Option A: Go out and spend lots of money on drink, most of the time waiting to be served
Option B: Meet up at someone's place, smoke weed, everyone getting drunk with the alcohol people bring, be your own DJ![]()
For a guy that doesn't have a strong social network, option A is much easier to do than option B, especially if you want to have the opportunity to spit at dimes. The amount of effort the average guy would have to exert to be in a social network with legit 9's and 10's, is tremendous. At the average get together, dudes will be geeked just to have decent looking joints there.
But if you're popular/well connected, Option B makes a lot more sense.
Sorry millenials...your not the first generation to put in work.......just the laziest.
I was in college and worked full time hours and still was out partying an living life, who in the world just "chills" in the house at 21-24
This generation is just wack...
An full of excuses..student debt had been around forever..no excuses.
I hear ya. We been doin 50hrs a week for a month. I did, however, go to the older ppl spot, which I wouldn't consider it going out.With a 40hr work week and plus daily traffic, I am gonna spend as much time as I want chilling at home![]()
See breh this is me right now but I'm only 20![]()
I generally don't say no to anything that can be perceived as something fun. If a girl asks me that I just say yes. All that tells me shes jump off material.Really? There's a ton of people out there that think the club is wack, so I don't know why someone would assume you're weird if you say you don't like clubbing. In fact I thought that most people thought that clubbers were lame.
Most are broke
I want to have more energy after work on the weekdays.
This here.
Not only can a lot not afford to go out, nowadays even if you can afford to go out the scene, the experiences at a lot these venues are so stratospheric, you basically paying to go in and be a second class citizen among the "ballers and bad bytches".
Plus technology.
I remember going to teen clubs and parties in my teenage years that shyt is dead now. Because why go to a party where you gotta spend to get in, spend on a nice fit, in hope of getting chose or pulling a bytch when you can just build up an Internet persona and pull hoes from the comfort of your couch.
Building a strong social circle is more important than ever now. You got chicks that only f**k with dudes they meet through friends/family/church/school etc
In the old days, all you had to be good at was conversation and you could go to the club and bag a chick that was your physical equal. Now you have to have a solid amount of friends, and your friends have to have friends. If you meet a group of dudes and they don't know chicks, you have meet new friends that know chicks. The amount of women open to being approached in public is dwindling, unless there is a clear discrepancy in looks.
The game is light work for the dudes that were popular in HS/College and dudes that have tons of social validation. But the "regular" guy that wants to go out and bag chicks on par with him, just off the strength of sex being a fun activity that both sexes enjoy, that's going extinct. If you're gonna do that, it's mainly online, and online dating usually comes with a lowering of standards.
Going out sucks because the amount of pu**y available to men that the women don't already know is limited. Going out is now just a validation of status, attractiveness, wealth, and "coolness", when before there was a meat market element to it. The meat market is now online.
...suck on my girls ass hole, cooking, etc.