I'm on a weight loss journey to lose 100 pounds so I'll probably end up getting a tummy tuck and boob job when I hit my goal. Plastic surgery is necessary in some cases, hopefully the women that need it have supportive spouses.
Trust me convince has nothing to do with it on, at least on my end. We make up for what we lack physically in other things. So no, it's not that we don't have standards or that we're desperate(if that's what you mean by convience) we just rank a persons stock differently than you do and not just you but seemingly most of society. So when you think about it like that it is convenient in a way being that we won't ignore other qualities that make us attracted to each other because of a lack of physical attraction. And that shyt about beauty being subjective is nice and all but there are people like Whoppie Goldberg who just about everyone finds unnatractice. That's a lot different from seeing a girl on the street and one dude is saying "oh she's cute" and another one is like "hell nah bytch she's ugly as hell". There are people who are considered ugly by consenses on a global scale.Attraction is subjective though and you're right there is more to a relationship then just physical attraction but I don't think I've ever heard someone say their significant other is ugly as hell and they're not physically attracted to them.
That's just weird and I just can't understand how someone can be in a relationship thinking that way about the other person. It just sounds like a relationship of convenience
Pay for a chick to get her looks up and leave you for another nikka brehs
I never really understood why this is the automatic go to statement about plastic surgery. Like the majority of people don't have insecurities but only the people who actually wanna do something about it are demonized. shyt makes no sense.
Like if you have an ugly ass nose, crooked teeth or no t*ts and you don't like it you should just live with it on some principles shyt.
Dumb comment
I've been married for 9 years
Been to together for 11 years, I'm worried about that.
I don't believe you should pay or invest any money into that if your not married.
my initial thought is what kind. what about women w/ excess skin from weight loss? what about a girl like kelly rowland? case by case basis.
Kelly Rowland reveals Beyonce's mom told her to delay getting boob jobWhat do you mean what about a girl like Kelly?
My ex wanted to do this. In fact, I talked to her recently and she brought it up again in the course of our conversation. I've always looked at it as a bit of an insecure move. It's not me casting judgement on her. She'll tell you herself that she's insecure about her body. Which turns me off because there is nothing that would lead you believe that she has a flawed body. It's a mental thing. Nobody in her life has ever told her her boobs were too small or that she needed implants. She personally feels her boobs are not adequate.
shyt used to piss me off because it's like dude, you're your biggest enemy. Just love you. Plus she has even admitted that due to her insecurity, she's a bit afraid to get the surgery and then realize that she's still not happy.
Crazy mental/emotional shyt y'all expect us to deal with.
Would I have broken up with her because she got them done - not necessarily. The level of insecurity outweighs the actual decision.