Michelle Obama says men are 'entitled and self-righteous' because women protect them too much

[AlainLocke]

Then why are Black Women surpassing Black men...yall so quick to defend yaselves from truth instead of just looking in the mirror.

What?

Isn't Black women surpassing Black men means that Black men are actually out here living a hard life while selfish and entitled Black women are outchea acting like they deserve got damn Tupac in a Business Suit and saying stupid shyt to appease White liberals and White feminists.

Black men are the most incarcerated and government supervised group in the country. It would make us Superman if we were the top demographic in the country.


What kind of a logic do you nikkas subscribe to...

That's like a CEO saying fast food workers don't work hard and you go..."Yup, he's right, he's rich."

 

[AlainLocke]

It is a biological imperative to value boys as they usually are better suited to protect the land and gather resources for societal growth.
That doesn't mean they shouldn't be held accountable for egregious crimes. But the value of a male has always been more-or-less significant. Not only are males adept at building societies, they are also givers of life.

And it isn't that society necessarily coddles males rather expects a lot out of males as opposed to females.

Males are expected to grow up and build something, and gather enough resources to help their family, and a male worth his salt will do as such.

Michelle Obama made a dumb point.

Exactly...

I am pretty sure nikkas like Derrick Rose, Kevin Durant and Lebron James, saving the Black women in their lives from their dumbass decisions by working hard, being accountable for entire bloodlines are selfish and entitled.

When young Black men from nothing achieve some shyt, they want their props...

But when we say a nikka wouldn't have to come from nothing if you were responsible with your vagina...all hell break loose...


Males in any society are expected to work to provide for the entire family.

Women are not...

If women have that expectation, then they wouldn't be saying stupid shyt like men are entitled and self-righteous...

 

[Professor Emeritus]

It is a biological imperative to value boys as they usually are better suited to protect the land and gather resources for societal growth.
That doesn't mean they shouldn't be held accountable for egregious crimes. But the value of a male has always been more-or-less significant. Not only are males adept at building societies, they are also givers of life.

And it isn't that society necessarily coddles males rather expects a lot out of males as opposed to females.

Males are expected to grow up and build something, and gather enough resources to help their family, and a male worth his salt will do as such.

Michelle Obama made a dumb point.

I don't think you understood what I was saying. I'm talking about places where little boys are spoiled as fukk getting away with whatever they do and still getting whatever they want, while the girls are treated like shyt doing all the housework from the age of 6-7 and ditched at the slightest slipup.

If you don't think there aren't societies all of the world that out there coddling the hell out of boys, I'm guessing you haven't traveled much. What % of nations out there do you think take most rape/sex abuse cases seriously? Now, what % of nations out there would immediately shyt on a girl that got pregnant? You see my point? A girl having consensual sex gets treated WORSE in most cases than a boy our there abusing someone.

There ain't no fukking biological imperative to raise boys poorly. She ain't talking about raising boys well, she is explicitly talking about cases in which the boys are NOT raised well.

 

[Matt504]

I don't think you understood what I was saying. I'm talking about places where little boys are spoiled as fukk getting away with whatever they do and still getting whatever they want, while the girls are treated like shyt doing all the housework from the age of 6-7 and ditched at the slightest slipup.

If you don't think there aren't societies all of the world that out there coddling the hell out of boys, I'm guessing you haven't traveled much. What % of nations out there do you think take most rape/sex abuse cases seriously? Now, what % of nations out there would immediately shyt on a girl that got pregnant? You see my point? A girl having consensual sex gets treated WORSE in most cases than a boy our there abusing someone.

There ain't no fukking biological imperative to raise boys poorly. She ain't talking about raising boys well, she is explicitly talking about cases in which the boys are NOT raised well.

this is pretty much how I grew up and surprise, surprise, my YOUNGER sister was more prepared and qualified to take care of herself when she left the house. Tough reality and a lot of grace from people around me are the only reasons I've been able to mature to the point I'm at now.

