Men should have equal say when it comes to abortion

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If you had unprotected sex it is your responsibility. It's not the childs fault the two people to not use contraceptives. I agree If a guy says he didn't the baby and and the woman keeps it, it is on her. That doesn't negate his part in it. The guy is still an ass and abandoned his child.They are both adults.


Nah. He just isn't ruled by emotion. He probably logically sees that he is not ready financially, mentally, or both to have a child. It's better for that child to not live at all if that's the case. Ya'll are the asses for bringing a child into a world of unpreparedness. :ufdup:
 

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Man this same fukking thread again, and its 8 pages all ready. Yall dudes are some cornballs no joke
 

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If you had unprotected sex it is your responsibility. It's not the childs fault the two people to not use contraceptives. I agree If a guy says he didn't the baby and and the woman keeps it, it is on her. That doesn't negate his part in it. The guy is still an ass and abandoned his child.They are both adults.

I say its the woman's fault. She knew a dude up in her raw or aint get up and do jumping jacks to let the nut ooze out and decided to go to sleep with that shyt marinating in her and then conceiving. If a chic decides to keep regardless of what the guy says then its TOTALLY on her. She had several choices about the outcome, a man only has one
 

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So you're saying that having sex without a condom is implied consent that he is willing to have a baby?

So this would also mean that a woman allowing a man to have sex without a condom is implied consent that she is willing to have a baby? Right?

But that's not what you're saying. You're saying that a man gives up his choice, but a woman doesn't.

If the law made abortion illegal, you would say it's not fair that a woman is forced to have a baby, am I correct? Even if she didn't protect herself or ensured that the man used protection. After all, she put herself at risk and understood the consequences. Implied consent, right?

I just want you to acknowledge that you are indeed promoting a double standard. It's perfectly fine to have that stance, I just need you to understand that.

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They do have a say...they can so no to sex with that woman they don't want a child with..yet you have men walking around taking risk then becoming angry when the woman wants to keep her baby
 

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So you're saying that having sex without a condom is implied consent that he is willing to have a baby?

So this would also mean that a woman allowing a man to have sex without a condom is implied consent that she is willing to have a baby? Right?

But that's not what you're saying. You're saying that a man gives up his choice, but a woman doesn't.

If the law made abortion illegal, you would say it's not fair that a woman is forced to have a baby, am I correct? Even if she didn't protect herself or ensured that the man used protection. After all, she put herself at risk and understood the consequences. Implied consent, right?

I just want you to acknowledge that you are indeed promoting a double standard. It's perfectly fine to have that stance, I just need you to understand that.
Nope. I am saying it is on both sides. There is no win in the situation if people want the opposite. I woman who decides to have a baby it's on her to raise it if the guy doesn't want to be there. I commented earlier :

Be smart, and protect yourself. Marry/ LTR someone and be on the same page.

If you don't want a baby man or woman protect yourself. If you do want a child, Be selective and choose someone who wants to have one as well and will be there. I was in a LTR, I didn't want a child at all. But my fiance and I continued to have unprotected sex because it's awesome.Long story short. I didn't want the baby, he did. I had the baby. We didn't work out but we are great parents. It wasn't our son's fault we weren't responsible but we stepped up.
 

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You left out the part where I said I would still be a friend and help them through therapy.

I and every man here respects women who are worthy to be respected.

I've never justified cheating, abuse or degraded any broad, sorry I won't stand by the wayside as good honorable men are basbed

Save me that shyt, there's a whole thread dedicated to "dealing" with women, cheating on women, and constant threads made of how women are just money hungry whores.

The only time most this forum respects women is when its ig and twitter hunnies lol

you said youd leave someone you were in a relationship with if they got raped, now you're gonna act like some moral crusader? puhleaze.
 

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Onlyy benefit is when he has a stroke or heart attack he'll probably have a Higher chance of living


Np . You should make a thread asking what the benefits to a man are in marriage. Thats a good one
 

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I say its the woman's fault. She knew a dude up in her raw or aint get up and do jumping jacks to let the nut ooze out and decided to go to sleep with that shyt marinating in her and then conceiving. If a chic decides to keep regardless of what the guy says then its TOTALLY on her. She had several choices about the outcome, a man only has one

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Nah. He just isn't ruled by emotion. He probably logically sees that he is not ready financially, mentally, or both to have a child. It's better for that child to not live at all if that's the case. Ya'll are the asses for bringing a child into a world of unpreparedness. :ufdup:

If you aren't ready strap up, use your own condoms, tell her to get on birth control. You said in another post women are tall children. Is a man a child that he cannot control his own impulses? Oh you can't control yourself when you are getting that nut. But when :ufdup: you wanna be all "mature and logical" I don't agree with bringing a child into a bad situation. I am not against abortion either. But, don't act like the guy has no fault in this. If he would have done right in the first place he wouldn't be at this females mercy. Dude wouldn't have to worry about money and being ready. Condoms are how much?
 

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So I guess were could care less about making responsible decisions before it comes to this. Don't worry about the quality of your potential mate. Don't make responsible decisions when it comes to unwanted pregnancies.

Like a squirrel out here just trying to get a nut, shoot first and ask questions later.

Then we wonder why our community is #1 in abortions AND single motherhood:beli:
 
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