Alot to unpack here. (I've always wanted to say that)
There's multiple issues.
The main issue is what I like to call "a man's internal need to police p*ssy".
For some reason males have a natural instinct to get angry and defensive when it comes to the p*ssy around them. ie mothers, daughters, gf, wives, etc.
Almost as if they own p*ssy but u can never own it.
But they try to rationalize this feeling by acting like they are protecting their mother, daughter, gf etc
But deep in their subconscious they know they aren't protecting because those p*ssys want to get taken. Which makes the man even more angry because they hate to believe their women want to be fcked.
So they lash out on dude that's trying to get the p*ssy. Because they can't lash out on the person who wants their p*ssy taken.
(I know that's gonna be hard for y'all to understand, this is thecoli)
That leads into the next point. If the man was being honest with himself and not moving off those internal "policing p*ssy" emotions, he would understand that he doesn't have to be upset and violent. It would take some deep soul searching to not be emotional about his daughter having sex...but this just being about His daughter breaking the rules.
and understanding that the young man isn't a threat to anybody.
(He obviously knows the young)
He would tell the young man that him and her know the rules, and that he isn't allowed in the house anymore.
The father obviously also has to punish the daughter for just breaking the rules of the house.
So not being emotional about protecting the sanctity of his daughters p*ssy would have made him react differently.
When ur not moving emotionally, u remember that u were a young man once too. And we have a responsibility to continue to teach young men that are around us and in our lives.
That young man probably doesn't have a father in his life And this could have been a chance to talk to him sex, and his future.
Secondly, that young man looks like late teens. He should have understood that the father would be a sucka ass, emotional ass nikka, trying to keep nikkaz from getting his daughters goodies. Which is understandable.
And he should have took getting yoked up like a real dude cause he broke the rules. Aint no reason to tell ur mother on a nikka cause you was trying to get some p*ssy from his daughter in that nikkaz house. If ur at the age of trying to get p*ssy, then ur at the age where u shouldn't be calling ur momma to come speak up for u about trying to get some p*ssy.
And lastly... And this is super easy. Women have let social media, movies, metoo movement or whatever make them feel like they are invencible and can jump in a man's face and not get their face broken.
If you felt your son was violated, then call the cops. Or just come speak to the other parent in a respectful way to see what happened.
And come to a peaceful resolution, ur son did something wrong.
How the other parent responded is just a matter of us having a conversation and sorting things out
Her putting her hands in dudes face could have ended way differently.
They son got his ass whooped. Now the mother coulda got some work.
All and all, just more ignorance.
2 horny teens.
1 Emotional grown man
A woman with no man around to check her
And a partridge in a pear tree
Thank you for ur time