 

[Umoja]

Idiotic and insensitive remarks. It's why I will keep on saying men need to think twice before putting on their cape. You have many men fukking up their lives because they're forced to play man of the house but the burden placed on their shoulder is not respected or acknowledged.

 

[thekingsmen]

How many people will agree with her because you voted for her husband and you cant say shyt wrong about both of them?

 

[AlainLocke]

I don't think you understood what I was saying. I'm talking about places where little boys are spoiled as fukk getting away with whatever they do and still getting whatever they want, while the girls are treated like shyt doing all the housework from the age of 6-7 and ditched at the slightest slipup.

If you don't think there aren't societies all of the world that out there coddling the hell out of boys, I'm guessing you haven't traveled much. What % of nations out there do you think take most rape/sex abuse cases seriously? Now, what % of nations out there would immediately shyt on a girl that got pregnant? You see my point? A girl having consensual sex gets treated WORSE in most cases than a boy our there abusing someone.

There ain't no fukking biological imperative to raise boys poorly. She ain't talking about raising boys well, she is explicitly talking about cases in which the boys are NOT raised well.

Okay...

Even in the Middle East...who are the ones being told to pick up a gun or strap on a bomb and go murder for their nation, tribe, or religion...

In Southeast Asia, who are being held back from entire urban society to stay and go farm....

It's not women....

I think if you are expected to pick a gun and go fight...

or stay in a shytty ass agrarian area and farm all your life...you are not being coddled.

What Michelle Obama said was some liberal ass feminist bullshyt that doesn't reflect the lives of actual men or the function of men in society...it was bullshyt...any man that cosigning that shyt hasn't even stopped and considered what is societal function as a man.

You are really just going...I am a man...I have been told women have it bad, if women have it bad, I must have it good...cause reasons....

 

[thekingsmen]

What is she right about?
She literally makes no sense, how are men entitled and self righteous?
I'm not shocked while this couple sent their kid to Harvey Weinstein to intern, has the same daughter out here drugged out party after party, and sending trannies to read to infants.

Sick couple

She is CFR, so she sold out decades ago.

 

[Kyle C. Barker]

That woman is in her god damn 50s



I actually know what she was trying to say but most likely it got paraphrased wrong.

 

[thekingsmen]

"'It's like the problem in the world today is we love our boys, and we raise our girls,' Obama said."

This is a variation of Jawanza Kunjufu's analysis from over 30 years ago about the destruction of black
boys: "Mothers love their sons, but raise their daughters."

Here's what we have refused to confront for decades: If you don't "raise" your child (your son), it is because you are disconnected from your own child (your son). That is not a form of "love."

So, we've been comfortable for decades with black boys navigating themselves to adulthood
without help, and in many cases, opposition.

And this is considered "coddling."

Great Book.

 

[BLΔCK⁂W⊙LF]

I don't think you understood what I was saying. I'm talking about places where little boys are spoiled as fukk getting away with whatever they do and still getting whatever they want, while the girls are treated like shyt doing all the housework from the age of 6-7 and ditched at the slightest slipup.

If you don't think there aren't societies all of the world that out there coddling the hell out of boys, I'm guessing you haven't traveled much. What % of nations out there do you think take most rape/sex abuse cases seriously? Now, what % of nations out there would immediately shyt on a girl that got pregnant? You see my point? A girl having consensual sex gets treated WORSE in most cases than a boy our there abusing someone.

There ain't no fukking biological imperative to raise boys poorly. She ain't talking about raising boys well, she is explicitly talking about cases in which the boys are NOT raised well.

"Former First Lady Michelle Obama said men feel they are entitled and women protect them too much.

She told the first Obama Foundation international summit men are raised to be babies while women are brought up to be strong."

Her statement was broad and contained little if any nuance. The cases of boys being raised poorly are minimal and would not be deserving of comment outside of the usual, and I highly doubt she'd be talking about India in regards to rape, etc...

In addition, I did understand your post. I was commenting that more is expected of boys. That statement is a direct contradiction to the notion that they are coddled.

