

[Sharp]

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Few weeks back I'm chillin at my boy's crib with him and his girl. This is the first time I met her. So all of three of us are on the couch having a conversation with her sitting between both of us. When she talks she happens to touch my knee frequently with her hand, but I didn't think nothing of it, cause she would touch my man's knee too. When I left that night, she kissed me on the cheek.. of course I didn't think anything of it, considering it is customary.

I guess my boy must of given her my full name because she tried to add me as a friend on FB, but I didn't accept. I mean, what do I look like adding a chick I don't know, let alone she is my man's girl. So she messages me on FB like "How come you aren't accepting me as a friend." I responded "I usually don't add my friend's girlfriends". So she messages back a couple of minutes later "well let's get to know each other so we can be friends".

She started asking me questions, really minor stuff.. nothing to get suspicious about. I responded since they were harmless. So my dumbass added her as a friend. Next thing you know she's liking almost everything I post. My boy is my friend on my page too. He kinda got tight on some "Why is she liking everything you post?"

Now, I know I'm not f*king with her or doing some foul shyt, but it seems like he thinks me and her got something going on, cause he never comes to get me when she's around like he used to (not that I care). But I just wanna tell the dude to relax and to know that I won't snake him.

How do I get this across to him that I don't want his girl, or do I just let the shyt go? She still does private message me, but never on some next sh*t. Did I do something foul? I think I kept it 100.

 

[Son Of God]

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Few weeks back I'm chillin at my boy's crib with him and his girl. This is the first time I met her. So all of three of us are on the couch having a conversation with her sitting between both of us. When she talks she happens to touch my knee frequently with her hand, but I didn't think nothing of it, cause she would touch my man's knee too. When I left that night, she kissed me on the cheek.. of course I didn't think anything of it, considering it is customary.

I guess my boy must of given her my full name because she tried to add me as a friend on FB, but I didn't accept. I mean, what do I look like adding a chick I don't know, let alone she is my man's girl. So she messages me on FB like "How come you aren't accepting me as a friend." I responded "I usually don't add my friend's girlfriends". So she messages back a couple of minutes later "well let's get to know each other so we can be friends".

She started asking me questions, really minor stuff.. nothing to get suspicious about. I responded since they were harmless. So my dumbass added her as a friend. Next thing you know she's liking almost everything I post. My boy is my friend on my page too. He kinda got tight on some "Why is she liking everything you post?"

Now, I know I'm not f*king with her or doing some foul shyt, but it seems like he thinks me and her got something going on, cause he never comes to get me when she's around like he used to (not that I care). But I just wanna tell the dude to relax and to know that I won't snake him.

How do I get this across to him that I don't want his girl, or do I just let the shyt go? She still does private message me, but never on some next sh*t. Did I do something foul? I think I kept it 100.

Be careful homie,she's laying a trap that you don't want to get caught up in.Trust me,it all looks harmless and innocent in the beginning,but as time goes by your going to end up in some intimate situations asking your self "How the **** did I get here?".

 

[Gallo]

The problem isn't the girl. The problem is you and your boy. Hoes gonna hoe, with you or some other dude. She's irrelevant. You already snaked him when you didn't tell him about the messages and her trying to add you on Facebook.

Your boy is a bytch and snake as well cause instead of checking his girl, he checked you. That tells me he's insecure - a real dude knows no one can take his broad if she honestly is his. If anything, him being your mans, he should let you make a move on her to see what type of chick he's dealing with. When me and my current girl were dating, I let 3 of my wolves make a move on her. They all failed, I knew they would, that's how i knew she was a keeper. If they had succeeded, then props to my wolves and on to the next chick. That's how real dudes roll. You and your friend need to stop acting like b1tches over a broad.

 

[Kalik]

She choosin breh. Your boy just mad. It is what it is...

 

[Ethnic Vagina Finder]

Pics breh. I need pics to make a legit response

 

[jab343irk]

I will let her blow me and leave it at that

plus thread is worthless without at least a body shot

 

[HelgaPataki]

I will let her blow me and leave it at that

plus thread is worthless without at least a body shot

agreed. op upload a body shot of your homeboy

 

[BedRoomI'z]

The problem isn't the girl. The problem is you and your boy. Hoes gonna hoe, with you or some other dude. She's irrelevant. You already snaked him when you didn't tell him about the messages and her trying to add you on Facebook.

Your boy is a bytch and snake as well cause instead of checking his girl, he checked you. That tells me he's insecure - a real dude knows no one can take his broad if she honestly is his. If anything, him being your mans, he should let you make a move on her to see what type of chick he's dealing with. When me and my current girl were dating, I let 3 of my wolves make a move on her. They all failed, I knew they would, that's how i knew she was a keeper. If they had succeeded, then props to my wolves and on to the next chick. That's how real dudes roll. You and your friend need to stop acting like b1tches over a broad.

Explain this again....

