Married women who have affairs are happy in their relationships but are just 'bored' in the bedroom

[Family Man]

Y’all just don’t value women for anything outside of physical satisfaction and that’s ok, but don’t get married. Marriage isn’t a check box, it’s a physical, mental, and emotional commitment and you have to value something greater in your partner than just sex.

Couldn't have said it any better.

 

[Secure Da Bag]

Y’all just don’t value women for anything outside of physical satisfaction and that’s ok, but don’t get married. Marriage isn’t a check box, it’s a physical, mental, and emotional commitment and you have to value something greater in your partner than just sex.

Couldn't have said it any better.

Sounds like something a @Typical Simp would say.

 

[Family Man]

Ok.. either you’re being deliberately obtuse or you genuinely don’t understand. I’m echoing the same sentiments as the OP. There are people that are happily married but are bored with sex with the same person. That’s not limiting the marriage down to sex, it’s looking at one aspect of it.

Maybe you have to have a dikk to understand. New p*ssy always gets a man’s libido up. It’s scientifically proven. Monogamy is going against nature. Mammals are not designed for it.

The sayings “show me a pretty face and I’ll show you a man tired of fukking her” and “there’s no p*ssy like new p*ssy” didn’t come from no where. That’s just how men are. I know it’s easier to believe that it’s not like that across the board but it is.

I value relationships but I’m also honest and a lot of men can’t be with their significant other. We really get bored easily. It’s not always the woman’s fault, it’s just in our nature. It doesn’t mean we don’t love you, we just love variety as much.

This is true.

 

[Family Man]

Simple don’t marry.
The women felt the same way hence why they want a new penis outside of the marriage. If you are bored by the same person, you don’t think the other partner is too? You are not that interesting.

This is also true.

 

[Ya?]

I do, but just like almost Everyman, sex with the same woman gets boring. We have to physically motivate ourselves that we’re getting something new. In some cases pretend it’s another woman we’re having sex with.

If you ate the same food at the same restaurant for years, naturally things will become stale. That’s why people try to spice it up or Add someone else.

It can’t be a coincidence that almost Everyman know I know cheats on his wife. And these are men from all different walks of life.

Like the thread title says, you can be happy in a relationship but just be bored sexually. I don’t know how it is for women, but trust me, men get bored of fukking the same woman quickly.

Men have been groomed to think that their cheating is justified. I mean you are giving pseudo science to provide excuses on why you are entitled to sleeping around when there are numerous consequences that negatively affects families due to a partner’s cheating but that’s overshadowed by libido
boredom is a natural stage in life, life isn’t always exciting 24-7.

 

[Rawtid]

Sounds like something a @Typical Simp would say.

Eh, women aren’t any better at prioritizing partnership over sexual desire either. Mfs will have an entire best friend for 3 decades, growing strong, get a spouse and all of a sudden act like they don’t know how to build and maintain an association without sex.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

LOL I think you're just uncomfortable with me disagreeing with you and the OP. If the first thing you think about when it comes to marriage is having sex with the same person, then you don't value partnership...that's my opinion. I'm not asking you to agree. Sexual desire is natural. Sexual recklessness is not and if you choose to prioritize reckless sexual desire over partnership or don't see that partnership as being more beneficial than the feeling of new p*ssy, there is nothing wrong with that, but don't say marriage or monogamy is the problem.

Ok, I’ll make this as rudimentary as possible because you’re in denial and you don’t understand men.

Man marries woman. Woman is 8-9/10. Beautiful, funny, cooks, fun in bed etc.

2 or so years down the line, sex becomes stale or non-existent due to children/time/lack of effort.

Man meets side piece who is a 4-5/10 physically. She’s not a patch on his wife but she’s new p*ssy to him.

Side piece thinks she’s going to get the husband but husband has no intention of leaving his wife because outside of sex, she’s perfect.

Husband keeps stringing the side piece along until he gets bored, she gets too clingy or she demands an ultimatum.


Call it what you want but that’s just in our nature. The amount of married men who I know cheat is almost comical. When a married man talks about being faithful, I either assume he’s only just gotten married or he just ain’t sloppy.

I’ll give women credit though. Most of the time when they cheat, they’ll cheat up or at least unilaterally. I know brehs that have wives who are 8/9 physically but they cheat with women who are 3s at best.

Like I said, new p*ssy is all the motivation most men need to cheat.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Simple don’t marry.
The women felt the same way hence why they want a new penis outside of the marriage. If you are bored by the same person, you don’t think the other partner is too? You are not that interesting.

Er, I said it’s the same for both men and women. I’m speaking from a man’s perspective.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Men have been groomed to think that their cheating is justified. I mean you are giving pseudo science to provide excuses on why you are entitled to sleeping around when there are numerous consequences that negatively affects families due to a partner’s cheating but that’s overshadowed by libido
boredom is a natural stage in life, life isn’t always exciting 24-7.

