Man puts hands and feet on his daughter’s boyfriend for being in her room in the bed with her. Drama ensues. Right or wrong?

[jay83]

40 years ago kid would have taken the ass whoopin, not told the mom and live to see another day.

But when you live individually and not in a community then you deal with this.

 

[FaTaL]

anytime i hear stories like this i remember the breh in florida who got popped

 

[Dallas' 4 Eva]

yeah im not talking about grown adults trying to start a family. im talking about kids who are just bored and are allowed to do dumb shyt like have a bf/gf because their parents are tired.

I never had a serious girlfriend that young. You said I was confused and fast just like the rest of them. I was never confused about anything I did exactly what my dad and older brothers told me to doat that age which was fukk as many women as you can just don't get them pregnant and that's exactly what I did and I succeeded in not having a child until I was married and damn near 30. Just correcting you that's all.

 

[BandOfGypsys]

What type of lil hoe is bold enough to let a nikka in her room under the cover with her when her Fathers home?

 

[FaTaL]

What type of lil hoe is bold enough to let a nikka in her room under the cover with her when her Fathers home?

u answered it yourself

 

[murksiderock]

Never understood this either. I didn't have my first serious relationship until I was 23. Before that it was all flings and nothing but fun. I don't even see why you would WANT to be in a relationship at that age. Why limit yourself to one person when you should be sewing your oats and having fun, ENJOYING YOUR YOUTH.

With that being said if a man puts his hands on my son we gonna have problems whether he is right or wrong. Only two men on this planet are allowed to discipline my son in that manner and that is me and my dad his grandfather, his uncles can't even discipline him like that. Other than that you should have told my son to leave or call me and I'll personally come drag him out of there myself, but YOU don't do it especially if he is not a threat to anyone's safety. I don't trust you not to go overboard and do too much to him.

People say the boy's mother isn't allowing him to face accountability, if the shoe was on the other foot and the mama caught them in his room together and she dragged the girl out the house does anyone think it would have been a nice civil conversation about that being done to her. If you do think that I have beachfront property in Kansas to sell to you. Stop treating our young boys like.this, you wonder why they grow up and crash out because they got treated like crash test dummies and like they were always wrong when it clearly takes two to tango.

This thread yet again reveals the wack conflict resolution skills in society...

The boy was not a threat to yours or your daughter's livelihood, so you do not become physical with him. All these assertions that you should, first of all i dont believe half the nikkas saying it are that dumb, and for the half who are that dumb, they win the prizes when they play dumb...

You do not put your hands on someone else's child...

You can reprimand the boy by banning him from your home and telling his mom. You don't touch the kid...

I also dont believe in touching your daughter as discipline because I think corporal punishment is an enslavement tactic, but thats another thread. If you cant discipline your children without being violent, you are losing at parenting and it says more about you than anything your kid does...

I have 3 daughters, I pray I'm never in a situation someone thinks its their right to physically discipline them, who isn't their mother or me. I also hope I'm never in a situation my girls think they can have a boy in their bed in my home, but I'd rather deal with that than deal with someone else hitting/"roughing up" my children...

My daughters are 7, 6, and 3. I'm not playing this shyt with anyone about mine and every nikka in here believing it's their right to violate another person's child in a situation such as this, are real life losers, straight up...

oing too much. If that were his son he'd be raising hell.

 

[BigMoneyGrip]

He should have slapped her too, you already see the boy soft he aint gonna do nothing. Ol little “thats him over there” type nikka

You advocating for putting your hands on a woman? You bytch ass nikka

 

[O³ (O cubed)]

So who's filming the video?

 

[Marco Zen]

This thread yet again reveals the wack conflict resolution skills in society...

The boy was not a threat to yours or your daughter's livelihood, so you do not become physical with him. All these assertions that you should, first of all i dont believe half the nikkas saying it are that dumb, and for the half who are that dumb, they win the prizes when they play dumb...

You do not put your hands on someone else's child...

