It ain't emasculatin if she a side hustle....but if u depend on a woman for shelter and you don't have your own space in the closet and ya clothes still in garbage bags....if u depend on her for transportation and gotta still to ask to borrow "her car"...and if u depend on her to eat then u need to get yaself together as cool as that might sound....personally I would feel like a bum azz nikka if I wuz one argument away from homlessness,joblessness,foodless,the female does have all the power in that situation....now if u got a second chick as a backup who you KNOW will pick up that slack and hold u down if you fall out with your previous chick/head of household all I can say is
^ this.
if she's a bird u just hanging out with and she got money to blow, aint shyt wrong with that.
but if u one of those bum ass nikkas depending on a female for every little thing, u gotta fix your priorities. need to grow some balls. need to man the fukk up.