Michelle Obama says men are 'entitled and self-righteous' because women protect them too much

[calixprynce]

It's like that in a lot of relationships. Women slide the debit card under the table so the man can pay for dinner. She works to put him through grad school. She is paying half or not most the bills but to the public he is the breadwinner. She is sending out resumes and motivating him to get off the couch, more than him. Even Sheila Johnson, ex wife of Bob Johnson founder of BET, use her connections and credit to launch the network (she is from old black money, Bob was a country nikka first generation in college) and in the end get cheated on and mistreated. It is said that Einstein's first wife, a physicists herself who did the research with him(and to this day the scientific community slights her like the do madam curry), decided to stay married for years enduring emotional abuse. She stayed after doing probabilities of his Nobel Peace prize winning and decided to stay in it for the money, he ended up cheating on her with and then marrying his cousin.

I talk to a lot of brehettes whose great aunts and grandmas who are in lifelong marriages talk about the bullshyt that they endured. Probably why you have so many women who are career focused or wanting to do them, marriage isn't a priority. Also a lot of women are single mothers while married so it's best to be a single mom in relative peace. Even the major three religions uphold this behavior. Even brehs on here think just because they go to the gym and work a job above median income they are entitled to an IG ho. Basically Michelle is saying no more playing second fiddle when ideally.

thats a lil boy. I'd rather eat in than let ma woman pay for our dinner

 

[Black Nate Grey]

Show me where women are checking one another on the regular.

Not in terms of fashion choices or some other bullshyt.

I'm talking about mating choices, career choices, personal finance, etc.

Men lowkey do this shyt all the time in the form of clowning each other as well.
When women check each other it creates life animosity.
I would say women take criticism worse than men, while admittedly men might have more volatile reaction on the extreme ends.

Brehs and Brehettes, honestly ask yourself this:
How many times in your life have you heard a man admit he was wrong or it was his fault?

How many times in your life have you heard a woman admit she was wrong or it was her fault?

You and I both know the answer is skewed to males. I shouldn't even be asking this question.

 

[mamba]

Why are black women always pushing this kinda stuff?

They need to be called out.

These women choose to date and have unprotected sex with the men they later complain about.

They choose to carry to term the children of the men they later complain about.

They, as single mothers, raise the boys to be the very men they complain about.

They need to turn the mirror on themselves.

But, that would take women calling other women out. And we know they will not do that.

 

[mamba]

What is she right about?
She literally makes no sense, how are men entitled and self righteous?
I'm not shocked while this couple sent their kid to Harvey Weinstein to intern, has the same daughter out here drugged out party after party, and sending trannies to read to infants.

Sick couple

Right!

We should never lose sight of the fact that Barack and Michelle Obama allowed their young daughter to be around that Weinstein creep at some point, knowing full well he was a creep.

Out of all the connections Barack and Michelle have, their daughter was sent to intern for Weinstein's company.

Let that soak in, brehs.

 

[Diondon]

Barry did say once he got out of office he, well I guess they, could tackle real issues

 

[mamba]

Wait, What?
It's the complete opposite here. It's boys/men being left behind, thus the general feeling of inadequacy.
Wtf is she talking about?
If anything it's women who are the entitled and coddled sex, case in point:
The existence of White Women.
The most entitled and babied class of person in the history of mankind.
And she is attempting to absolve them of that? (guarantee a majority of her audience was white).
FOH.

Raising strong men. What does that mean in this context? What is her criteria for strong men. What are the traits and virtues that make a 'strong man'?

This is why you don't listen to 90% of the things 99% of women say about masculinity.

Yup.

Simple fact is if you asked them what makes a "strong" man, it would be the same shyt they classify as the "toxic" masculinity they want to weed out!



Desire that which you claim to hate, brehettes.

 

[SupremexKing]

Listen I understand you can make the argument that society views black men better than black women, you could equally argue the opposite. I understand and acknowledge male privilege (though minority men have the budgeted version). But this entire spiel fall flat when you apply it to society in general, those things you listed as advantageous may apply to black men in relation to black women but they also apply to white women in relation to black men.
Which is the opposite of where Michelle's folly lies, she is blanketing where she should be specifying the right group.

she would never address white mommy and daddy

 

[chowism]

If we're being SUPER honest , Michelle was a boss LONG before Barack was. She made more money than he did before those books came out too

What does that have to do with this thread?

