Millennials Have Discovered 'Going Out' Sucks

Larry Lambo

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Option A: Go out and spend lots of money on drink, most of the time waiting to be served

Option B: Meet up at someone's place, smoke weed, everyone getting drunk with the alcohol people bring, be your own DJ :ohlawd:

For a guy that doesn't have a strong social network, option A is much easier to do than option B, especially if you want to have the opportunity to spit at dimes. The amount of effort the average guy would have to exert to be in a social network with legit 9's and 10's, is tremendous. At the average get together, dudes will be geeked just to have decent looking joints there.

But if you're popular/well connected, Option B makes a lot more sense.
 

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For a guy that doesn't have a strong social network, option A is much easier to do than option B, especially if you want to have the opportunity to spit at dimes. The amount of effort the average guy would have to exert to be in a social network with legit 9's and 10's, is tremendous. At the average get together, dudes will be geeked just to have decent looking joints there.

But if you're popular/well connected, Option B makes a lot more sense.

spitting at dimes when going at night is amateur hour, you realize that even the :flabbynfif: hoes get hit on repeatedly when they go out?

Talk to a dime during the day and you'll get her number, almost guaranteed
 

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Sorry millenials...your not the first generation to put in work.......just the laziest.


I was in college and worked full time hours and still was out partying an living life, who in the world just "chills" in the house at 21-24:hhh:

This generation is just wack...
An full of excuses..student debt had been around forever..no excuses.
:sas1:Hey dummy, how old are you? Chances are that YOU are also in fact a millenial. If you're 36 or younger, you are a millennial

And if you are older than 36, you're too old to be chastising us on a message board anyway :sas2:
 

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With a 40hr work week and plus daily traffic, I am gonna spend as much time as I want chilling at home:hhh:
I hear ya. We been doin 50hrs a week for a month. I did, however, go to the older ppl spot, which I wouldn't consider it going out.

Starting this week, we're going back to 40 hr work weeks, but we get an extra day off during the week since we will be working 10hr days.

I will spend my Fridays off at the crib eatin' and playin' video games
 

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See breh this is me right now but I'm only 20 :mjcry:
:ufdup: You still need to go out and have fun until you're ~25/26/27You need to meet as many people as you can, party as much as you can, and fukk as many women as you can with a condom on:dame:, so you can see for yourself that most of what society puts in your face is bullshyt.

That way once you're my age you can look at the fukkery happening in the world and deep down in your soul go :ld:....:manny:....:coffee: because you've been there and done that.

Young people really think the world is over once they get older. :mjlol: There's still going to be flashy cars clothes and hot women once you get older, and if you're a woman and you keep your body right it's still going to be plenty of thirsty dudes hounding you for your digits and trying to buy you things. :pachaha:
 
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Really? There's a ton of people out there that think the club is wack, so I don't know why someone would assume you're weird if you say you don't like clubbing. In fact I thought that most people thought that clubbers were lame.
I generally don't say no to anything that can be perceived as something fun. If a girl asks me that I just say yes. All that tells me shes jump off material.
 

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I want to have more energy after work on the weekdays.

Work and the commute drains the fukk out of me. Last few weeks been getting home at 7,8 o'clock. I'm also on call too. I think a lot of these companies are just sucking the life out of people low key. Back in the day, folk did their 9-5 and that was it. Now, it's 24/7 especially if you're in IT/Tech industry.
 

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This here.

Not only can a lot not afford to go out, nowadays even if you can afford to go out the scene, the experiences at a lot these venues are so stratospheric, you basically paying to go in and be a second class citizen among the "ballers and bad bytches".

Plus technology.
I remember going to teen clubs and parties in my teenage years that shyt is dead now. Because why go to a party where you gotta spend to get in, spend on a nice fit, in hope of getting chose or pulling a bytch when you can just build up an Internet persona and pull hoes from the comfort of your couch.

Yep. The illusion of choice ruined a lot of things.
 

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Building a strong social circle is more important than ever now. You got chicks that only f**k with dudes they meet through friends/family/church/school etc

In the old days, all you had to be good at was conversation and you could go to the club and bag a chick that was your physical equal. Now you have to have a solid amount of friends, and your friends have to have friends. If you meet a group of dudes and they don't know chicks, you have meet new friends that know chicks. The amount of women open to being approached in public is dwindling, unless there is a clear discrepancy in looks.

The game is light work for the dudes that were popular in HS/College and dudes that have tons of social validation. But the "regular" guy that wants to go out and bag chicks on par with him, just off the strength of sex being a fun activity that both sexes enjoy, that's going extinct. If you're gonna do that, it's mainly online, and online dating usually comes with a lowering of standards.

Going out sucks because the amount of pu**y available to men that the women don't already know is limited. Going out is now just a validation of status, attractiveness, wealth, and "coolness", when before there was a meat market element to it. The meat market is now online.


This is the truth. Women don't really reapond well to cold market approaches anymore, thanks to social media and the average broad getting gassed up for no,reason.

Now, its all about who knows who and getting loads of money together.
 

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I dont know about yall but most nikkas i know go out to get p*ssy and dance with/talk to women.

nowadays, you go to a club and most [black] women you talk to have their heads buried in their phones, snapchatting, IG-ing and are unreceptive when dudes approach them. They stay in groups of 3,4 and as a man you feel you damn near have to tapdance to get any sort of reaction or conversation when you approach. In their minds, "what girl wants to meet her future man in the club?", "I dont want to end up on twitter seen letting a dude dagger me". In the guys' minds..."aint nobody thinking about the future. I find you attractive and wanna dance, fukk and/or get to know you".

That mismatch is why the club scene is wack. Women are stush and as a result no parties are having fun anymore

That being said I still go out...and parties are still rammed up when the weather is good so meh. it aint that serious
 
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