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I never heard no shyt like that. What was her justifications for not going out?

I actually dated a girl like that.. we met trough her friend and hit it off, the sex was crazy but she only wanted to be at home and watch movies.. it was cool for a couple of months but then the 19 year old me sent her straight to the bushes.. I belive she had some kind of social anxiety and would only frequent places she felt "safe" :yeshrug:
 

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She had a Mazda 626.

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She was at a light on Beach Blvd. A chick in a flower delivery truck did not notice that she was stopped and hit her going about 50 miles a hour from the back. Car was totaled of course. She was out of action for a good bit. Did not go to work, had therapy and all that. . Now we had our disagreements. . . but there was never no hatred. No drag down fights between us. I went into super husband mode. Took care of everything. :yeshrug: She was still my wife after all. . Her back got fukked up but therapy was getting it right. In the meanwhile she said she did not want another car. .she wanted something bigger. She was afraid to drive a small vehicle again. I was pushing a Yukon. . She did not want nothing that big. . But def a SUV.

So I bought her a Acura SLX.

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Basically a gussied up Isuzu Trooper. :yeshrug:But it was fully loaded all the luxury options. Got it at a good rate cause the MDX's had just come out so this was the older body style. :ehh: When she was ready to drive she took it for a spin. . . She was terrified cause it was so high. :snoop: So she went out and bought herself a new Camry. She had two whips. She used the MDX strictly for garage sales shopping she did on sat mornings. I did not care. It was hers. :yeshrug: What I did care about was getting free. I was obsessed with it. :francis: We were still going thru our daily routines. . She got told she was getting back most likely 90 plus grand in a settlement. :whoo: When she told me the news. . I told her congrats. . But look. I don't care. You can keep all that cash. I just want to be free. I think for the first time she looked at me and saw my unhappiness. She always kind of pushed it off before. I had JUST bought her the truck. I was willing to take that L. She said ok.


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But. . this is not the end. :to:
 

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I actually dated a girl like that.. we met trough her friend and hit it off, the sex was crazy but she only wanted to be at home and watch movies.. it was cool for a couple of months but then the 19 year old me sent her straight to the bushes.. I belive she had some kind of social anxiety and would only frequent places she felt "safe" :yeshrug:

Sounds like Schizoid Personality Disorder. Did she get along with other people?
 

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I actually dated a girl like that.. we met trough her friend and hit it off, the sex was crazy but she only wanted to be at home and watch movies.. it was cool for a couple of months but then the 19 year old me sent her straight to the bushes.. I belive she had some kind of social anxiety and would only frequent places she felt "safe" :yeshrug:

I think it was the same for her. . It just undiagnosed.
 

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Soooo. . . We were at a stalemate. . I went from thinking it was a misunderstanding because I did not state my intentions clearly in the beginning. . To she just does not care if I am happy for real.:dwillhuh: I told her. . . Look. We are not 80 years old. We are still young. Lets do shyt together. She said ok.. .Lets go out of town next weekend. I was :blessed: I started rambling off spots. . Other than going home for xmas I had been NOWHERE in a YEAR! Not even out to dinner! :wtb:

She said I got this. :jawalrus: Don't you worry. Let me plan it. I was so happy! I say when she says next sat and sunday. :blessed::blessed::blessed::blessed:

We get on the road the next weekend. . I am geeked :lolbron: She has me drive of course. . ( She hated driving ) She is just giving directions. . She has Kirk Franklin bumping and she is :stylin: in her seat. After driving for almost 2 hours. . We pull up to a . . .

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A tent revival. :why: Her church's home church is in Gainesville. . They were having a holy ghost tent revival. :snoop:
I love God yall. . But I was so :pacspit: I could not get into the sprit at all. . They wanted me to get baptized with them. . I was like NO. :shaq2: I acted a ass the whole two days. Not really acting up. . But not speaking and not trying to socialize AT ALL. Meanwhile she acted like it was not a big deal. People where whispering cause I was literally sitting there during the revival like :martin:. At one point Prophet Mitchell came over and laid hands on me. Most people close their eyes and pray with him and all. I am looking him dead in his eye:birdman:. . He :whoa: and moved on to the next sucker.

Me and her NEVER raised our voices. Just not part of either of our natures. But we had some heated conversations in regular tones the whole way home. . At this point I was truly getting disgusted.

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Sounds like Schizoid Personality Disorder. Did she get along with other people?

Yeah no problem, she was fine as fukk too..and I never got those psycho vibes or anything its just that she was too boring. I looked her up on facebook a couple of months ago and she got kids now but still 95% of her pics was in the same house so I guess she never got over her problems
 

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I actually dated a girl like that.. we met trough her friend and hit it off, the sex was crazy but she only wanted to be at home and watch movies.. it was cool for a couple of months but then the 19 year old me sent her straight to the bushes.. I belive she had some kind of social anxiety and would only frequent places she felt "safe" :yeshrug:

Sounds like Schizoid Personality Disorder. Did she get along with other people?

I think it was the same for her. . It just undiagnosed.

Sounds like they had mild agoraphobia.
 

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She had a Mazda 626.

mazda_626_2001_for_sale_dublin_3780121438206941767.jpg


She was at a light on Beach Blvd. A chick in a flower delivery truck did not notice that she was stopped and hit her going about 50 miles a hour from the back. Car was totaled of course. She was out of action for a good bit. Did not go to work, had therapy and all that. . Now we had our disagreements. . . but there was never no hatred. No drag down fights between us. I went into super husband mode. Took care of everything. :yeshrug: She was still my wife after all. . Her back got fukked up but therapy was getting it right. In the meanwhile she said she did not want another car. .she wanted something bigger. She was afraid to drive a small vehicle again. I was pushing a Yukon. . She did not want nothing that big. . But def a SUV.

So I bought her a Acura SLX.

acura_slx_96_774_01.jpg


Basically a gussied up Isuzu Trooper. :yeshrug:But it was fully loaded all the luxury options. Got it at a good rate cause the MDX's had just come out so this was the older body style. :ehh: When she was ready to drive she took it for a spin. . . She was terrified cause it was so high. :snoop: So she went out and bought herself a new Camry. She had two whips. She used the MDX strictly for garage sales shopping she did on sat mornings. I did not care. It was hers. :yeshrug: What I did care about was getting free. I was obsessed with it. :francis: We were still going thru our daily routines. . She got told she was getting back most likely 90 plus grand in a settlement. :whoo: When she told me the news. . I told her congrats. . But look. I don't care. You can keep all that cash. I just want to be free. I think for the first time she looked at me and saw my unhappiness. She always kind of pushed it off before. I had JUST bought her the truck. I was willing to take that L. She said ok.


:blessed:




But. . this is not the end. :to:
@generalmills ...8 times out of 10 I can predict the direction of any story....this....no idea breh. Thank you kind sir
 
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