Mom defends daughter “I’m asking you nicely, leave my daughter alone or your parents are getting it”

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:stopitslime: Kids have killed themselves over being bullied. Bulling doesnt ONLY happen online. Remember a girl just got jumped and dead after a head wound.
She posted some online bullying shyt...that's easily remedied.

If she's being bullied in person and threatened physically there are ways to handle that as well before the kid kills themselves or terribly harmed
 

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She posted some online bullying shyt...that's easily remedied.

If she's being bullied in person and threatened physically there are ways to handle that as well before the kid kills themselves or terribly harmed

If they are bulling her online and they are the same kids that go to school for her, its safe to assume it also happens there. In addition, you're an adult so you probably dont understand how bullying affects children but some kids are not strong enough mentally to deal with it. I've heard at least 3 stories THIS year about kids killing themselves over bullying. Most recently the boy who killed himself because he was being bulled for being gay.

Boy, 15, kills himself after being bullied for being gay

Bullying by classmates, teachers pushed 4th grader to suicide attempt, mom says This one was here in my city.
 

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If they are bulling her online and they are the same kids that go to school for her, its safe to assume it also happens there. In addition, you're an adult so you probably dont understand how bullying affects children but some kids are not strong enough mentally to deal with it. I've heard at least 3 stories THIS year about kids killing themselves over bullying. Most recently the boy who killed himself because he was being bulled for being gay.

Boy, 15, kills himself after being bullied for being gay

Bullying by classmates, teachers pushed 4th grader to suicide attempt, mom says This one was here in my city.

Adults were once kids...you gotta know your child. Move them from schools or address the situation however you must. shyt happens but as the parent I'd blame myself for raising a soft kid or not being aware/involved enough
 

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*Unpopular opinion alert*

I have always believed that kids that get bullied allow it. 99.99% of bullies are weak and will run if it gets real. I remember in 5th grade breh tried to bully me for a while. My friend told me to ignore him but he kept coming. One day at recess he pushed me to the ground. I grabbed a rock and threw it at his head and he was gushing. He never spoke to me again until high school.

Point is if you push back there is a high chance that bully will leave you alone. Now there are cases where the kid being bullied gets killed fighting the bully, but those are extremely rare. Parents gotta let kids know early shiit ain't sweet out there.
 

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Therein lies half the problem with these incidents. The teachers can't control anything in the classroom. You send your kids to school where they're under the care of the school, and the school isn't doing anything.
The reasons behind that are deep though. Everyone wants to say, "The teachers need to control the classroom", but put their asses up in front of the class to see how they do themselves and they got another thing coming.

Part of the issue needs to be solved at the home level, because there are kids who are coming into school so far off of societal norms that it takes an insane amount of work just to get them socialized into a disciplined atmosphere.

Part of the issue needs to be solved at the government level, because governments are legislating complete idiocy in terms of school standards, especially in the low-performing schools, that make it almost impossible for teachers to maintain student's attention and interest in class (take away all art, music, electives, etc. and make kids study for standardized tests 6 hours a day and try and have them NOT act out).

Part of the issue needs to be solved at the administrative level, because schools are not instituting discipline systems that help kids deal with and work through their problems, they just have levels of escalating punishments like a mini-version of the justice system that don't work for shyt on the outside either.

Part of the issue needs to be solved at the societal level, because the teaching profession isn't held in high enough regard to get enough of the quality of teachers that you need. Teachers should be paid more, respected more, and given more independence and authority, and only them are you actually going to recruit the best people for the job.

Part of the issue needs to be solved at the teacher training level, because hardly anything in teacher training is about effective discipline and class control (which in a best case scenario is almost entirely preemptive rather than reactive).

It's a lot of work, and by the time a kid is acting up in the classroom it's usually too late. There is a LOT that needs to happen first.



This is yet another example of why Liberals are a CANCER.

Why?

Liberals allowed children to control classrooms instead of teachers and parents.​
What does this even mean? You think you can go to Massachusetts and then go to Arkansas and the kids are going to be better behaved in Arkansas?
 