You can reprimand the boy by banning him from your home and telling his mom. You don't touch the kid...

I also dont believe in touching your daughter as discipline because I think corporal punishment is an enslavement tactic, but thats another thread. If you cant discipline your children without being violent, you are losing at parenting and it says more about you than anything your kid does...

I have 3 daughters, I pray I'm never in a situation someone thinks its their right to physically discipline them, who isn't their mother or me. I also hope I'm never in a situation my girls think they can have a boy in their bed in my home, but I'd rather deal with that than deal with someone else hitting/"roughing up" my children...

My daughters are 7, 6, and 3. I'm not playing this shyt with anyone about mine and every nikka in here believing it's their right to violate another person's child in a situation such as this, are real life losers, straight up...

I respectfully disagree

This isn't about "putting your hands on somebody else's child".. Technically every mf on earth is "somebody else's child"

That lil nikka in the clip taller than the father that answered the door, in other words that lil b*stard a whole man. Whether or not the daughter is wild or undisciplined or promiscuous is irrelevant. A whole man in a your daughters room warrants fukkin him up. Foh with all that "don't touch somebody child" shyt. It's about protecting your daughter at all cost..

If it's parents have a problem with that ... all the smoke is welcomed

 

[NZA]

the gucci3rdleg origin story

 

[Gil Scott-Heroin]

I respectfully disagree

This isn't about "putting your hands on somebody else's child".. Technically every mf on earth is "somebody else's child"

That lil nikka in the clip taller than the father that answered the door, in other words that lil b*stard a whole man. Whether or not the daughter is wild or undisciplined or promiscuous is irrelevant. A whole man in a your daughters room warrants fukkin him up. Foh with all that "don't touch somebody child" shyt. It's about protecting your daughter at all cost..

If it's parents have a problem with that ... all the smoke is welcomed

Except he wasn't protecting his daughter.

The daughter invited this lil nxgga into her room; this is a consensual activity between the two.

If you're condoning the pops putting his hands on this minor under his roof, than I'm assuming under any circumstances where he catches his daughter with another boy outside of the crib, you're condoning her pops to put his hands on whomever? If not, than who the fukk is he protecting?

The only thing he's protecting is his fragile ass ego.

 

[Gil Scott-Heroin]

You trespass on a man's property he got the right to kill you . Moms response shows exactly what the sons problem is. She is shielding him from accountability and consequences. Thats just setting him, and likely her with how she putting her hands in grown men's faces, up for worse.

You dont want people putting hands on your kids then you teach them not to violate . Man told you to stay out. You went in anyway. Blatant disrespect in that mans house. Unacceptable. Its one thing if they on the streets or the rule wasnt clear. But if you in my house and I done already let you know what it is all bets are off.

This dumb ass shyt really got multiple daps. It really shows the mentality on this board.

Muh'fukkas really out here thinking it'd be right to kill this minor because the daughter invited him into her room. Some of y'all shouldn't have children.

 

[Gil Scott-Heroin]

If the daughter is not being forced and she wanted ol boy in her bed.....

I'm not getting physical with the young man. My daughter is the one that let him up in the house...so SHE is the one I would deal with. Gotta be the same with boys and girls because a lot of men wouldn't react the same if it was their son smashing the head cheerleader. If you're inconsistent, kids...especially girls will use that as justification to do all kinds of bullshyt.

SAY IT LOUDER FOR DEM FOLKS IN THE BACK.

You best believe he didn't inflict the same physical punishment on his daughter, so why didn't he do the same on this kid who isn't even his? If he caught his daughter with a dyke, he gonna put his hands on her? Of course, he wouldn't. Too many brothas resorting to physical confrontations that don't need to be had, especially as you've pointed out, girls will use this to their advantage whenever they get into some shyt because they know the consequences won't be nearly as bad for them.

 

[null]

yuth should revisit this in 20 years time

 

[null]

Seriously all you can do is really kick the dude/dudette out and discipline your daughter/son.

the fact pops acted like he did is why daughter is sneaking around.