Married women who have affairs are happy in their relationships but are just 'bored' in the bedroom

[EndDomination]

The problem is that women DONT like being 2nd or the lesser creature or having to submit to a man that ...they may fell they are better than. God has made men the top of the food chain weither women like it or not . @BonitaChelz fails to realize that MEN have there responsibilities as well ...you can talk all this about what women HAVE to do but its nothing like being a man. Society has given yall power over men which is why women and gays along with feminism runs society cause they dont want a man in the house anyway and if a man is in the home they still want a women runing it. Women cant even see the same government that gives you your power is destroying the community.

We found the misogynist c00n!

 

[EndDomination]

At the end if the day we all have a role to play. I have role to play and if i abuse my power GOD will find a way to make me pay in this life. Women have a role as well and right now in our society women are going threw a renaissance period were they have a lot of power and say so and they make more money
than a lot of men. But there is a cause and effect to everything with men since society has mad us the inferior creature now ...its like marriage dosent hold the same weight as when my grandmother was around or your grandmother because it was a structure. So now more men will end up like derek jeter or geroge clonney( i know he just recently got engaeged) were they wait forever to get married or they just dont and enjoy life and get better as men. Women gotta stop weighing there existence threw thier viginas. And men gotta stop weighing thier existence with how many women they smashed and how many possessions they own .

Are you a troll or

 

[EndDomination]

Introduction and summary: Submissive homemaker

Manager of the home, under the oversight of her husband. (The wife is the manager of the home, but the husband is the manager of the wife.)Primary role revolves around the daily care of children, meal preparation and keeping the house clean and in order.She is free to take on additional roles and responsibilities by getting a job. Such a job is optional, whereas for the husband, it is mandatory. Her optional choice to take on a job does not suddenly obligate the husband to take on part of the wife's role of child care or keeping house.

"encourage the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, to be sensible, pure, workers at home, kind, being subject to their own husbands, so that the word of God will not be dishonored." Titus 2:4-5"get married, bear children, keep house" 1 Timothy 5:14"But women will be preserved through the bearing of children if they continue in faith and love and sanctity with self-restraint." 1 Timothy 2:15

You have to be a troll
If you're not Don't die out there breh.

 

[Arabial Knight]

Might as well just smash hos. No point in even pursuing anything real with a lot of these bytches today.

 

[StickStickly]

@StickStickly

so have you ever dumped a guy who loved you and who you had feelings for but they disappeared?

no but i may be a special case. I've had a small number of longterm relationships. i'm probably wildly inexperienced with having a lot of relationships compared to coli standards but i know what it takes to have a longterm one. the only guy i dumped was just not okay and i had to get out. he just wasn't healthy and i was too young to help him in that way. you can't fix anyone, male or female.

i also think that young adults don't know what the hell they want. 19-25 year old men and women are fukked in the head unless they come from the bible belt and still 75% of them are fukked too.

i understand your cynicism towards marriage and relationships and love in general. hell most days that feels like the truth. but from everything i know I've learned people are much more complicated, and your feelings towards relationships come from a need to be loved and to feel love, but not being able to find that right now and having been fukked over from some heartless person in that past, that all distorts your current perceptions and willingness to let go, but it doesnt change that you want it one day.

 

[OCCAMS_RAZOR]

Yall nikkas is doomed from the jump because of your attitude going in. If you expect to get cheated on, the world has a funny way of meeting those expectations. Subconsciously you're seeking a skeezer.

If 50% of marriages fail then that means 50% don't. Some people just like to focus on the negative. Funny how those are the same people with so much negativity in their lives.

I somewhat agree with this post. That's why I decided to just be my normal, respectful self when it comes to dealing with women. all of the women i have interacted with have been a far cry from the skeezers that this forum paints as the typical woman. it's important to be aware that all that glitters is not gold, but you can't assume that every woman is a scumbag, because not all of them are.

& spot on about the negativity. it's called confirmation bias. people have a psychological tendency to cherry pick pieces of evidence that affirm their biases & they discard those that don't. also, treating people like crap just because you anticipate that they will screw you over, might lead them to treat you like crap, hence a self-fulfilling prophecy.

be aware of reality, but do not project your insecurities onto others. the beauty of human beings is that we are not just one thing or another, we're all different. we have different personalities & temperaments. just observe the other person's actions.

 

[OCCAMS_RAZOR]

nikka there's billions of women in the world. Don't you choose which ones you wanna talk to? Ok then choose a good one.

You do sound desperate and pathetic and you've obviously been rejected a bunch of times. Sorry homie, I can't relate to nothing you're saying right now.

If a chick is choosing you, and you're allowing yourself to be chosen by her without choosing her, then that's some desperate, pathetic shyt. That's called settling. You can't get what you want (CHOOSE) so you take whoever wants (CHOOSES) you.

Raise your standards, nikka, and have some fukkin self respect.

not that easy my dude (in a perfect world maybe). certainly, if i was in a position where i was deemed a desirable mate by the majority of women i encounter, then i would put up with less bullshyt that i do now. i've encountered enough duplicitous, scumbag individuals to know that i shouldn't set up my standards too high, or else, i'll experience perpetual disappointment.

