Men of the Coli, How Would You Feel If Your Wife/Gf Wanted To Get Plastic Surgery?

Princess Coco

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I'm on a weight loss journey to lose 100 pounds so I'll probably end up getting a tummy tuck and boob job when I hit my goal. Plastic surgery is necessary in some cases, hopefully the women that need it have supportive spouses.
 
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Attraction is subjective though and you're right there is more to a relationship then just physical attraction but I don't think I've ever heard someone say their significant other is ugly as hell and they're not physically attracted to them.


That's just weird and I just can't understand how someone can be in a relationship thinking that way about the other person. It just sounds like a relationship of convenience :yeshrug:
:mjlol: Trust me convince has nothing to do with it on, at least on my end. We make up for what we lack physically in other things. So no, it's not that we don't have standards or that we're desperate(if that's what you mean by convience) we just rank a persons stock differently than you do and not just you but seemingly most of society. So when you think about it like that it is convenient in a way being that we won't ignore other qualities that make us attracted to each other because of a lack of physical attraction. And that shyt about beauty being subjective is nice and all but there are people like Whoppie Goldberg who just about everyone finds unnatractice. That's a lot different from seeing a girl on the street and one dude is saying "oh she's cute" and another one is like "hell nah bytch she's ugly as hell". There are people who are considered ugly by consenses on a global scale.
 

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I'm against unnecessary cosmetic surgery.


And no, the fact that you're too lazy to exercise and diet doesn't make cosmetic surgery necessary. Nor does your insecurity about some of your traits.
 

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Wife wants mommy makeover.
After 4 kids I think she's earned it but she is great how she is, her waist is 25inch with 40inch hips and in incredible shape, women would kill for her natural shape but she wants the breast to go with it, I'm down but she can't get double DD, she needs to stay in C's.
 

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Pay for a chick to get her looks up and leave you for another nikka brehs

Dumb comment
I've been married for 9 years
Been to together for 11 years, I'm worried about that.
I don't believe you should pay or invest any money into that if your not married.
 

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I never really understood why this is the automatic go to statement about plastic surgery. Like the majority of people don't have insecurities but only the people who actually wanna do something about it are demonized. shyt makes no sense.

Like if you have an ugly ass nose, crooked teeth or no t*ts and you don't like it you should just live with it on some principles shyt. :mjlol:

There are levels of insecurity. I think most people think people who get surgery are extremely insecure b/c they go to the extent of getting surgery. Others who don't want surgery are seen as less insecure b/c it doesn't bother them enough to get put to sleep/numbed and cut open just so they can look a certain way.
I don't think crooked teeth are included b/c the mouth is already open & having crooked teeth can be harmful to the health of a person's mouth.

Some people also don't include surgeries to correct things that are deformed or things caused by sicknesses. Like people born with clef lips, or if someone got breast cancer and had to get their real breasts removed and replaced them with fake ones.
 

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Dumb comment
I've been married for 9 years
Been to together for 11 years, I'm worried about that.
I don't believe you should pay or invest any money into that if your not married.

It's actually not dumb. It happens all of the time. A person upgrades their look or money and leave the person they were with b/c they have more/better options now.

my initial thought is what kind. what about women w/ excess skin from weight loss? what about a girl like kelly rowland? case by case basis.

What do you mean what about a girl like Kelly?
 

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Really just depends, if there is a problem that I can see she would be distress'd by and by doing the surgery she would become more confident I would have no problem,I would even help pay for it . If I can't see an issue or it's very minor I would think a psychiatrist/psychologist is more in order if reassurance from me had no effect,rather than her going under the knife. I have seen some examples where this surgery actually creates problems quite serious ones when the operations go wrong. . I dislike plastic surgery generally unless, it's for something like burns or an obvious defect, because I think it harms society to be quite honest. I just think it exploits peoples in securities and I hate how the media promotes it. There is a role for plastic surgeons, I just dislike the consumerist aspect to it, and I think some surgeons are rather unethical.

I saw a plastic surgeon,who performed a procedure on me to loosen my foreskin rather than having a full circumcision, I only saw this surgeon because a urologist recommended her ,because it was highly skilled work and when it's my penis I wanted the best cutting it. This was not done for cosmetic reasons, I simply feared losing sensation with a full circumcision and the urolgist said plastic surgeons are the best people to do it, and recommended me one.
 

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She has breast cancer in her family and will eventually have hers removed and replaced with implants. I'm okay with this :manny:
 

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My ex wanted to do this. In fact, I talked to her recently and she brought it up again in the course of our conversation. I've always looked at it as a bit of an insecure move. It's not me casting judgement on her. She'll tell you herself that she's insecure about her body. Which turns me off because there is nothing that would lead you believe that she has a flawed body. It's a mental thing. Nobody in her life has ever told her her boobs were too small or that she needed implants. She personally feels her boobs are not adequate.

shyt used to piss me off because it's like dude, you're your biggest enemy. Just love you. Plus she has even admitted that due to her insecurity, she's a bit afraid to get the surgery and then realize that she's still not happy.

Crazy mental/emotional shyt y'all expect us to deal with.

Would I have broken up with her because she got them done - not necessarily. The level of insecurity outweighs the actual decision.

What cup size is she?
Why do you still talk to your ex like y'all are still together? Just wondering.


I know kelly had a boob job, but I still don't know what you mean when you say "a girl like her".
 
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