MsJackyOh (Dcyoungfly wife) dies while getting cosmetic surgery

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it's not about time, people do things young, people want to return to what they had (moms), etc. not everyone is some 45-50 yr old trying to look 10 years younger.
We're talking the mummy make over nonsense. It's about time. Trying to go back to before you gave birth at the expense of your safety.

Vanity.
 

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We're talking the mummy make over nonsense. It's about time. Trying to go back to before you gave birth.

Vanity.
no, our conversation was about surgery point blank. and even with a mommy makeover, it's not about vanity. sorry, you're not a woman and you haven't given birth, so you absolutely aren't qualified to write off everyone's decision to fix something post birthing as vanity
 

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I understand not viewing it as a mental illness but it's not natural neither. It's cultural. What's natural is aging, and other cultures in the world aren't fighting its cosmetic aspects like some Western cultures do. Where some of us see wrinkles as flaws or sagging breasts as a sin, they see it as a mark of wisdom or a matter of fact.

So it's not a stretch to say that, even if it's not a mental illness per se, the worship of youthfulness aspect that leads people to feel disgusted by their normal body to the point of attempting to alter it in a risky way... is a warped perspective. Maybe not textbook mental illness, but definitely not mentally healthy.
You can even say that the current culture is creating mentally ill people. Not going by the clinical sense, but at least socially we can say there is a widespread of narcissism.

People can't accept frustration anymore. That's why they ready to ruing themselves, take risk just for that gratification.
 

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no, our conversation was about surgery point blank. and even with a mommy makeover, it's not about vanity. sorry, you're not a woman and you haven't given birth, so you absolutely aren't qualified to write off everyone's decision to fix something post birthing as vanity
You're not a woman argument ain't working here. Sorry.

The motivation are known: it's vanity. Mummy makeover and the rest.

You can try to lie yourself as much as you want, but the truth is clear.

Unfortunately, a lot of women will get sacrificed on the autel of vanity.

This is just the beginning.
 

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You're not a woman argument ain't working here. Sorry.

The motivation are known: it's vanity. Mummy makeover and the rest.

You can try to lie yourself as much as you want, but the truth is clear.

Unfortunately, a lot of women will get sacrificed on the autel of vanity.

This is just the beginning.
no, it's a lie to dismiss the reality of insecurity, low self esteem, and self consciousness as if these aren't real feelings and very influential ones at that. and yes, this is a case of you're not a woman, many women quietly go through mourning after pregnancy because of all the changes to their body, but yes, it's just vanity. :rolleyes:
 

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The sad thing is she was already beautiful….married with kids to a successful husband in the entertainment industry.

What was the point? Smh :snoop:
Just saw one of her last interviews about surgery

She felt she couldnt keep up working out naturally to the BBL crowd. They could simply go to the doctor while she had to go through the pain of working out. 😞
 

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no, it's a lie to dismiss the reality of insecurity, low self esteem, and self consciousness as if these aren't real feelings and very influential ones at that. and yes, this is a case of you're not a woman, many women quietly go through mourning after pregnancy because of all the changes to their body, but yes, it's just vanity. :rolleyes:
The reality of these feelings does not change the nature of those surgeries. :yeshrug:

Yes, it's vanity.
 

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If she wants to keep making money off her looks then surgery has to be on the menu, it's sad thing as many in her position refuse to bow out gracefully

No it doesn't, she is beautiful regardless

She ain't one of these barely making it by the skin of her BBL chicks

She already has a nice frame and pretty face, just a lil weight loss and she'll be straight
 

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I`m not hear to judge DC, but "God Talk" and living a life in accordance to "Biblical law" are two different things, and he clearly turned off his brain and didn't vet this woman. She show's all of the signs of someone who doesn't give a shyt about God and is obsessed with the "world".

And I say this as respectfully as I possibly can.

You don't know their relationship, you just know their internet persona
 
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