You didn't address anything I said. At all lol. And you're still proving my point. Yes, your parents created a standard, not you.
I did say that she should be receiving less. How "much" less is dependent on what this child actually needs.
What's objective is that your private school standard doesn't yet apply to this child and it doesn't cost what she's asking for. And when it does apply she will be seeking much more than 20K.
Child support should be reflective of what it takes a raise a child. If it's about standard of living, the child goes with the breadwinning parent.
Yes I addressed how there isn't a uniform standard as far as what a child "wants" or "needs" in response to you saying what a child wants or needs and since most children become accustomed to their parents living standard, that's what is used to determine child support. A billionaire and a dude earning $60K per year shouldn't be paying the same amount in child support even though both could provide the bare minimum to meet their child's needs. However, I do agree that more children should be able to go with the breadwinning child since that will also cut down on reckless behavior as far as men having children with several different women.