Married and Divorced twice before 30.

[Verbal Kint]

skimming through this thread got me on a Friday before I leave work

 

[Ice Cold]

new general mills stories got the coli like

but damn breh that second story broke ma heart

 

[O.iatlhawksfan]

@General Mills wats the update on the 1st wife?

 

[XII]

Say @General Mills

Why you stop using gifs?

I'm still trying to find the classic you dropped this one in

 

[General Mills]

I realized i did the same thing General Mills did...
I agreed to something with someone...and then I changed.
She's the same person she always was even before we married.
I'm the one that didn't live up to who I said I was and wanted to be.
And I suffer for it.

I understand homie.


I wanted to make sure everyone was clear that I made that mistake too. . So many times I hear brehs say the chick flipped the script when they got married. . Took some soul searching but I realized it was me who flipped the script.

 

[General Mills]

Well, her main reason is finances. We aren't rich, but I'm used to spending until I reach a point.
I can't do that with being a family man...I just can't.
She's the same person she always was...I just changed.
See, I had to come up to be with her. Now that I have, it's like she isn't what she used to be when she ain't changed not one day.
She looks the same, acts the same, does the same...I mean everything!
And ain't none of it a bad thing too...it just feels bad to me because I want more from life than what I can get.
You know, she plays it safe and everything and keeps the ship floating good.
Me, I sink ships...on the regular.
She's good...I'm just stupid.

I know some women like her. It is ingrained. They do not want to risk what they have. They play it ultra safe.
But brehs we sometimes want to wreck shyt and then see the aftermath like.

 

[General Mills]

Damn yo, I think I just had my first breakdown moment on this damn forum...


EDIT: The more I read, the sadder it gets. Man... @General Mills , You're teaching and I'm learning breh.
I won't complain anymore.
Now I know exactly how It could be worse.
Man, I'm so humbled you just don't know...
Wit all the stuff goin on at home and reading this man I'm messed up in the bathroom lookin like a beat kid...stuff everywhere man...
*sniff*

Damn...

I'm withcu homie. My scenario is on the bad side. If you decide to let go then the possibility for real wolves to move in is real.

But you have to think about you too. I am no expert on love. But I think you should think about if you are happy. If not what will it take for you to be happy? Can it be possible with her? If you really sat down and poured your heart out no homo will she be receptive and compromise? Another breh mentioned it but honestly if we had a kid together it would have been 100 times more harder for me to leave. I had a "out" cause we had no children bond. Yall have a kid so you have more to lose than I did.

 

[General Mills]

@General Mills wats the update on the 1st wife?

Lol. No update. Have not heard from her since I blocked her. I do know where she lives and works. She is working as a cashier at a Home Depot. She is proud as fukk of that job. She told me she is making 11 bucks a hour. The way she said it made it sound like she had mad certs. But hey I aint knocking her.

I honestly have no inclination to meet up with her or talk to her again. I am no longer angry and forgave her YEARS ago. . But I can never trust her and I cant move around people I cant trust.

 

[General Mills]

Say @General Mills

Why you stop using gifs?

I'm still trying to find the classic you dropped this one in

I still use gifs. Have a whole library of em. I do not want to take credit for that one tho. First one I saw use it was @Mowgli He used it to perfection. Had me crying. I used that in the thread where I got kicked out of Costco after fighting the lesbian preachers.

 

[Mowgli]

I still use gifs. Have a whole library of em. I do not want to take credit for that one tho. First one I saw use it was @Mowgli He used it to perfection. Had me crying. I used that in the thread where I got kicked out of Costco after fighting the lesbian preachers.

 

[beanz]

Thank you thank you! I love the Coli. Always good for laughs. And some real shyt. I enjoy sharing with yall. I tell a few stories to friends and coworkers but yall get everything. I LOVE the reactions and honest feedback yall give. I have been knocked down a lot but its all good. I love life. I figure its all a apart of it. If I can give my brehs an brehettes on the Coli some good laughs and cries then I am happy.

Yall share way more with me than I do with yall. If it was not for Sohh/Coli I would never had made the transition from the afro to the 360 waves.

My man general u not taking any Ls in life b. U living life and u either winning some or learning from some. The only people in life taking Ls are the ones not living life. They don't win or learn anything because they afraid of losing.

U a wiseman because u have been through so much so never look back at your life as a series of Ls but instead as a series of wins and lessons.

 

[///Vega+++]

Aight I just finished reading the 2nd marriage tale
Quite the downer
Unfortunately some church folks are like Janet was
If something isn't church sanctioned they ain't down with it especially any sort of social gathering
What happened to her is very sad and unfortunate
Can only wish her to somehow live a meaningful life for the rest of the time being
As others already said Mills you're a great storyteller and you manage to captivate the board with your tales the way an elder would w youngins around a campfire in other times
Keep up the good work and do think of publishing some type of anthology based on your stories

 

[BlackSuperman]

I'm new here and I want you to know @General Mills I joined the site for this story.

And a Kenshiro fan too!!!!

 

[25YOUTHS!!]

Real shyt so there's some real game being spit in this thread and I'm sitting here like



The general mill chronicles is easily top 10 things I've seen on the internet.
And the other breh who made a thread about fukkin a girl with no legs by propping her up on the swings and HER uncle giving him the

 

[stepbackj34spud]

im not hatin but i think its all but i you for the good stories

Gm the writer of writers

Tall tales breh. His shyts are good reads.