Another point you made was boys being spoiled at a young age. Again, that is not significant enough to talk about as some epidemic. Aside from that, I highly doubt you know the family dynamics of said situation to speak on it as if you do.

When it comes to honor killings, it is a travesty but that isn't what Michelle was talking about.

this is pretty much how I grew up and surprise, surprise, my YOUNGER sister was more prepared and qualified to take care of herself when she left the house. Tough reality and a lot of grace from people around me are the only reasons I've been able to mature to the point I'm at now.

 

[Will Ross]

I don't think you understood what I was saying. I'm talking about places where little boys are spoiled as fukk getting away with whatever they do and still getting whatever they want, while the girls are treated like shyt doing all the housework from the age of 6-7 and ditched at the slightest slipup.

If you don't think there aren't societies all of the world that out there coddling the hell out of boys, I'm guessing you haven't traveled much. What % of nations out there do you think take most rape/sex abuse cases seriously? Now, what % of nations out there would immediately shyt on a girl that got pregnant? You see my point? A girl having consensual sex gets treated WORSE in most cases than a boy our there abusing someone.

There ain't no fukking biological imperative to raise boys poorly. She ain't talking about raising boys well, she is explicitly talking about cases in which the boys are NOT raised well.

You are trying to use gender roles to aruge that men are coddled? I would aruge that most American men know how to cook clean better than most women.

 

[Professor Emeritus]

Okay...

Even in the Middle East...who are the ones being told to pick up a gun or strap on a bomb and go murder for their nation, tribe, or religion...

In Southeast Asia, who are being held back from entire urban society to stay and go farm....

It's not women....

I think if you are expected to pick a gun and go fight...

or stay in a shytty ass agrarian area and farm all your life...you are not being coddled.

What Michelle Obama said was some liberal ass feminist bullshyt that doesn't reflect the lives of actual men or the function of men in society...it was bullshyt...anybody man that cosigning that shyt hasn't even stopped and considered what is societal function as a man.

You are really just going...I am a man...I have been told women have it bad, if women have it bad, I must have it good...cause reasons....

Did you not see the guy who just cosigned this and said that was how HE was raised?

It's not about whether or not you have more responsibilities when you grow up. It's about whether boys who are being spoiled as children and raised poorly are being adequately prepared to deal with those responsibilities.

I swear, it's like some of ya'all got triggered by the "this looks anti-man!" quick take and don't even understand what is being said.

You are really just going...I am a man...I have been told women have it bad, if women have it bad, I must have it good...cause reasons....

What da fukk you talking about?

I ain't talking about my upbringing, I was the oldest and my parents raised me STRICTER than my sisters and that shyt was good for me. I can handle anything in the world now and am way better for it.

I'm talking about what I see in actual child-rearing around the world, including a lot of places where young men are dysfunctional as fukk nowadays.

I gave exact examples...did you not even read what I said?

You are trying to use gender roles to aruge that men are coddled? I would aruge that most American men know how to cook clean bette trhan most women.

No, I'm trying to use places where men are coddled to argue that men are coddled.

Unless you want to argue that a 10-year-old boy getting away with whatever the fukk he wants while his 8-year-old sister cooks his food and washes his clothes for him is just "gender roles".

Unless you want to say that a boy getting any incident of rape/abuse covered up on some "boys will be boys" bullshyt while a woman gets disowned simply for getting pregnant is "gender roles."

 

[Matt504]

I swear, it's like some of ya'all got triggered by the "this looks anti-man!" quick take and don't even understand what is being said.

this is pretty spot on and I think this type of knee jerk response to any form of critique is indicative of the coddling we're attempting to discuss and make men aware of.

 

[sidenikkagawd]

I'm starting to get this perspective more and more. Just as we see white folks as being coddled by society, we have to realize that we too as men have a similar advantage ( but not even close in terms of scale to what white folks have).

We have to realize this and not get defensive when attention is brought to it because that is exactly what white people do

I'm a black man. Society don't give a fukk about me enough to coddle me.