Marriage rates are collapsing for lower income and middle income families

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This but I feel it’s the enemy putting stuff in my head about this sole woman I want to be in a relationship with in the future. Definitely not right now. She says she just don’t want to be in a relationship and wanna focus on getting her money right. Well, who says you can’t do that in a relationship? A relationship worth it’s weight in gold would support and nurture that. I prayed on and God told me she is the one but not right now. Patience is definitely a weakness I’m combating. I never been truly battle tested in regards to a woman.

You better go search for other broads. All that waiting for what? She clearly don’t want to be in a relationship with YOU. Until she’s done with being tossed around.

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This but I feel it’s the enemy putting stuff in my head about this sole woman I want to be in a relationship with in the future. Definitely not right now. She says she just don’t want to be in a relationship and wanna focus on getting her money right. Well, who says you can’t do that in a relationship? A relationship worth it’s weight in gold would support and nurture that. I prayed on and God told me she is the one but not right now. Patience is definitely a weakness I’m combating. I never been truly battle tested in regards to a woman.

Breh goodness she’s don’t want you but wants you as a option if she has to settle.

Women are emotional she shouldn’t be so calculating about when to be in a relationship if she truly wanted to be with you
 

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NinoBrown said:
Outside of providing a stable household for children, what benefit is there to marriage? Besides shared tax benefits and insurance?

A true companion you can absolutely trust with your life. Better than a best friend or your own parents.
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If the woman decides to give up on sex and the man doesn't? What happens?

What if the man is unable to sexually satisfy her? What happens? Your problem is you're just too selfish to be married.......like most people in-general. Just stay single. Your opinion doesn't change the minds of those of us who found someone WORTH marrying. You just don't think there is anyone like that for yourself....and that's a shame. With all the choices you have available to you, now, you've already decided no one on the planet is.​

I thought the same way......when I was 12.

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This but I feel it’s the enemy putting stuff in my head about this sole woman I want to be in a relationship with in the future. Definitely not right now. She says she just don’t want to be in a relationship and wanna focus on getting her money right. Well, who says you can’t do that in a relationship? A relationship worth it’s weight in gold would support and nurture that. I prayed on and God told me she is the one but not right now. Patience is definitely a weakness I’m combating. I never been truly battle tested in regards to a woman.
When she says that she doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you right now. It means if she doesn’t find what she’s looking for she will ultimately come back to you..... with more emotional baggage from her “looking for me”.....Perfect.
 
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You better go search for other broads. All that waiting for what? She clearly don’t want to be in a relationship with YOU. Until she’s done with being tossed around.

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Well, she’s said as much not to wait on her. I’m not waiting on her but I’m not actively not waiting on her or talking to women for extended period of time. Jesus is rebuilding me because I’m broken and have a serious sex addiction that I’m combating.
 

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When she says that she doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you right now. If she doesn’t find what she’s looking for she will ultimately come back to you..... with more emotional baggage from her looking for me. Perfect.
That was dope. Can’t hate on that.
 

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Strategicbreh said:
Marriage is dead and it’s because society (parents) failed the youth.

It's actually because the youth don't practice critical thinking and adhere more to a 'herd mentality' based on social media. Kids, today, go out of their way to NOT do like their parents or any authority at all unless it has a substantial amount of 'likes'. Been that way for a while, but it's way more apparent now.​
 

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Breh goodness she’s don’t want you but wants you as a option if she has to settle.

Women are emotional she shouldn’t be so calculating about when to be in a relationship if she truly wanted to be with you
I get you. Sigh. I’ve moved on and been with other women and that’s my point. I just need to be alone and with Jesus. I’m mostly straight and leave her be. She reaches out to me but this last semester I will put her to the side because I gotta graduate.
 
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