 

[TheBlackSun]

There's something very ironic about her discussing the subject of manhood, BUT I'll save that for another subject.

 

[ORDER_66]

She must mean CAC men...

Black men know they're not entitled to shyt... So who is she REALLY talking about because it's not us...

 

[Gravity]

I'm not going to do a deep dive into sociology here but men generally do not check each other in the way that women do. She would probably realize that if she had a son.

Hard topic for brehs, but she is right about men not checking other men like women or being friends with each other. I only got 1 true male friend that I’m comfortable really talking to

Give one example of women checking other women. Give one example of Michelle Obama checking other women. You can't give an example of either. It's sad that so many people are so full of shyt that they don't even realize it.

Women NEVER check each other on anything. Women will hate on each other in dysfunctional ways out of jealousy and all that but when it comes to checking each other in constructive ways that benefits the entire community, that almost never happens. Men check each other all of the time. For example take the first MMM. The first MMM was all about black when checking other black men and making atonement for the mistreatment of black women/children and not holding our collective obligations to the family. You can't point to one single event where black women gathered together in large numbers to talk about how they can atone and be better women to the black men and children. When black women get together it's to blame others for their plight and most of their blame is always directed at black men. Black women don't tolerate being checked, not even by other black women. Whites have conditioned black women to only tolerate being pandered to and told what they want to hear. Black women are encouraged/empowered to push the gender thing because it's a deflection to white supremacy.

 

[Uncle Hotep]

if you look at our community she is completely right

blk women are surpassing blk men in damn near every category

 

[havoc]

It's like that in a lot of relationships. Women slide the debit card under the table so the man can pay for dinner. She works to put him through grad school. She is paying half or not most the bills but to the public he is the breadwinner. She is sending out resumes and motivating him to get off the couch, more than him. Even Sheila Johnson, ex wife of Bob Johnson founder of BET, use her connections and credit to launch the network (she is from old black money, Bob was a country nikka first generation in college) and in the end get cheated on and mistreated. It is said that Einstein's first wife, a physicists herself who did the research with him(and to this day the scientific community slights her like the do madam curry), decided to stay married for years enduring emotional abuse. She stayed after doing probabilities of his Nobel Peace prize winning and decided to stay in it for the money, he ended up cheating on her with and then marrying his cousin.

I talk to a lot of brehettes whose great aunts and grandmas who are in lifelong marriages talk about the bullshyt that they endured. Probably why you have so many women who are career focused or wanting to do them, marriage isn't a priority. Also a lot of women are single mothers while married so it's best to be a single mom in relative peace. Even the major three religions uphold this behavior. Even brehs on here think just because they go to the gym and work a job above median income they are entitled to an IG ho. Basically Michelle is saying no more playing second fiddle when ideally.

Great post.

 

[AlainLocke]

Why are black women always pushing this kinda stuff?

Because Black women are self-righteous and entitled to a degree that is allowed because for some reason, society has made Black women the symbol of female wisdom...so Black women can say stupid shyt to White people and everybody agrees...

Look at Oprah...

Look at the Help

Look at the Matrix and the Oracle

Black women are the magical Negro of White society and get to say things to White people, specifically about the Black man and it is believed....

 

[BaggerofTea]

It's like that in a lot of relationships. Women slide the debit card under the table so the man can pay for dinner. She works to put him through grad school. She is paying half or not most the bills but to the public he is the breadwinner. She is sending out resumes and motivating him to get off the couch, more than him. Even Sheila Johnson, ex wife of Bob Johnson founder of BET, use her connections and credit to launch the network (she is from old black money, Bob was a country nikka first generation in college) and in the end get cheated on and mistreated. It is said that Einstein's first wife, a physicists herself who did the research with him(and to this day the scientific community slights her like the do madam curry), decided to stay married for years enduring emotional abuse. She stayed after doing probabilities of his Nobel Peace prize winning and decided to stay in it for the money, he ended up cheating on her with and then marrying his cousin.

I talk to a lot of brehettes whose great aunts and grandmas who are in lifelong marriages talk about the bullshyt that they endured. Probably why you have so many women who are career focused or wanting to do them, marriage isn't a priority. Also a lot of women are single mothers while married so it's best to be a single mom in relative peace. Even the major three religions uphold this behavior. Even brehs on here think just because they go to the gym and work a job above median income they are entitled to an IG ho. Basically Michelle is saying no more playing second fiddle when ideally.

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