Men and women friendships in 2017 and beyond...

[the artist known az]

"obey" lol
I will avoid guys who have lots of female "friends".
I didn't say they had to obey anything. It's called respecting boundaries.

It is inapproriate to be hanging out with women alone, exchanging numbers with new women (unless it's for work), making new female "friends" when you are in a relationship. Work related things are fine, just keep it appropriate. Talking to them is fine as long as it is appropriate. No bonding or anything like that should be going on though, nothing too deep. No sharing feelings ect, emotional cheating.

All of this would be discussed in the beginning. If they don't like it, they can leave me alone.



It is not appropriate to go out for drinks alone with another woman late at night while you have a gf/wife.

My bf/husband wouldn't even think that was ok to do

It would be different if he went out with a group that included both women and men.

So if he knew her years before he knew you, he's supposed to throw that friendship away?

 

[Serious]

what is oomf?

and this type of shyt is why relationships don't last and mfs have trust issues. everytime you hear someone say "oh thats my homeboy/girl or even cousin" you know they have smashed

 

[Dwolf]

She means a friend with benefits? I feel that if the sex is too good, then someone's gonna catch feelings.

Women can't just get a nut off with a random guy so when they find some world class dikk, they usually lock it down.

How old are you?

 

[Giselle]

So if he knew her years before he knew you, he's supposed to throw that friendship away?

She is grown, she is supposed to have her own life and partner. She is supposed to be focusing on her own life and bonding with her own man, not mine.

It doesn't matter how long they knew eachother, it is never ok to go out alone late at night for drinks with the opposite sex when you are in a relationship.

Inviting us both to a brunch or her family's bbq or something is different. Day time events out in public, with groups of people. That is appropriate. Drinks alone late at night is not.

It really isn't that difficult to understand.

 

[The Mad Titan]

She is grown, she is supposed to have her own life and partner. She is supposed to be focusing on her own life and bonding with her own man, not mine.

It doesn't matter how long they knew eachother, it is never ok to go out alone late at night for drinks with the opposite sex when you are in a relationship.

Inviting us both to a brunch or her family's bbq or something is different. Day time events out in public, with groups of people. That is appropriate. Drinks alone late at night is not.

It really isn't that difficult to understand.

You right

 

[Ineedmoney504]

My type of girls

 

[ePiffany]

They still living in this fantasy that women fukk WITH feelings

Let them live.

It ain't that serious cant speak 4 the rest of the brothas but in my experience I've not met a single women that didn't want to transition to a relationship from strictly fukkin.

I'm assuming the same is tru 4 the guys commenting in the thread. It aint just us I've always heard women complain that nikkas only wanna fukk but wont cuff no matter what my relationship wad to them ; Sister, cousins, friends, girlfriends, exes, acquaintances, co workers hav all said the exact same thing.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

She is grown, she is supposed to have her own life and partner. She is supposed to be focusing on her own life and bonding with her own man, not mine.

It doesn't matter how long they knew eachother, it is never ok to go out alone late at night for drinks with the opposite sex when you are in a relationship.

Inviting us both to a brunch or her family's bbq or something is different. Day time events out in public, with groups of people. That is appropriate. Drinks alone late at night is not.

It really isn't that difficult to understand.

Don't let anybody discourage u from having common sense.

People don't like boundaries because they wanna have their cake and eat it too.
The nature of friendships changes when someone gets into a relationship and there is ABSOLUTELY nothing wrong with that.

I've had plenty of male friends that got girlfriends and I was more respectful to them than my male friends. Because my friendship was genuine and I respected their relationships. The fact that this is a novel concept to some is looking real shytty.

If u don't want ur friends romantically, u should have no problem falling back when they get into relationships. People need to stop being childish.

 

[Giselle]

Don't let anybody discourage u from having common sense.

They really try it on here. Trying to pretend that I only make "bird brain" or air headed posts. Like I don't have any sense.

This reminds me of when they said I was doing to much by requiring clean Std test results along with the use of condoms

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

They really try it on here. Trying to pretend that I only make "bird brain" or air headed posts. Like I don't have any sense.

This reminds me of when they said I was doing to much by requiring clean Std test results along with the use of condoms

I think it's a lot of trolls and people trying to find their way socially by saying shyt they think is most acceptable to the current popular climate.
Some people will claim 2+3=8 if it's trendy because they need to be accepted. Herd mentality.

Personally, I reject ignorance b/c it's useless. If I always gotta be that child in the crowd pointing at the Emperor's dyck while the rest are pretending he fully clothed, Ill be that. Some shyt ain't a good look no matter how many cowards u get to co-sign it.

And maintaining the same quality, time and energy in a friendship when u get into a relationship is the epitome of stupid. But maybe I'm being too harsh. A lot of this misunderstanding comes from a lack of experience too.

 

[JQ Legend]

"obey" lol
I will avoid guys who have lots of female "friends".
I didn't say they had to obey anything. It's called respecting boundaries.

It is inapproriate to be hanging out with women alone, exchanging numbers with new women (unless it's for work), making new female "friends" when you are in a relationship. Work related things are fine, just keep it appropriate. Talking to them is fine as long as it is appropriate. No bonding or anything like that should be going on though, nothing too deep. No sharing feelings ect, emotional cheating.

All of this would be discussed in the beginning. If they don't like it, they can leave me alone.



It is not appropriate to go out for drinks alone with another woman late at night while you have a gf/wife.

My bf/husband wouldn't even think that was ok to do

It would be different if he went out with a group that included both women and men.

At first u had me like

But when u put it that way, that's not unreasonable

 

[Swirv]

Where's the evidence to the contrary?

Women try so hard to act like men nowadays, it's sad. There's nothing wrong with admitting you'll catch feelings for a guy if he's got good dikk.

ive had enough one night stands to know after the club/party/event women just want a nut too. That better half talk is bs.

 

[ben anderson]

At first u had me like

But when u put it that way, that's not unreasonable

it really isn't. the part about friends before though your not attracted to all women sexually, thus some actually being friends

 

[HabitualChiller]

How old are you?

18. I meant just ANY random guy.

 

[Oran "Juice" Jones]

ive had enough one night stands to know after the club/party/event women just want a nut too. That better half talk is bs.

I'm not talking one night stands. More like friends with benefits.