Married and Divorced twice before 30.

[young3000]

To this day I am still confused as to how I proposed. . We were in bed hugged up. . She says. .

Janet - I love you Gen! You make me so happy.

Me - Love you too hon. Glad we are together.

Janet - I would love it if we could always be together!

Me - Me too Lady J!

Janet - ()She had popped up and jumped on me) Seriously Gen????

Me - Of course. You are awesome.

Janet - OMG OMG!!! Yes Yes!

Me - ( what is going on? )

I'm imagining the visuals in my head. This sounds like a scene out of romantic comedy flick

You got struck by lighting not once but twice...what are the odds

 

[General Mills]

The wedding plans had to have been set in motion months ago. Her and her sisters SPRANG into action brehs and brehettes. Before I could blink they had the reception hall picked out, band, colors, cake ordered, wedding gown, church rented out, limo, etc. . I was . She must have had some marriage fund already in place. . Other than the rings I am dont think I paid for anything. .

The closer we got to the date the more nervous I got. With my first marriage there was no hesitation. . When there should have been. With this one I was scared as fukk. There was something I could not put my finger on. . . I told my dad. He said. . Its just the wedding jitters son. I love my dad. . But he has never given me good advice on women. .

Its the wedding day and I am so NERVOUS I wanted to throw up. I kept telling myself that she has given me zero reason to trip and I am acting like a bytch for no reason. Cant let my past experience hold me back from love. I knew instictively she was down for me. That was not the problem at all. I knew she would not rob me, or cheat, etc. . She did not run the streets. . She was a good girl.

So I stood in front of her crooked pastor and said I DO. As SOON as I said it I regretted it. . But I SUCKED it up and chalked it up to having cold feet. I looked at her and knew I loved her. I cared for her and decided I am going to give this my best shot. . . . . Now I had an idea that we should go to Jamaica or the Virgin Islands for our honeymoon. She was adamant about not going anywhere out of Jax ( first warning sign ) So we got a nice hotel in Jax Beach on the water for a week.

Our first night she looks at me like . . I am ready to start this baby.

I was . I told her lets wait on all that. . She was truly hurt. . I could see it but she tried to hide it. . I was being honest and was not exactly sure I was ready yet. She told me well I did not take the pill sooooooooooooooooo. . ..

I was like. . No worries and pulled out a condom and she was

 

[Black Ball]

Ok. So me and Janet are living together. Everything was going good except for the fact that I knew she was conflicted about living in sin. Once we started having sex the flood gates opened and it was not going to stop. I could tell she was really into me and she unlike any chick I had ever dated. She was not looking to get anything material out of me. Well. She wanted something but it was more valuable than any material things. She wanted me forever.

I was playing coy but I could see the marriage hints she was throwing around. I really really liked her. Would I say I was wildly in love with her like she was with me? No. But I really cared for her. . . She was a beautiful woman with a beautiful soul. Honestly I was still dealing internally with my personal baggage. . After my first divorce whether I like to admit it or not I was wary. . . But with her I saw no warning signs. .

To this day I am still confused as to how I proposed. . We were in bed hugged up. . She says. .

Janet - I love you Gen! You make me so happy.

Me - Love you too hon. Glad we are together.

Janet - I would love it if we could always be together!

Me - Me too Lady J!

Janet - ()She had popped up and jumped on me) Seriously Gen????

Me - Of course. You are awesome.

Janet - OMG OMG!!! Yes Yes!

Me - ( what is going on? )


I found out the next day when I get home from work and marriage plans are already in full effect. Her two sisters were at the house and they were already planning shyt. . I was . I remember I went into the Den. . Fired up Madden on my PS2. . And was playing and thinking. . Is she the one? I tried to list the pros and cons. . I had nothing much really in the con section. Ass could stand to be a lil plumper I guess. . She was conservative in bed but she was trying new things. . . I had no real cons. ( Later I figured out I was not asking myself the right questions. )

So I rolled with it.

 

[K-Deini]

 

[BlackManLiveFromLondon]

 

[Gab]

MOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOORE

 

[NerdNash]

Is there a pic of the big butt ex wife in this thread?

 

[concise]

Our first night she looks at me like . . I am ready to start this baby.

I was . I told her lets wait on all that. . She was truly hurt. . I could see it but she tried to hide it. . I was being honest and was not exactly sure I was ready yet. She told me well I did not take the pill sooooooooooooooooo. . ..

I was like. . No worries and pulled out a condom and she was

I already see where this one is going.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Is there a pic of the big butt ex wife in this thread?

