My thing is people who share these type of "problems" are never looking for a different perspective, she just wants people to reaffirm whatever she's already thinking, in this case that men ain't shyt and she'll be forever treated like she's replaceable because she's "dark-skinned" or whatever. If someone replied with a "why are you worried about whether a guy you stopped showing interest in is still interested in you" or even a simple "don't you feel like you're overthinking this" she'd probably cuss them out.