 

[philmonroe]

Alimony is rare in divorce settlements ( <15%) so im not quite sure why you keep emphasizing it as if its common. Alimony is conditional upon the economic relationship of the marriage. If you're caking and you have your woman stay at home and do nothing, then you cant just throw her on the streets. Marriage is considered a lifetime commitment, and if you have some trophy wife sitting on her ass all day and the marriage falls apart with the wife having no means to support herself and conditioned to a lifestyle you've provided...welp, expect to pay.

This isnt gender specific as men are eligible to become beneficiaries of alimony settlements if the terms of the marriage (woman supported the man) lead to such a judgement. At any rate, the person who assumes custody of the kids is going to be looked upon favorably in the eyes of the court. The state rewards the children, and it isnt in the business of acting punitively towards innocent children.

Even though I agree with you about alimony don't you think that delusion of being taken might make dudes leery of marrying a chick when you could just date them and "throw her out in the streets" and it wouldn't be a problem financially?

I guess cats going to have to marry their moms and or produce b*stard children that will most likely be losers according to @Emperor_ReinScarf single mothers childrens jail stats since all women (outside cats moms) seem to be evil. Dudes looking to have kids if you not getting married you're setting your kids up for failure

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

if i dont do it who will?

my point is: why does this need to be done?

we know that 50% of marriages fail...we know that some women cheat....some men too....in short.....a lot of people in general arent shyt....we've seen and heard all the negatives about relationships etc....ad nauseum...we get it. we got it.

but if 50% of marriages fail...then 50% succeed right....and no that doesnt mean that they are perfect....nothing in life is..

why not make threads about that....instead of always high-lighting the negative? thats all im saying....

i told you before breh....water seeks its own level...you claim to be so happy and living the bachelor dream-life....yet every thread you make is something negative....something not right about that one breh

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

not that easy my dude (in a perfect world maybe). certainly, if i was in a position where i was deemed a desirable mate by the majority of women i encounter, then i would put up with less bullshyt that i do now. i've encountered enough duplicitous, scumbag individuals to know that i shouldn't set up my standards too high, or else, i'll experience perpetual disappointment.

breh....what an awful way to live....

go through life expecting to live in shyt brehs....

 

[MikelArteta]

Again out of of those 50 percent successful how many are secless marriages, how many are staying together for the kids, jpw many are one person being cheated on and not knowing it, how many are constant fights and abuse , how many are in counselling

my point is: why does this need to be done?

we know that 50% of marriages fail...we know that some women cheat....some men too....in short.....a lot of people in general arent shyt....we've seen and heard all the negatives about relationships etc....ad nauseum...we get it. we got it.

but if 50% of marriages fail...then 50% succeed right....and no that doesnt mean that they are perfect....nothing in life is..

why not make threads about that....instead of always high-lighting the negative? thats all im saying....

i told you before breh....water seeks its own level...you claim to be so happy and living the bachelor dream-life....yet every thread you make is something negative....something not right about that one breh

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

Again out of of those 50 percent successful how many are secless marriages, how many are staying together for the kids, jpw many are one person being cheated on and not knowing it, how many are constant fights and abuse , how many are in counselling

...like i said breh...NO RELATIONSHIP is perfect...

i also said that there are scum bags (men & women) in the world....the problem isnt really the institution of marriage...its the people getting married....

2 like-minded people can be happy together...

people see the world how they wanna see it

 

[UserNameless]

...im sure every man here has experienced the coldness of a woman who was into you at one point.

they can't fathom it, and all they will tell you is "choose the right owman" blah blah, like they never did that to a man before.

A women's emotion changes like the wind, it doesn't matter how much she "loves you", how many kids you have together, how rich you are, how great your dikk game is.

a woman can tell you right now she loves you so much, no guy has ever treated her this well, you are a angel from above, go to sleep and wake up tomorrow morning and the tingles are gone and she no longer wants anything to do with you

As for the underlined, ... A recent, glaring example comes to mind ... on some regular shyt. Not even smashing. Not even involved like that. Chick turned cold b/c I didn't answer a phonecall. Went from constantly giddy, funloving to chilly. Like frigid Literally refusing to look me in the eye, and we both played the "you don't exist to me" game. I'm like, ... this how you really wanna play?! is this really you?! Shyt ain't never been the same since because I didn't concede and tap dance for her afterward.

Can't place too much stock in emotions as men. But women do, and we have to be aware of that. Emotions should only function as a temperature gauge, thermometer that provide some measure of how the actions in a relationship are effecting both parties. Ideally, it should be more like a thermostat...for mature folks who can control the temperature by regulating, managing emotions. But that's another thread...

Yep ive seen that happen too often... They hit some sort of midlife crisis, start talked to someone else behind your back oh he's just a friend shyt... you definitely notcie the signs when she starts cheating if you pay close attention. A man can do everything in his power to make a woman happy but once she either consciously seeks out someone else or emotionally entangles someone else in some fantasy shyt. Some women cant be trusted especially if they follow with there feelings. Oh i like him but im feeling someone else bullshyt.

You ever wonder why some women run back to scumbags that fukk them over and we sit back and think man she's stupid. why cause she's using her feelings... her emotions control her...

Doesn't even have to be a midlife crisis. These young chicks can turn just as cold, if not colder than late 30s and up chicks.

 

[KENNY DA COOKER]

Thier is ALOT of truth to this...i will speak on this.....soon

 

[IAmGettingAMailOrderBride]

Honestly with mail order bride and such, things like this is pretty rare