Exactly how did he snake him?

Cause the only person I see in the wrong here is her.

Obviously dude was already cool with them being facebook friends.

I'm sure ole boy put her in her place.

And Sharp, it ain't worth it, breh.
That mutual friends shyt is shaky business

 

[nalej]

The problem isn't the girl. The problem is you and your boy. Hoes gonna hoe, with you or some other dude. She's irrelevant. You already snaked him when you didn't tell him about the messages and her trying to add you on Facebook.

nah fukk that, the girl IS the problem. If you were a good friend and want to look out for your boy you need to tell him he is hooking up with a shady chick. No committed girl is going to befriend his friends much less PM them on facebook.

 

[Gallo]

Explain this again....

Exactly how did he snake him?

Cause the only person I see in the wrong here is her.

Obviously dude was already cool with them being facebook friends already.

I'm sure ole boy put her in her place.

Because she doesn't matter, she's his now. So only my boy matters and she only matters through him. So if my boys gf tries to add me I shoot a quick message to see if he's cool because again, what she wants(friendship or whatever) doesn't matter, only what your boy wants matters.

 

[kash10003]

just ignore her and let him know. dont do nothing stupid, even if you think you choosing her, she's gonna choose him back right after. its a lose/lose, that hoe aint worth it for you or your boy

 

[Carolina Slim]

The problem isn't the girl. The problem is you and your boy. Hoes gonna hoe, with you or some other dude. She's irrelevant. You already snaked him when you didn't tell him about the messages and her trying to add you on Facebook.

Your boy is a bytch and snake as well cause instead of checking his girl, he checked you. That tells me he's insecure - a real dude knows no one can take his broad if she honestly is his. If anything, him being your mans, he should let you make a move on her to see what type of chick he's dealing with. When me and my current girl were dating, I let 3 of my wolves make a move on her. They all failed, I knew they would, that's how i knew she was a keeper. If they had succeeded, then props to my wolves and on to the next chick. That's how real dudes roll. You and your friend need to stop acting like b1tches over a broad.

I agree with you on the bolded; his mans shoulda checked his broad, for the points that I bolded below. I can't agree that the broad ain't the problem, though. OP is not in the wrong here. If he can be found at fault for anything, it's not telling his man off rip that his chick was trying to get at him on FB. But it's obvious that she don't respect him.

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Few weeks back I'm chillin at my boy's crib with him and his girl. This is the first time I met her. So all of three of us are on the couch having a conversation with her sitting between both of us. When she talks she happens to touch my knee frequently with her hand, but I didn't think nothing of it, cause she would touch my man's knee too. When I left that night, she kissed me on the cheek.. of course I didn't think anything of it, considering it is customary.

I guess my boy must of given her my full name because she tried to add me as a friend on FB, but I didn't accept. I mean, what do I look like adding a chick I don't know, let alone she is my man's girl. So she messages me on FB like "How come you aren't accepting me as a friend." I responded "I usually don't add my friend's girlfriends". So she messages back a couple of minutes later "well let's get to know each other so we can be friends".

She started asking me questions, really minor stuff.. nothing to get suspicious about. I responded since they were harmless. So my dumbass added her as a friend. Next thing you know she's liking almost everything I post. My boy is my friend on my page too. He kinda got tight on some "Why is she liking everything you post?"

Now, I know I'm not f*king with her or doing some foul shyt, but it seems like he thinks me and her got something going on, cause he never comes to get me when she's around like he used to (not that I care). But I just wanna tell the dude to relax and to know that I won't snake him.

How do I get this across to him that I don't want his girl, or do I just let the shyt go? She still does private message me, but never on some next sh*t. Did I do something foul? I think I kept it 100.

You did alright, just that if I was you, I probably woulda stepped to the nikka right away on some, "yo, your girl just tried to add me on FB", at least putting the bug in his ear. Honestly, if she's doing this kinda stuff right under his nose, she's probably getting real scandalous when he ain't looking... Not your problem.

 

[BedRoomI'z]

Because she doesn't matter, she's his now. So only your boy matters and she only matters through him. So if my boys gf tries to add me I shoot a quick message to see if he's cool because again, what she wants(friendship or whatever) doesn't matter, only what your boy wants matters.

True, but trust me, it's a lot more trickier than that.

If he saw her in his page already, why didn't his friend say something
to him then? Before she started liking all of his posts.

Folks become real gotdamn insecure when they go into relationships.
As long as Sharp stayed in his place, he's good.

Why create a problem before it becomes a problem and jeopardize a friendship? Sounds like his friend was already insecure to begin with.

And they all hanging out together too...

 

[villain]

i'm not a fan of letting women get in the way of a friendship, especially one u don't even care about. Your man might be an insecure nikka but he's still ur mans

leave shorty alone and reject all advances - it ain't worth it

 

[PortCityProphet]

this nikka was predicting your future. dont even ask me how
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