thats some of the saddest shyt i ever heard. dog i know you said it took you a while to get over it and idk if you still think about it from time to time but do not beat yourself up over that and feel like you caused that by getting divorced. take no blame in what happened. there are piece of shyt people out there, strangers and family (scumbag sister) and you were still kind enough to still be in her life. god bless you.