Married women who have affairs are happy in their relationships but are just 'bored' in the bedroom

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Why do people think emotions are worthless or don't mean anything? emotions are what motivates us to do nearly everything in life. it separates us from animals. it makes us feel alive. it makes our lives worth living. don't sleep on love, breh, don't do that to yourself.

Don't mind him. Some chick broke his heart and sent him into a tailspin that involved Men's Rights Activism and born-again religion.

Now he's on an anti-marriage crusade, all the while taking advantage of assets born out of this parents' marriage. Basically he's a fukking clown :yeshrug:
 

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as a rule i don't really mess around w/married chicks, but i have had two that i just couldn't pass up on :manny:

one was married to a railroad engineer, cat was always gone.

second one was a military wife, husband was overseas fighting for our country.

i just chalked it up to them being lonely, not so much that the sex was bad or they even had bad marriages
 

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May I ask that you elaborate on this assertion, madam?

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When I say people are fukked, what I mean is our generations ideas on monogamy and sex is changing. It's okay and almost expected to have many sex partners no matter the cost because sex is seen as a right, an entitlement for having a penis or vagina and a sex drive. While I like the thought process behind it, it is leading people to feel it's okay to cheat if their partner isn't giving them what they need. In my opinion, people are looking at relationships in a more selfish way (and I'm using the term selfish as broad and as neutral as possible. A better term may be self-serving or self-interested). If it's not everything they want, they will leave. It's becoming so much the norm that we don't even think about it.

When I say people in the Bible Belt are...less fukked...what I mean is people in this area tend to live in small social circles that are regulated by conservative principles. This principles are: no sex before marriage, marry young, have children in your 20s, never divorce, no cheating/adultery, no sinful behavior etc. Their systems highly regulate what they believe and what they do. I have always thought if you want a good wife who is less likely to cheat, go to a church in the Bible Belt. Marriage is EVERYTHING in this culture. However they are fukked too because they cheat as often as anyone else.
 

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Don't mind him. Some chick broke his heart and sent him into a tailspin that involved Men's Rights Activism and born-again religion.

Now he's on an anti-marriage crusade, all the while taking advantage of assets born out of this parents' marriage. Basically he's a fukking clown :yeshrug:

wrong, wrong, wrong wrong

nice try though
 

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So no one is going to mention that this study surveyed a 100 fukking people :heh:
Doesn't matter to me, I was already sold on not getting married anyways. Even if I was about that relationship life, why do we need some documents and some grand ceremony to show that we're supposedly in love with each other. All of that shyt is just to feed the woman's ego imo. if I can find a woman who is down enough for me that we be together without all of that extra bullshyt then I'm good. Until then I'll keep dogging these hoes out and tossing them to the bushes when im done. I'll be a scumbag for life
 

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Better to reign in Hell than serve in Heaven
how is this any different from men??

i swear we invented "i was just fukking her, i LOVE you"

and when you think it's no different..... cheat with 20 dimes... come home and find a nikka fukking your main/wife.... see what your heart feels like... for days.. months... years

you love that girl... you just want more

how is this news

how can she slap
 
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When I say people are fukked, what I mean is our generations ideas on monogamy and sex is changing. It's okay and almost expected to have many sex partners no matter the cost because sex is seen as a right, an entitlement for having a penis or vagina and a sex drive. While I like the thought process behind it, it is leading people to feel it's okay to cheat if their partner isn't giving them what they need. In my opinion, people are looking at relationships in a more selfish way (and I'm using the term selfish as broad and as neutral as possible. A better term may be self-serving or self-interested). If it's not everything they want, they will leave. It's becoming so much the norm that we don't even think about it.

When I say people in the Bible Belt are...less fukked...what I mean is people in this area tend to live in small social circles that are regulated by conservative principles. This principles are: no sex before marriage, marry young, have children in your 20s, never divorce, no cheating/adultery, no sinful behavior etc. Their systems highly regulate what they believe and what they do. I have always thought if you want a good wife who is less likely to cheat, go to a church in the Bible Belt. Marriage is EVERYTHING in this culture. However they are fukked too because they cheat as often as anyone else.

spot on, with the bolded. i don't really know about the bible belt, but this is certainly an attitude i see afflicting most westerners i encounter. i was born and raised in a highly conservative, African culture, so a lot of what americans consider to be normal sexual behavior isn't very normal to me.

the problem with a lot of ppl is that they have nothing to compare to so they never really get to question their actions, attitudes towards sex, men, women, etc ...

& don't get me wrong. i'm all for people standing up for their rights as individuals and doing whatever they want. however, i feel like the western brand of individualism is breeding a really pernicious sort of self-serving attitude in regards to socializing and relationships that really makes it difficult to connect w/ people.

i've discussed this topic with various living in other cultures & they all pretty much agreed that ppl here are fukked when it comes to social interaction.
 
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