See thats the thing why is that such a big deal Im not a virgin ive had sex its good but its not everything its not that serious . You guys put so much value into women its crazy its no wonder they think the way they do
Go ahead.
I don't know you op so just tossing this out here- did it occur to you that simply because sex isn't super important to you that doesn't mean that it isn't for other men?
People have different sex drives as well as different social needs as far as relating to or pursuing th ed opposite sex.
There's married couples that are basically celibate with one another, doesn't mean that such an arrangement would work for me in my marriage. If that works for them cool, but they don't get to determine that what works for me is just the wrong way and that I'm somehow affecting their comfort
Truth be told this idea does seem to be coming from a sour grapes perspective,
In wanting it to be easier for yourself or those like you than for it to be really about some kind of male solidarity.
Like I said I don't know you though. Just my opinion.
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