Lol nah

 

[chabvongaBlackus]

Sittin in this Discrete Math class reading this fuxkery like ......is this real life

 

[General Mills]

I LOVE KIDS. Kids love me. I am a big goofball. I always wanted kids.. . But with my wife I was hesitating. . And that is one thing I stood on. I wore condoms faithfully until she got the Depo shot. .. I kept telling myself that I had to make sure this was going to be it. . That in itself should have told me there was a problem because you should not be thinking that way if that is your wife.

The problem I could not see before manifested itself soon after the honeymoon and we got into our daily routine. . She did not like to do anything other than work, church, visiting local fam. NOTHING ELSE. This was our routine. .

Work
Come home. Eat dinner together.
Watch TV.
I play video games, she reads.
Shower
Bed/Sex

Repeat.

On Sundays, Wed, and Fridays she was at church. I would go on Sundays at first. . But quickly grew out of that. . Her Pastor just rubbed me the wrong way. After a month of the same routine I was growing stir crazy. I am not a huge clubber or a big drinker.. .But I do love to travel. Even if its just a lil trip out of the city. I plan a surprise trip to Daytona. I figured she can miss church one sunday. When she gets home from work I have her bags packed already. All details planned. Got us a nice room on the ocean. Reservations at a Steak House down there. Figured the next day we can do shyt she like. Hitting the flea market, do some shopping, etc. She literally hit me with the . Talkinbout she cant miss church sunday. Her sister is singing a solo. . I am like. . WHAT??? She said no way she can go. . . I was utterly confused. . . So I said lets go see a movie.. She was . I WAS WTF.

No matter what I tried she was not down for anything. . One month turned to 3. That turned to 6. etc. I was miserable. . I am a introvert, but I love to have FUN! Get out the house. I planned a cruise. Nope. . . Trips to Tampa or Mia. Nope . All shut down. More often than not I would be at her sisters house looking at her sisters lame as fukk husband. They tried to set us up like we were on a play date. Dude was mad corny. In his mid thirties making 12 bucks a hour doing security. Hairline was tragically horrible. .

At the time I was working for AOL. Then they up and closed when broadband started becoming more available so I got this trill lil job at the beach. The ho's who worked there.. But I never strayed. After work all the ho's and some of the dudes would hit the clubs at the beach. . They would beg me! General come on!! I would be like nah. I was married. . I could not see going out without my wife. Since she never wanted to go nowhere I did not either. . Plus I never wanted to be the married dude in the club!

My job offered unlimited overtime. So I basically just worked like 9am to 11 pm 6 days a week. Why go home. . Same shyt was going on there.

 

[Arithmetic]

The wedding plans had to have been set in motion months ago. Her and her sisters SPRANG into action brehs and brehettes. Before I could blink they had the reception hall picked out, band, colors, cake ordered, wedding gown, church rented out, limo, etc. . I was . She must have had some marriage fund already in place. . Other than the rings I am dont think I paid for anything. .

The closer we got to the date the more nervous I got. With my first marriage there was no hesitation. . When there should have been. With this one I was scared as fukk. There was something I could not put my finger on. . . I told my dad. He said. . Its just the wedding jitters son. I love my dad. . But he has never given me good advice on women. .

Its the wedding day and I am so NERVOUS I wanted to throw up. I kept telling myself that she has given me zero reason to trip and I am acting like a bytch for no reason. Cant let my past experience hold me back from love. I knew instictively she was down for me. That was not the problem at all. I knew she would not rob me, or cheat, etc. . She did not run the streets. . She was a good girl.

So I stood in front of her crooked pastor and said I DO. As SOON as I said it I regretted it. . But I SUCKED it up and chalked it up to having cold feet. I looked at her and knew I loved her. I cared for her and decided I am going to give this my best shot. . . . . Now I had an idea that we should go to Jamaica or the Virgin Islands for our honeymoon. She was adamant about not going anywhere out of Jax ( first warning sign ) So we got a nice hotel in Jax Beach on the water for a week.

Our first night she looks at me like . . I am ready to start this baby.

I was . I told her lets wait on all that. . She was truly hurt. . I could see it but she tried to hide it. . I was being honest and was not exactly sure I was ready yet. She told me well I did not take the pill sooooooooooooooooo. . ..

I was like. . No worries and pulled out a condom and she was

Got my drink ready

 

[NerdNash]

Lol nah

Can there be? lol

 

[Groot]

I am Groot!!!!



:grootcry:​

 

[31Flavors]

When I did talk to her before I blocked and deleted her. . I got a update on the kids. .The oldest as you know I ran into. She has multiple kids by different dudes. Looks old as fukk. .Looks wacker than her moms. The middle girl is a dyke. Saw pics of her and she is dusty as fukk. Like she smokes and smells like black n milds. Dusty ass dreads. The son Steven is in Prison. Doing 5 years. The youngest moved to Cali. She straight up disappeared . She has no idea where she is.

Guarantee you that the youngest one is doing the best after leaving that dumpster fire of a family