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Watch her show up to some students house and the parents stomp her out. :lolbron:
 

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This boy in my nieces class put his hands on her, she hit him back and she got punished for it by the school :gucci:
This happened to me. I think I broke his nose stomping him out. Moms came to the school and held me down. I got suspended but I never went back. Three weeks off looking for another school. So I whooped his ass and got a vacation. :umad:



:lawd:

In 6th grade this dude behind me kept tapping my head with a comb so I turned around and hit him (not too hard). Got suspended for 1 day and my mom said next time if you gonna get suspended for defending yourself, at least knock em out :ehh: when we got back to school, me and dude actually became cool and no more issues :ehh: that's how you handle bullying.

shyt happened to me when I was in school. Dude hit me and I told my mom and the teacher I had, the next day he did it again and I fukked him up. The teacher then wanted to call my mom and my mom asked the teacher, "is it the same kid who hit my son yesterday?"

The teacher was like, "uhh....yes".

My mom said "so why didn't you handle that yesterday, my son was defending himself..." and went off on the teacher :mjlol:She couldn't say shyt and I didn't get suspended lol.

I can throw down a "me too" here.

When I was a kid in elementary school I used to get in fights on the regular. I had decent size and was aggressive as hell so I usually won. But I basically stopped growing in 5th grade, by the time I got to 9th grade I was still just 5'2" (growth spurt didn't come till near the end of soph year). I still was all aggressive though and wouldn't take shyt from anyone. :aicmon:

So in my Spanish class there was this big hulking fat white kid two years older than me. Probably something like 5'10" 230lbs. Think of the kind of socially awkward misfit with big shaggy hair and acne who plays dungeons and dragons but writes poetry about hurting people and plans school shootings in his free time. Kid definitely had a few screws loose.

One day in class while I'm sitting in one of those little wrap-around school desks I drop my pen on the floor.

He just grabs it and starts looking at it like he ain't gonna give it back. :rudy:

I order him, "Give me back my pen." :birdman:

He doesn't do shyt. :russell:

So I snatch his book of his desk and say, "I'm gonna give you back your book when you give me back my pen." :demonic:

He straight goes, "Aaauuuggggghhhh!" and falls over me stabbing wildly with the pen. :damn:

I'm trapped in the desk by his weight and don't have leverage to do shyt, he's just stabbing and stabbing. When I counted the holes in my shirt he had to have stabbed like 6-7 times at least, but I got lucky and only one really connected, the pen went at least a solid half inch deep into the side of my pectoral. There was also a scratch on my arm but the rest missed. I hadn't touched him.

So we get sent off to the principal's office, and the principal start talking about how we're both gonna be suspended, him for stabbing me and me for antagonizing him. :dahell:

I couldn't believe that shyt. Legit couldn't believe it. I've caught raw deals in discipline shyt before but THAT was not tolerable. Good thing was I had a lawyer's mouth on me even then, started just laying into the principal about the injustice of it all and the ridiculousness of her decision. In the end I argued my way out of anything at all.

But they just sent him home for the day and he came back the next day. :childplease:

I mean the motherfukker stabbed me and they almost suspended my ass for getting stabbed. :mindblown:

I still have the scar to this day. :shaq2:
 
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I agree with you 100%, breh. But the problem doesn't stop at the schools since, now, parents can't even discipline their kids.

When's the last time you saw an out-of-control kid get the taste smacked out their mouth in a public area?

And the kids KNOW you can't do shyt in-public. Even if you take 'em back to the house to wear them out, they'll post it on social media and your ass will be having a meeting with CPS/DYFS on your suitability as a parent/guardian.​

I don't if that's true because I see parents threatening to beat their kid's asses at ky job all the time.This past Saturday I was stocking shelves and some Hispanic lady was yelling at her son to get his ass in the shopping cart and told him if he tried to get out of the cart she was going to break his legs. I looked at her and gave her the :dwillhuh: because I couldn't believe she would say like that in front of other people so nonchalantly.
 

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Should of change the school, if a kid is being bullied that bad the school and the parents in the area are failures waiting to happen.

This that shyt that leads to (after)school shootings as well. Just look up the amount of "teen murdered" articles in the news. A lot of them killings comes straight from them school beefs.
 

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:dahell: why this lil girl got an Instagram page??? why her lil ass posting pics in bikinis? :gucci:

that mom lost the plot :snoop:

and the daddy aint nowhere to be found to stop this mess :francis:


That lil girl is posting pix on ig wearing what?!!!!
:what:

I told yall awhile back..
Parents dont give a f*co about their kids... I got negged liked crazy...
Trust me on this...
And definitely a mother who handles situations like that.... ain't watching her baby girl
 
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