Men's Dating Advice be Condescending as Hell

[RickyDiBiase]

Any dating advice whether geared towards men or women is for absolute failures at social life.

 

[Shadow King]

The amount of people assuming everyone under 30 forgot how to shower or forming a sentence is simply about dismissal.

It's easy to blame men for everything

Yes there are some men that don't even do the bare minimum of having good hygiene or good personality

But there are some women that do have high standards within the relationship and are picky. Or if they don't, they'll still criticize you like they do

And we are sensitive to acknowledging that because it would mean giving women the same scrutiny we give men for their standards

All of this.

 

[Shadow King]

Thankfully they aren’t needed in the GMB era

Except they are. I'm not why you keep trying to run this play.

 

[Westbama Heartthrob]

The amount of people assuming everyone under 30 forgot how to shower or forming a sentence is simply about dismissal.

All of this.

Agreed. Too much time sending shots at low hanging fruit instead of talking in good faith

Condescension is just a coward's way of facing their own shortcomings. Can't work up the nerve to face their own so they hurl others' in their faces

 

[Ohene]

its not just dating advice

the biggest reason for the discrepancy/disequilibrium in dating today is that men are constantly criticized and women are constantly coddled

as a result you have men with no self-esteem who feel like they have to prove themselves or become superman to be worthy of women who are usually average yet somehow think they're God's gift.

you can go to your homies and voice frustration over a dating/relationship situation and they will constantly pick you apart whereas women are going to their friends (and often lying/witholding key facts) and being told they did nothing wrong or other nikkas who are playa hating

- You shouldnt have said this.
* You shouldve said that
- You are playing it too cool
* You are too thirsty
- Pick up the phone and call her instead
* Dont call her, she'll think you're weird
- Get your money up
* Dont lead with your wallet
- Cold approach
* Dont approach, let them come to you

Let ppl tell it, as a man there is always something you should or shouldn't have done...something you need to do or stop doing...etc etc.

 

[Ohene]

Even in the OP, brother is saying to buy a random chick flowers for a date. For what?
I can find you just as many if not more dudes who will call you a lame simp for buying flowers...and rightfully so

No matter what you do as a man, you are criticized

 

[Ohene]

For everything you can list...hygiene, income, money, clothes...shyt height etc, there is are a million dudes who are exceptions to each of those rules. There are no rules. Chicks respond to what they respond to...its random as fukk. Thats what is so frustrating for guys. We are linear thinkers. Broads be all over the place. So really there is no advice. Dudes just be repeating what "worked" for them... that has nothing to do with the next man's situation. Then dudes like Bill operate on assumptions on what dudes arent doing because for them thats all it took so you must not be doing it.

Just do you, have some self respect, and see what happens . But thats not gonna get a million views and go viral and its not fodder for a weekly podcast. You cant get guys and girls to argue over that over and over again. Like Chris Rock said, aint no money in the cure.

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[JNew]

The basic are everywhere.

Once you know women’s nature you realize it just comes down to luck, being at the right place at the right time.

 

[Savvir]

Thats why it's the same take a shower bro, just work out bro, mouthpiece bro, and other vague shyt that if they spew at those who try to get off the wheel.

Alot of nikkas need that advice.

Women aren’t all hard to “get”

If you have the basics and stay in social situations long enough p*ssy will damn near fall in your lap. Relationships are a whole other bag that should start with therapy first before anything.

 

[Ski Mask]

Alot of nikkas need that advice.

Women aren’t all hard to “get”

If you have the basics and stay in social situations long enough p*ssy will damn near fall in your lap.

That's your experience, just like I know dudes who stay on the computer get it easily just as I know dudes who struggle despite following the "basics"

nikkas have no problems saying the world ain't fair but somehow it don't apply to dating