Millennials Have Discovered 'Going Out' Sucks

[Doobie Doo]

So far no lies have been posted in this thread.

"A night out" has gotten too expensive and social media/netflix/weed is always poppin

The biggest change from my 20s to my 30s has been trading alcohol for marijuana. When I was drinking more I was going out twice or three times a week. Now that I'm blazing more I don't need to see anyone

That is me now. Smoke at the crib and work on my music and film shyt. I deal with handful of people in this area. And the homey I started my media company moved to ATL is linking me with folks so now I don't feel the need to be out and about in Raleigh spending money to see the same folks on Facebook.

It's weird too cuz I go out and handle my daily biz and go out but it's really the night life I don't fukk with. I have never been a heavy drinker at any point in my life so bars don't really impress me, I don't dance, the women in the club right now aren't women I even want to deal with casually. I don't even trust them knowing where I live now so the notion of bringing a bytch home I just met makes me paranoid.

 

[Nature's Fury]

Tinder + Netflix and Chill made it so you ain't even have to put effort in...why spend money getting laced to go try to smash some chicks when you can do it for free.99???

 

[YouMadd?]

I'm all partied out... I'm 29. I spent 18 through 25 snorting, drinking, and popping whatever I could during college and then the next two years out of college doing the same thing while working

Then it hit me a few years ago at 26, that it just wasn't fun anymore. Also if I binge drink that is a direct trigger to do hard drugs for me

In the evenings the only thing that will bring me out is a live music or comedy show. Other than that, I refuse to give my money to these establishments just because I'm "supposed" to go out.

Im happy playing with my puppy, reading, playing video games, suck on my girls ass hole, cooking, etc.

 

[Larry Lambo]

Building a strong social circle is more important than ever now. You got chicks that only f**k with dudes they meet through friends/family/church/school etc

In the old days, all you had to be good at was conversation and you could go to the club and bag a chick that was your physical equal. Now you have to have a solid amount of friends, and your friends have to have friends. If you meet a group of dudes and they don't know chicks, you have meet new friends that know chicks. The amount of women open to being approached in public is dwindling, unless there is a clear discrepancy in looks.

The game is light work for the dudes that were popular in HS/College and dudes that have tons of social validation. But the "regular" guy that wants to go out and bag chicks on par with him, just off the strength of sex being a fun activity that both sexes enjoy, that's going extinct. If you're gonna do that, it's mainly online, and online dating usually comes with a lowering of standards.

Going out sucks because the amount of pu**y available to men that the women don't already know is limited. Going out is now just a validation of status, attractiveness, wealth, and "coolness", when before there was a meat market element to it. The meat market is now online.

 

[Wildin]

It has nothing to do with being broke.

People will still buy weed, video games, pay for Internet, Order pizza or Chinese, go to sushi - - - people are spending money.

It's just people dont want to be around other people. People typically don't want to be around others and their bullshyt. And going out now it typically a lot of bullshyt someone complaining or acting a fool then someone else reacting and voila drama.

 

[Ol’Otis]

I spent 18 through 25 snorting, drinking, and popping

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

With a 40hr work week and plus daily traffic, I am gonna spend as much time as I want chilling at home

Living downtown walking everywhere

Are people still waiting to retire before they live?

this system is broken man. i don't try to make it work anymore I live a very unconventional life

 

[CapitalforCapital]

the drugs be having my generation stuck. They're so potent these days

 

[YouMadd?]

It was fun

 

[Carlton Banks]

It's cuz going out sucks. I realized at 19 that clubs and partying is fukking wack. You go to a fukking party, drink, talk to a few people, dance maybe, if you're lucky get a few numbers from bytches that are horrible at texting/talking...Then repeat the same shyt next weekend. How can that not get old really quick??? It actually boggles my mind when I see people doing that shyt every weekend. What are you getting out of that? Some sense that you're living life to the fullest? Going out getting drunk and being hungover the next day is living life to the fullest? I'd rather do some actual activities. Snowboarding, basketball, hiking, swimming, skiing, shyt that is ACTUALLY fun.

 

[Carlton Banks]

I'm all partied out... I'm 29. I spent 18 through 25 snorting, drinking, and popping whatever I could during college and then the next two years out of college doing the same thing while working

Then it hit me a few years ago at 26, that it just wasn't fun anymore.

See, I never understood people like you. Why did it take you til you were 26 to realize that? I realized that shyt at 18. I never understood how it takes ppl so long to mature and realize they're wasting precious time on dumb shyt

 

[Neil Tyson]

It's cuz going out sucks. I realized at 19 that clubs and partying is fukking wack. You go to a fukking party, drink, talk to a few people, dance maybe, if you're lucky get a few numbers from bytches that are horrible at texting/talking...Then repeat the same shyt next weekend. How can that not get old really quick??? It actually boggles my mind when I see people doing that shyt every weekend. What are you getting out of that? Some sense that you're living life to the fullest? Going out getting drunk and being hungover the next day is living life to the fullest? I'd rather do some actual activities. Snowboarding, basketball, hiking, swimming, skiing, shyt that is ACTUALLY fun.

Then do that?

I agree clubs are shyt too. Sometimes when people ask me if I like clubbing I just say yes because people are retarded and assume you're weird if you say no.

 

[Tommy Fits]

Because it's easier to drink at home by myself. But I've always been an introvert even before it became the cool thing to do, that said I do love going out to eat

 

[Larry Lambo]

It's cuz going out sucks. I realized at 19 that clubs and partying is fukking wack. You go to a fukking party, drink, talk to a few people, dance maybe, if you're lucky get a few numbers from bytches that are horrible at texting/talking...Then repeat the same shyt next weekend. How can that not get old really quick??? It actually boggles my mind when I see people doing that shyt every weekend. What are you getting out of that? Some sense that you're living life to the fullest? Going out getting drunk and being hungover the next day is living life to the fullest? I'd rather do some actual activities. Snowboarding, basketball, hiking, swimming, skiing, shyt that is ACTUALLY fun.

I banged a good 15-20 chicks that I met at the club over the years, so it was productive for me. I always felt more comfortable spitting at chicks in a place where they are expecting it and where someone else isn't in the conversation.

Plus the club in the late 90's early 2000's was hype. Had some great times. The music that was popular co-incided with the music I liked, so I always was in my zone.

 

[YouMadd?]

See, I never understood people like you. Why did it take you til you were 26 to realize that? I realized that shyt at 18. I never understood how it takes ppl so long to mature and realize they're wasting precious time on dumb shyt

No one cares what you do or don't understand.

If you want to know why I liked to party then just ask it without being a little hoe. Keep your judgements to yourself, friend.

But anyways, I mostly continued because it was fun and my life was great in Chicago, then I got bored of it and quit cold turkey. I was a better person. Even decided I wanted more money. Moved to NorCal and I began to seek out other interests. Now I do cool shyt like rally race beat up mini coopers in the hills, and travel to meet famous tattoo artists around the world and get work done.

I don't know man, people develop differently