Millennials Have Discovered 'Going Out' Sucks

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

Clubs have always been wack to me. I was an early user of websites to find hoes. Blackplanet, Migente, Urbanchat, all you needed were THE RIGHT PICS..and an interesting page... I also caught them outside at any time whenever one on one. Sometimes I'd recognize the "fun"" on the street. Grocery store, Walking down the street, at the Chinese store, anywhere, any time, when I got unsolicited eye contact, I knew it was time to introduce myself. ..I had a 65% pull percentage. Uglies, dimes, didn't matter... Alcohol was the fuel, and it was time to GO.
Clubs...I didn't have much of a success rate with immediately blamming a bih in the club...when I was around alcohol, I'd focus on getting as fukked up as possible. This wasn't attractive to any women outside of the worst rats. I hit a lot of them, but some were very scary. Fat nasty white trash country hoes included. nikkas turn up missing in them bumpkin towns/projects/foul decrepit Midwestern ranch style subdivision, brehs...fukking around with crazy hoes...

The club was wack to me...drinks cost too much, and you can easily hit the liquor store, go down your list of numbers, and hit every one of them up until you smack something. Repetition required daily. This also built a rapport with some of the dumber jawns because they thought we were "talking". A couple times, strangely, I heard "what are we"...from girls I didn't even fukk yet. I'd act confused, change the subject, or ask why she asked. Laughing also occurred, since I didn't understand the question...these girls were on a list, and I really wasn't invested. All you have to do is holler at damn near everything that looks at you, and you'll find out the club is a waste. Unless you're a fancy dancy want to be seen scene nikka. I rap, so that was accidentally given to me for a while. That type of attention makes a nikka like me feel nervous and edgy. It's weird energy in the club now and people are in their lil groups looking corny on the phone, taking pictures looking like they're having more fun than the real "experience" will allow. Too busy posting statuses for that.
I don't drink anymore. I smoke hella weed, which heightens my paranoia. I am an arrogant nikka with a bad attitude sometimes, and I don't need to be around an area that attracts other brehs with a similar mindset who DO drink. This can lead to violence, since the absence of alcohol makes me feel like I have a tactical advantage over a drunk cac or breh who did something disrespectful. I'm in a relationship and have no interest in hoes, since they were always available through other avenues. Sex is kinda unimportant to me now because of that. I am also disgusted with my old behavior.
Some of those women had boyfriends, may have been married. I even fukked one of my big homies girls while he was at church
I am blessed to be alive.
The club is for showoffs, dopeboys and people who don't know how to get it the real way. Also the p*ssy hound nikkas who are nice with that type of game. Too many hard stares and face scans for my taste. I like to approach people who look at me. Women positive, men... Negative. No grown men should be looking at grown men, especially strangers with face tats...perfect targets for a bathroom sneak punch. .
I have matured past this.
Clubs are where you get shot and jumped.
Clubs are also where you see people you did bad things to when you were
Not everyone forgets. This has worked in my detriment and I had to escape from folks I fukked over many times, sometimes barely.
I even heard gunfire behind me before. Get jumped, stole, shot at for shyt you don't remember, brehs.
some people aren't meant for going out.


PS: Having your song play in a popular black club, and the majority of people not knowing it's you...because you're not a loud club nikka...

 

[Jahmal]

sometimes you just wanna invite a tinder thot over and get your dikk sucked without a condom...

men get their dikk sucked with condoms on?

 

[Wild self]

They talking all that ish but if they keep fukking around with that introverted shyt they gonna end up turning into the japanese fukkboys of the 21st century

If you don't want society to turn out like that, better lend a helping hand to the introverts instead of talking down to them.

 

[The Intergalactic Koala]

Pretty much all this


At one point you had to go out to get the local buzz, chat with people and find out whats new. Not anymore, you can get all the local news and then some from the bed or yard. You want something, you can have it pre order and shipped on release date. Traffic is bad in almost every decent size city and is only public transportation is trash in most cities outside of major ones.

Like you said going to the mall is more of a fashion show than ever now, it you to be a combination of a place to shop, chill, see whats new and "floss" a bit. Now its strictly to show off, and pick up what you need that you can't find or get online.



Add in the fact that millennials are old enough to be in the tech loop and just old enough to not really have the time nor energy to go out its the perfect storm.


If you worked 60 hours a week have a day or two off the last thing you usually trying to do is spend that day out drinking, or shopping.

Those that do by the time they hit 31 you can tell by the look in the face that they haven't spent enough time in bed and way to much time chasing a good time.



Some people are just social, I understand that as well. But they're is a difference between being social and looking for life out in a club, bar, restaurant or wherever every weekend.

Exactly.

I was actually thinking about this like a few weeks ago while I was trying to get my ring resized. I decided one day to be like screw it I'm going out. I took the Uber down to the mall and it just felt plain meh. People walking like zombies, stores not popping, and just everything seemed to be in slow motion. I went to the Jeweler to get my ring resized and found out he wanted to charge 70 dollars for the resizing. I passed and decided, HEY I'm a little hungry, I'll get a gyro. I went to the place and was disappointed by the meal. On the way home, I realized that I wasted money, when I could have just chilled at home, walked to the Walmart down the street to get my ring resized and make a sandwich for free 99.

