Marriage In The 21ST Century

[agnosticlady]

I am not claiming that the stats are all due to abuse...I am listing one of the many reasons why a woman may divorce. There's also infidelity, etc...my point is quoting 75% of women is not painting a whole picture numero uno and dos these stats that emperor is quoting do not apply to black women. I inferred that quickly because I know how this site love to disparage black women.

Tres...this thread kinda confirmed what I already knew these dudes who are getting married interracially are not necessarily reaching heaven despite the picture they want to display.

Case in point; emperor's quote of black men being more married than black women...which would suggest that they are more affected by women filing divorce by non black women and not black women. And since a bm who is married interracially is more likely to be financiall stable or well off as another article/has suggested they are more likely to have his money ''taken''.

However, that's not the reality of many black couples.

One of the many reasons that women divorce? A lot of women know the type of man they are marrying before they get married. Many just believe that they will be able to change the man. The thread was about marriage in general, then went onto why there are black men not getting married. It has to do with many things going on the black community. Also it's not just about the money. Kids, stress, small property that one may owe, time, and etc also come into play when one is going through a divorce.

 

[Bunchy Carter]

I agree, I try to lead by example...but believe me I practice what I preach.

This shyt is kinda funny how fast this thread turned into a black man vs. black woman thread.

I just wanted to see who where the female trolls

Have a bless sunday

 

[Yup]

This shyt is kinda funny how fast this thread turned into a black man vs. black woman thread.

I just wanted to see who where the female trolls

Have a bless sunday

the coli

 

[Bunchy Carter]

the coli

I just made this thread because I knew a female poster was going to turn it into a black man vs woman thing.

That was my only intention; you took the bait

That fake outrage was priceless

 

[Yup]

I just made this thread because I knew a female poster was going to turn it into a black man vs woman thing.

That was my only intention; you took the bait

That fake outrage was priceless

I am consistent

 

[Bunchy Carter]

I am consistent

and lonely

 

[Diondon]

So basically stop being a simp and grow a backbone?

 

[Turbulent]

the black dude smiley in the diagram and the way the wife just keeps standing there and looking at the husband is funny as fukk

 

[Yup]

and lonely

not really.

 

[AB Ziggy]

why didn't she have a job?

This. I aint marrying nobody without a career. Even if we have kids.

 

[Bunchy Carter]

not really.

Aww man really. I was going to fly out to where your at; so I can impregnate you and leave you as a single mother, so you can finally be one of those single mother stats you always talk about. You can now talk about it as a person who actually is going through it; not just talk about it from fake number who were made up by white people lol.

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

Be a poor man lol...

It seems like you're on this boad to troll. I don't get on thecoli that much but when I do I notice that you and Ladysimone are always trolling threads. Just give up already. Do you know what this makes me think? It makes me think that you are some ugly lonely woman who has a hard time attracting men so you hop onto boards like thecoli to annoy black men. Apparently, we're supposed to worship the feet of ugly women like you (I'm also guessing that you are fat). Cheers.

 

[Yup]

It seems like you're on this boad to troll. I don't get on thecoli that much but when I do I notice that you and Ladysimone are always trolling threads. Just give up already. Do you know what this makes me think? It makes me think that you are some ugly lonely woman who has a hard time attracting men so you hop onto boards like thecoli to annoy black men. Apparently, we're supposed to worship the feet of ugly women like you (I'm also guessing that you are fat). Cheers.

ok...that's fine. I am guessing your Congolese right? So I am sure you don't want me to get started on Congolese mans philandering ways and low expectations.

You guys are like the Jamaican men of the continent...popping kids living on welfare assistance and just doing the bare minimum when it comes to relationships. Know too many Congolese men in the community that would put black American/Caribbean men to shame when it comes to not taking care of their responsibilities.

 

[Yup]

Aww man really. I was going to fly out to where your at; so I can impregnate you and leave you as a single mother, so you can finally be one of those single mother stats you always talk about. You can now talk about it as a person who actually is going through it; not just talk about it from fake number who were made up by white people lol.

I see plenty of single black mothers where I am at and I don't know the exact numbers but I do know blacks lead in that department even in Canada.

And I would abort the child I'd kill myself before I allow my children to be subjected to that. So much for being an advocate for black issues if you are willing to make you and I statistic to prove a point on a public forum.

I doubt a doctor needs to have aids to tell you that aids is dangerous and needs to be eradicated. Why would I want the life that see destroy so many black families I am not suicidal.

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

ok...that's fine. I am guessing your Congolese right? So I am sure you don't want me to get started on Congolese mans philandering ways and low expectations.

You guys are like the Jamaican men of the continent...popping kids living on welfare assistance and just doing the bare minimum when it comes to relationships. Know too many Congolese men in the community that would put black American/Caribbean men to shame when it comes to not taking care of their responsibilities.

Yes I am Congolese. Btw I am not trying to be mean. It's just that i really hate internet trolls and you seem like a persistent internet troll.