Men of the Coli, How Would You Feel If Your Wife/Gf Wanted To Get Plastic Surgery?

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

The word NO doesn't have feelings attached. It is a concrete statement.

 

[Solomon Caine]

No! we already had this conversation, I'm strictly against changing the way god made us.

 

[agnosticlady]

.here you go @bangbreh

Your body looks great! I would never assume that you have surgery. I just want my butt to be a little more lifted. .

Braces are literally no different than cosmetic surgery. Most people get them for aesthetic purposes. You literally wear painful unattractive devices for YEARS to look better. Not only that you must maintain it with retainers. Most plastic surgery heals in 3 to 6 months and outside of normal health practices need no more maintains. So which is more extreme, something I have to do for years to change my appearance or something that takes a few months?

It's just normalize. It's OKAY to want to fix ugly teeth but it's NOT OKAY to want to fix saggy breasts. It's OKAY to be insecure about gaped teeth but NOT OKAY to be insecure about a flat butt. It's just a normalize double standard that honestly doesn't make sense especially when you actually compare time, cost and maintenance.

As far as "levels"...since when is someone who is actually solves issues/ problems seen as less than someone who does nothing about a problem? Some people are just go getters and some people aren't. You never met someone who refused to show certain parts of their body, won't smile for fear of showing their teeth, or constantly puts down their physical appearance? It's common. But those people is LESS insecure than anyone b/c they aren't doing anything to fix it? I don't think so. I think the fact that someone is willing to fix/change something has more to do with personality type then "level" of insecurity.

You can also take into account funds, information and availability. For example, when chicks found out they could get their breasts, butt, etc done their was a flood of people who use to be "okay with how they look" changing things up.

Anyways, I think most people really hate plastic surgery and throw around "insecurities" b/c they see it as cheating and people hate cheaters. They hate to think that someone got something the "easy way." I can respect that argument more than the insecurities bullshyt. Everyone has insecurities so to try to label someone with a very common human emotion in order to shame them is irritating.

I think people get jealous because they don't have the means or money to fix it. I know for a fact that if people could get it secretly done and nobody would know they would do it.
I knew a chick from high school that would always brag about loving your natural self yet she spent mad money on weaves, fake nails, makeup, and when her boobs got bigger she would act like she never had a flat chest before.
But kudos yo your honesty.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Your body looks great! I would never assume that you have surgery. I just want my butt to be a little more lifted. .



I think people get jealous because they don't have the means or money to fix it. I know for a fact that if people could get it secretly done and nobody would know they would do it.
I knew a chick from high school that would always brag about loving your natural self yet she spent mad money on weaves, fake nails, makeup, and when her boobs got bigger she would act like she never had a flat chest before.
But kudos yo your honesty.

Thank you. Lol That too. I didn't wanna bring up the jealously part b/c ...well you know why...but that is a big factor too.

I really got the BBL b/c I wanted a flat stomach. I use to be thin and anytime I put on a small amount of weight it would go straight to my tummy and I hated it. I knew I would have to watch out for a gut my whole life. Yeah no. The rest is history.

Funny thing is I stay covered 99% of the time. The only one getting a show at this point is me and I am happy with that. I really don't like a lot of attention.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

This is why I rather pay for my own surgery. No man is telling me what I can and cannot get. I need a boob lift from my weight going up and down. I miss my perkies . Ladies get that sh*t done on your own time don't ask him for sh*t unless he wants to pay for it. Hell I don't hear women complain about men wanting d*ck and nut surgery I guess we just don't give a f*ck.

Right. The thought of someone telling me what I can and can't do with my body is especially if it's just a boyfriend . My ex tried me with that. Lost his silly little mind.

 

[Gold]

My girl wants to get a boob lift and MAYBE implants when she gets old.
I'm bout it.

 

[Paradise]

Quiet as it's kept I wouldn't care how he felt about it. I said if I were ever able to I would get a breast lift and a small reduction.

My girls are gonna look really nice!

 

[KnowDatImReal]

get an ass fat transfer bytch

 

[Gutzman]

hell no, i dont want no fake woman. especially not in the face then shell look like all these rich insecure women who all look like they have the same syndrome.

 

[MJ Truth]

My girl got a nose job. I told her not to do it when she told me she was going to, but she wasn't really asking as much as she was just letting me know. It was in the first few weeks of us being together though, and TBH I didn't even notice she had work done until she pointed it out.

If she tried to get some work done now though it'd be a big issue though.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

I prefer women i’m dealing with to be natural but ultimately, it’s her body, her decision.

I’ve seen women’s bodies change completely after giving birth, so I’d be supportive and understanding if she’s going under the knife to get her old shape back. Stretch marks, saggy breasts etc. I see no harm in it. Especially if they’ve lost a lot of weight and have excess skin.

Now if it’s a young woman that hasn’t had any kids and she wants a bigger butt just for attention or because she idolises all these other plastic celebrities, to me that’s huge red flag and I wouldn’t even entertain her.

From my experience, there’s something internally wrong with women getting surgery in that scenario. I’m not against fixing a broken nose, getting your teeth fixed etc. But when it comes to getting bigger lips, a bigger ass etc, I’m more than likely dealing with a head case.

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

I was asked once by one girlfriend what I thought if she got her breasts done. She asked because one of her friends had hers done.

I just don’t find shyt like that necessary. And, slightly psychologically disturbing to think you should change your body using methods like that...