Men of the Coli, How Would You Feel If Your Wife/Gf Wanted To Get Plastic Surgery?

[WHIPPEDCream]

That's real love.

 

[Dreamestorical]

That's real love.

lol hell nahh!!! My girl gets automatic bushes if she makes such a request. (after all if I'm with her I already love her as she is)
A man will have to drop at least 10k depending on the procedure. I would rather my girl ask me to buy her a Hermes Birkin bag.
At least that has resale value.

 

[WHIPPEDCream]

lol hell nahh!!! My girl gets automatic bushes if she makes such a request. (after all if I'm with her I already love her as she is)
A man will have to drop at least 10k depending on the procedure. I would rather my girl ask me to buy her a Hermes Birkin bag.
At least that has resale value.

You don't understand. Not 10k, maybe 6k max.

 

[Dreamestorical]

You don't understand. Not 10k, maybe 6k max.

6k max??? what kind of surgeon are you going to???

If you want good quality/safe/standard work you have to cough up some cash.

 

[ultraflexed]

Supply and demand has driven the price down substantially due to competition and high demand so 6k sounds right.

 

[tru_m.a.c]

What cup size is she?
Why do you still talk to your ex like y'all are still together? Just wondering.

She's an A, but gets away with it via push up bras and stuff. So while the public might not care because they don't know, she cares and it bothers her.

And it was just one of those "I'm single- You're single" catch up conversations. I don't converse regularly with old anythings.

Thought she'd gotten over that shyt.

 

[Versa]

I'd feel like I'm on my way to a divorce

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

There are levels of insecurity. I think most people think people who get surgery are extremely insecure b/c they go to the extent of getting surgery. Others who don't want surgery are seen as less insecure b/c it doesn't bother them enough to get put to sleep/numbed and cut open just so they can look a certain way.
I don't think crooked teeth are included b/c the mouth is already open & having crooked teeth can be harmful to the health of a person's mouth.

Some people also don't include surgeries to correct things that are deformed or things caused by sicknesses. Like people born with clef lips, or if someone got breast cancer and had to get their real breasts removed and replaced them with fake ones.

Braces are literally no different than cosmetic surgery. Most people get them for aesthetic purposes. You literally wear painful unattractive devices for YEARS to look better. Not only that you must maintain it with retainers. Most plastic surgery heals in 3 to 6 months and outside of normal health practices need no more maintains. So which is more extreme, something I have to do for years to change my appearance or something that takes a few months?

It's just normalize. It's OKAY to want to fix ugly teeth but it's NOT OKAY to want to fix saggy breasts. It's OKAY to be insecure about gaped teeth but NOT OKAY to be insecure about a flat butt. It's just a normalize double standard that honestly doesn't make sense especially when you actually compare time, cost and maintenance.

As far as "levels"...since when is someone who is actually solves issues/ problems seen as less than someone who does nothing about a problem? Some people are just go getters and some people aren't. You never met someone who refused to show certain parts of their body, won't smile for fear of showing their teeth, or constantly puts down their physical appearance? It's common. But those people is LESS insecure than anyone b/c they aren't doing anything to fix it? I don't think so. I think the fact that someone is willing to fix/change something has more to do with personality type then "level" of insecurity.

You can also take into account funds, information and availability. For example, when chicks found out they could get their breasts, butt, etc done their was a flood of people who use to be "okay with how they look" changing things up.

Anyways, I think most people really hate plastic surgery and throw around "insecurities" b/c they see it as cheating and people hate cheaters. They hate to think that someone got something the "easy way." I can respect that argument more than the insecurities bullshyt. Everyone has insecurities so to try to label someone with a very common human emotion in order to shame them is irritating.

 

[#1 pick]

Hopefully he would pay for mines.

He would pay to make you white?

 

[Geek Nasty]

The only thing I'd cosign is fixing pregnancy stomach. But, only if she's taking care of herself already.

 

[Reactor1804]

If it aint for a medical reason, nope not gonna happen.

 

[Piff Perkins]

I'm not a fan of it personally but ultimately it's not my decision. My girlfriend is very conscious about her nose and wants to get a nose job, for instance. I don't think there's anything wrong with it. It's small but kinda points up a bit, and she thinks that makes the nostrils too prominent (despite as I said having a small nose).


She hasn't actually set up to have it done, but she brings it up enough for me to know she's serious. Do what you gotta do I guess...

Kinda depressing when I'm telling her how great she looks and I can tell she doesn't hear it. All she's thinking about is her nose. Not all the time obviously, but enough for it to be obvious.

 

[Scholar]

She's a strong woman so if she wants it, it is her choice

 

[:-)]

This is why I rather pay for my own surgery. No man is telling me what I can and cannot get. I need a boob lift from my weight going up and down. I miss my perkies . Ladies get that sh*t done on your own time don't ask him for sh*t unless he wants to pay for it. Hell I don't hear women complain about men wanting d*ck and nut surgery I guess we just don't give a f*ck.

 

[Calmye]

My wife getting her t*ts done. I hate it