The harsh reality is that all that seems glorious outside of home is just a mirage. Nothing is popping off out on these streets. The places you love as a teenagers end up being closed down in a instant. Hell, I went up to Philly a year and some change back and felt like it was a Scooby Doo ghost town. Almost all the hot spots downtown are either closed down, renovating, or changed into a different name. Articles like to make millennials seem like shut ins and slackers, but its like this...how can you blame them when the world is changing at alarming speeds.

Parks are getting turned into Starbucks, retail is being swallowed by Amazon, and social meetings are squashed by keystrokes. Factor in the nonsense of the night life (shootings, curfews, and traffic woes) What is the point anymore?


People need to embrace the couch, be with their families, and pull out the Uno cards every so often. It's cheaper

 

[Rigby.]

social media/face time factors into it a bit

I'd say like 10% from older dudes I've talked to. most of em just broke as shyt though. Most millennials just getting out of college or still in there so tehy aint built to be having fun. paying your soul out for school probably makes life quite unenjoyable

 

[Wild self]

The media fails to acknowledge that millennials can't get hired because jobs are full of Gen X's and Baby Boomers who have decided to not retire.

No money in the pocket means no going out. Everything costs money so broke people stay home.

Yep. Gen X had no idea how good they had it as late 60s and 70s babies.

 

[mrfortune]

i keep puxxy on deck so why go out unless its good food or live music

 

[Wild self]

Yep, there was an article a few weeks ago about how a lot of other industries like golf are taking a hit because millennial can't afford it. Baby boomers figured they'd be dead before the bill for all their fukkery came due.

Talked to a guy I worked with and there weren't even any Americans in his grad school class. Because Americans can't afford our own damned schools anymore

Facts. Baby boomers hog everything and don't want anyone to outshine them.

 

[:-)]

I don't have anywhere to go....do what?...................what are they expecting folks to do and by what age?


I have no money on my own due to being unemployed for years. Been unemployed due to health and I was taking care of a parent. The friends I did have all left me when I got sick. I have just a hand full left and only one is in Texas.


So I don't have anyone to see (she's up in Dallas somewhere so we can only Skype or chat via phone). I don't have the cash to do what I want to do professionally at the moment, let alone go out.


The money for going to the Museum of Science or Fine Arts is the money that unfortunately goes to doctor appointments, medications, or trying to chip down on the debt that I've been paying off for a few years now -- and that cash comes from my mother.
My 20s have been all health for me, so I've missed out on a lot, but I do plan on catching up once I get back on my feet. Gastric appointment this week as a matter of fact. I hope they finally find the problem so I can finally live.


These folks have absolutely no clue what anyone is going through in their lives.

 

[Mr. Jack Napier]

Millennials are losers, plain & simple.

they not going out, because being a superstar and being notice is a online thing now..

they 1996 buick in streets turns into a 2016 telsa online

that road trip to vegas in the streets turns into europe online

that cashier job or sprint job turns into executive communications director online

that club hoe and baby mama to 3 kids with a 9 to 5 in the streets turns into club promoter and instagram model with her own business plan

plus who needs p*ssy when u have pornhub

Facts . Mothafukkas STAY fronting on social media.

You youngsters are skipping the draft and going straight to washed up




And don't kill me but in my opinion most young adults don't know how to socialize, need constant attention/distraction, and give up at the first hint of resistance. That's a combination for failure when going out

Yup. When I go out, I HATE seeing women on their phones taking selfies or dancing by themselves or with their homegirls for Snapchat/Instagram. Like what's the point of being out, if you're not going to socialize with people. But it's cool, those type of women, I try to stay away from, that sh*t is an obvious red flag.

 

[Rigby.]

Parks are getting turned into Starbucks, retail is being swallowed by Amazon, and social meetings are squashed by keystrokes. Factor in the nonsense of the night life (shootings, curfews, and traffic woes) What is the point anymore?

real shyt, life's been simplified to the highest extremes

 

[Mr. Jack Napier]

I see a lot of losers in this thread

 

[RedCloakBlackWraithe]

men get their dikk sucked with condoms on?

Yes, smart men who have fiances they don't want to burn.

 

[Mr. Jack Napier]

A lot of posters are exposing themselves with this thread.


They'll co-sign the article and agree that there's no need to "go out" but then brag about having "game" and being experts at picking up chicks outside in another thread

I've already seen a few cats in here who you have described dead on, but I'm chilling though

 

[Wild self]

Let's not talk about the woman getting in for free before 11pm

The club scene became wack when it catered only to women and made men expendable. Now, hoes are more uptight than ever, prices keep going up without an explanation in the club, and music became less diverse and more trend hopping. No one is happy in the club outside of the owner and the small handful of celeb dudes. Greed ruined the social scene in the club, and social media made it 10 times worse.

You better off meeting a woman online that you can vibe with, chilling with her in a hotel, and smashing.