I’m in Tokyo now. Just landed. Headed to Narita to pick up a package then back to Okinawa tonight. It’s cold as shyt up here. I didn’t think about it but I always fly with long sleeve shirts and pants so I’m lucky.
Unfortunately, I don’t have much advice for you. I’m 38, married for 7 and don’t fool around. I haven’t had too many conversations with local women. No deep dives on why they date military men or why aren’t they married.
I stay near American village and don’t venture out too far. I did my last rotation when I was in Naha. Overall, I would think Gen Z women are different from Gen X women. How old are you? How old is she again?
Like others said, them foreign chasers are different regardless of the race. Plus chick has an Aussie accent after being with dude for two years. I’d stay away brother. Do your time, enjoy the sites, and if you organically find a local near you, cool. If not, you can enjoy being single right?