Man Says He Won’t Step In If His Baby Mother Is Being Physically Abused By Her BF: “She’s No Longer Under My Protection.”

[murksiderock]

I mean why can’t she just call the cops

Mf will call the cops and still take him back...

My BM has called cops on his 3x I know of, so it's possible she's done it more. She put charges on him twice, one in September, one in December. And then she pop up pregnant with his child in February...

Any nikka saying you should defend her just because she has your child, nah. You do your best to protect your child when she with you, and you try to fight for custody, but outside of that, ain't no6uing for you to do. It's her life and you just pray your child isn't scarred and you pray your child isn't physically harmed...

 

[Yaboysix]

This happened with my first Baby mama.. highschool sweethearts that had a kid, we got into scuffles (pulling hair n grabbing shyt)but nothing serious .

We break up and she gets with a new nygga and used to whoop that ass..and throw whole plates of dinner on the ground...(I still think about that...who TF Angry enough to throw a glass plate full of good food on the ground!)

Used to show up to drop our kid off bruised n scratched up..Anyways, I called and fussed at her for putting even up with that shyt, we were together since highschool and we didn't act that way..I called her and I told her to put him on the phone...

He picked up ready to RaRa thinking I was finna try to defend her and I just told him I don't care what he do with her, just don't do that shyt in front of my son...he said "OK".

 

[goatmane]

Picture a nikka telling his girl "I gotta fight to my Baby moms man because he beating her"

Call 911

 

[Neuromancer]

Is the child safe? That's what matters most. Get the child out of there.

 

[Gritsngravy]

The sentiment is correct but the mother of your child shouldn't fall under those stipulations. Unless she is downright unruly and wants nothing to do with you..

I mean is her having another partner the definition of being unruly

 

[Wildin]

If she dies no more child support...that's only if you don't like the bytch though.

If you do you gotta do him dirty publicly so everyone around sees her and knows who you are and comes to the conclusion they don't want to fukk with her.

 

[Marlow Stanfield]

Only thing you can do is get thr child out of there and call 911.

 

[Canon]

just another transactional relationship they want to engage in with no benefit to anyone but themselves

"come save me from the new nikka I picked because he beating my ass"

 

[LadyJ2]

If a woman is making poor choices in men that result in her needing to be “defended” you need to go and get your kid, give it to your momma if you have to.

 

[O.G.B]

This is why women are choosing the bear

Until the bear turns bad.

 

[F*ckthemkids]

This has no benefit for him at all. No matter what happens he loses. Potential jail time. Custody agreement altered. Could lose your life…Could take one. She still ain’t gonna leave the dude, cause if she was, she would.

Your only responsibility is to your child and establishing a case that makes it easier for you to get full custody of them.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Domestic abuse is dangerous, if you have to put hands on a man, better be ready to kill him. And if not him, the other men she may get with.

 

[Woodrow]

call the cops for the sake of everyone in the house, and so that there is documented history of the children being placed in an unsafe environment.

 

[Diondon]

Are you aware that your tax dollars fund the police?

 

[Devilinurear]

He must hit women
Also what's stopping this abuser from hitting your child?