Man puts hands and feet on his daughter’s boyfriend for being in her room in the bed with her. Drama ensues. Right or wrong?

[Savvir]

We always doin ignorant ass skits man.

 

[Uchiha God]

My house. My rules. You getting these hands just off the disrespect.

Don’t know if it’s a reading comprehension thing, but here:

wherein she understands the risks in having boyfriends at a young age, and I wouldn't be allowing them to come/stay over.

makes “my house, my rules” moot, and mitigates the need for you to be putting hands on people due to said motivations.

 

[Ozymandeas]

This is it right here.

I ain't tryna hear shyt from the boy's parents if he's on my property. I don't care what anybody says, he's trespassing, he will 100% be disciplined. And if the parents want it they can get it too. The jury and judge will see the ring camera and for any lawsuits

These are my sentiments. I'm not gonna pretend like I didn't go to girl's houses in high school but, I was at least smart enough to go right after school and duck out before their parents came home from work. If their dads would've caught me, I would've accepted what came with it This thread reminds me of one girl wanting me to sneak in to spend the night with her talking about her dad never checked on her and I could be out before he got up. I told shorty she was out of her rabid-ass mind smh. Long story short, I have been the boy and now I'm the adult. IMO, this dude is corny for getting his mom involved. He knows he violated. You took the risk and you got caught. Take the L & STFU. No need to go cry to your parents like you're innocent.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Don’t know if it’s a reading comprehension thing, but here:



makes “my house, my rules” moot, and mitigates the need for you to be putting hands on people due to said motivations.

Even if the son wasn't trespassing, men are protective of their daughters. Maybe folks should teach their son not to sneak in another man's house at 1am. Shouldn't that be a universal language? Like no matter what culture you're in?

Trespassing or not, the disrespect will be an ass whooping.

 

[King_Kamala61]

Have kids

Seriously all you can do is really kick the dude/dudette out and discipline your daughter/son.

If the dude/dudette gets disrespectful and belligerent you call the cops, if he brandishes a weapon, then you defend yourself.

The fact of the matter is that yall as parents have to understand that you have little control over your children choices once they become self aware, you can talk til the cows come home and instill as much talks as possible, but they gin so what they gon do.

That's why I'm not having kids. I stayed out trouble because I knew my parents would've have my back for shyt and would sell me out for a box of cracker jacks and I didn't like being stressed out at shyt that is avoidable.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

You saying that because you don't want your son getting the belt. Again, if both parties knew the rules, your son is getting an ass whooping These lil knuckle heads ain't running around all willy nilly in my neck of the woods.

My point was leave the legalities to the lawyers, cuz you confusing defense of property with your ptsd issues

I already posted my son would know better than to care about having a gf so no belt need. Yall need to work smarter, not harder.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

My point was leave the legalities to the lawyers, cuz you confusing defense of property with your ptsd issues

If both parties know the boy isn't allowed, it's trespassing. You can damn near do what you want at that point.


I don't have ptsd. I just don't see why folks would get angry about their child being disciplined after sneaking in another man's house. The momma had no business showing up, if anything she should've disciplined her son for being stupid enough to do what he did because sneaking in a stranger's house is dangerous.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

How do you know he didn't?

He clearly let him come in the house. He said the rule was to stay in the living room. So it's def no trespassing. I'm going off what he said. You can play hypothetical if you want.

 

[Adeptus Astartes]

He clearly let him come in the house. He said the rule was to stay in the living room. So it's def no trespassing. I'm going off what he said. You can play hypothetical if you want.

Permission to be on a property can be revoked at any time for any reason. He obviously revoked it, lol.

 

[Mugenight]

Hell nah he ain't in the wrong he already told his ass once.

 

[ThatTruth777]

mom got some nerve and playing with fire

 

[number21]

Lack of a proper culture on display.

 

[Dallas' 4 Eva]

Kids shouldn't have had a boyfriend/gf to begin with. There's no benefit in being in a relationship as a kid.

Never understood this either. I didn't have my first serious relationship until I was 23. Before that it was all flings and nothing but fun. I don't even see why you would WANT to be in a relationship at that age. Why limit yourself to one person when you should be sewing your oats and having fun, ENJOYING YOUR YOUTH.

With that being said if a man puts his hands on my son we gonna have problems whether he is right or wrong. Only two men on this planet are allowed to discipline my son in that manner and that is me and my dad his grandfather, his uncles can't even discipline him like that. Other than that you should have told my son to leave or call me and I'll personally come drag him out of there myself, but YOU don't do it especially if he is not a threat to anyone's safety. I don't trust you not to go overboard and do too much to him.

People say the boy's mother isn't allowing him to face accountability, if the shoe was on the other foot and the mama caught them in his room together and she dragged the girl out the house does anyone think it would have been a nice civil conversation about that being done to her. If you do think that I have beachfront property in Kansas to sell to you. Stop treating our young boys like.this, you wonder why they grow up and crash out because they got treated like crash test dummies and like they were always wrong when it clearly takes two to tango.

 

[FTBS]

It's not trespassing if the daughter invited him him.

Its not her house to invite anyone anywhere against his wishes.

 

[verbalkint]

Like imagine a minor being able to invite Police in to do as they please....