I never once said cheating is justified. You call it pseudo science but I can give you numerous studies that prove what I’m saying is true.

Do I think cheating is wrong, reckless which can come with negative consequences? Absolutely.

Do I think men are entitled to cheat? No. I’m just saying it how it is. It’s better you hear it from me because at least I’ll be honest. People would rather lie about being committed to one person when they know they’re going to cheat.

You don’t have to like my answers nor agree with them but it’s the truth. You can accept it or reject it. It’s not my problem.

 

[Rawtid]

Ok, I’ll make this as rudimentary as possible because you’re in denial and you don’t understand men.

Man marries woman. Woman is 8-9/10. Beautiful, funny, cooks, fun in bed etc.

2 or so years down the line, sex becomes stale or non-existent due to children/time/lack of effort.

Man meets side piece who is a 4-5/10 physically. She’s not a patch on his wife but she’s new p*ssy to him.

Side piece thinks she’s going to get the husband but husband has no intention of leaving his wife because outside of sex, she’s perfect.

Husband keeps stringing the side piece along until he gets bored, she gets too clingy or she demands an ultimatum.


Call it what you want but that’s just in our nature. The amount of married men who I know cheat is almost comical. When a married man talks about being faithful, I either assume he’s only just gotten married or he just ain’t sloppy.

I’ll give women credit though. Most of the time when they cheat, they’ll cheat up or at least unilaterally. I know brehs that have wives who are 8/9 physically but they cheat with women who are 3s at best.

Like I said, new p*ssy is all the motivation most men need to cheat.

Let's agree to disagree because you can't seem to move past having sex with one person for the rest of your life. The same thought process and energy you're putting into to entertaining your future mistress could be put into strategies for improving the sex life in the event it gets boring (it may not, you don't know that). You fukking multiple women in the same positions makes YOU the boring one, not the sex life or the wife.

 

[G.O.A.T Squad Spokesman]

Oh but when they claim they are you better watch out


Or take advantage

Honestly once a woman complain about boredom in your relationship it's time to breakup with her instantly because if you don't you're in for some bullshyt.

If you go all out to keep her entertained she'll lose respect for you and if you do nothing she'll leave you after cheating on you. If she talks that bored shyt it's time to get rid of her or mentally check out of the relationship.

 

[Entropy Fan]

Men have been groomed to think that their cheating is justified. I mean you are giving pseudo science to provide excuses on why you are entitled to sleeping around when there are numerous consequences that negatively affects families due to a partner’s cheating but that’s overshadowed by libido
boredom is a natural stage in life, life isn’t always exciting 24-7.

Women have to save themselves for marriage if you want no cheating. Men aren’t designed to be in an environment of easily accessible p*ssy. Y’all throw the p*ssy around willy nilly then cry when men try to catch it

Men should not have these options

 

[Entropy Fan]

Honestly once a woman complain about boredom in your relationship it's time to breakup with her instantly because if you don't you're in for some bullshyt.

If you go all out to keep her entertained she'll lose respect for you and if you do nothing she'll leave you after cheating on you. If she talks that bored shyt it's time to get rid of her or mentally check out of the relationship.

Yup it’s a bird mindset that you can’t fix. Even kids can entertain themselves if you leave them alone

 

[Entropy Fan]

I never once said cheating is justified. You call it pseudo science but I can give you numerous studies that prove what I’m saying is true.

Do I think cheating is wrong, reckless which can come with negative consequences? Absolutely.

Do I think men are entitled to cheat? No. I’m just saying it how it is. It’s better you hear it from me because at least I’ll be honest. People would rather lie about being committed to one person when they know they’re going to cheat.

You don’t have to like my answers nor agree with them but it’s the truth. You can accept it or reject it. It’s not my problem.

Breh they trynna cheat the code. Usually there’s a fair exchange. Chastity for monogamy.
They screw around all they want then expect you to still deliver on your part.

 

[Ya?]

Women have to save themselves for marriage if you want no cheating. Men aren’t designed to be in an environment of easily accessible p*ssy. Y’all throw the p*ssy around willy nilly then cry when men try to catch it

Men should not have these options

Do you read before you post.
That’s the problem right there with how women are raised to think about men. That they can prevent something they do not have control over by playing the part. Virgins get cheated on, just like those who are not virginal. Men do not value you anymore for your virginity than if you weren’t by not cheating on you that is fool”s gold and any woman that believes that will learn the hard way, if they haven’t already.

Any woman that chooses to abstain from sex should do it for themselves and for personal reasons such as disease, self discipline, religious whatever it is. You never do it to please men, men cannot be pleased. They will excuse effed up ish that they do and expect you to be Ok with it.