Male fitness trainer says there’s nothing wrong with letting another man train your woman, calls husband insecure….

[maxamusa]

sounds like y'all have a very healthy and mature relationship.

You are correct. Trust doesn't mean you can't make a mistake.

However real trust is something certain or certain to the point where you rely on it. You trust your money and savings are in a bank that's not going to lock the door tomorrow and run off with your money.

You likely lay your head down on your pillow and go to bed everything trusting your woman isn't having some secret relationship or betraying you in any way.

Some things are hard truths. It's true that I've never done crack, and I have no interest in doing crack, therefore if I'm ever in a compromising situation where I'm around a bunch of people using crack I'm not likely to cave into peer pressure and take a hit of crack.

If I were in situation where twice a week for 3 months I'm around crackheads smoking crack I can't tell you with extreme confidence im not going to give in and take a hit of crack.

But then again, I know myself. I can say with extreme confidence I know my spouse wouldn't smoke crack, or engage in consentual intercourse with another man regardless of the circumstance. But it takes a while to get to that point in a relationship and I have to respect that not everyone is there or even gets there.

 

[maxamusa]

Dudes right.

You might as well say "another man cant ring up your woman's groceries at the store....he works there! Shes gonna see him every week she goes to get groceries! He's gonna be cool and give her 2% off, next thing you know, he's fukking her!!!!!!!"

"You can't have a male come in your house and install cable. You might as well ask him to fukk her while you watch! How you invite another man into your house!"

"Your woman can't have a male doctor!!!! How she going to have an appointment with someone smarter than you and makes more money than you, you might as well pay for her to go on a date!"

"Let your girl have a male dentist, how you gonna have another man open your girls mouth wide??!!!!"

If your woman is gonna get fukked, she's gonna get fukked. Stop being so damn insecure.

are you a bot

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or were u just the kid who ate the crayons?

 

[The Solid One]

We agree on this. This is what Ive been saying all along. But mfs would rather worry about their spouse creeping or some random person lurking, rather than cultivating and maintaining a healthy fulfilling relationship.

That's great for you but we aren't talking about you. We are talking about you restricting your spouses life because of your insecurities.

You can't even say you trust your spouse if you don't trust them not to sleep with someone else, even when y'all are doing bad. That isnt trust.

We aren't saying a personal trainer is going to wild out and rape someone we are talking about consensual sex. If you don't want your spouse to interact with a person in a manner of business because you are afraid they're going to have consensual sex, then your relationship sucks. Where do you draw the line can your girl have a male nail technician? A male hair dresser? A male dentist? A male doctor? A male counselor? A male gynecologist? A male mailman? A male masseuse? A male chiropractor? A male plumber? Can a male ring up her groceries? Which men can they interact with on a professional level and which are strictly forbidden under your rule?

 

[UnQuantized]

I know many personal trainers, they are fukking your girlThat feminine dude running your girl's yoga class, he fukking tooIt's not about insecurity, it's about understanding female nature. With proximity and time, women drop their guard, next thing you know....."it just happened"Personal trainers don't even have to seduce them, the dynamic naturally leads to fukking.Ever have a homegirl you teach something; an instrument, a difficult book, painting etc That teacher student dynamic does something to them, they can't help it

 

[O.T.I.S.]

I know many personal trainers, they are fukking your girlThat feminine dude running your girl's yoga class, he fukking tooIt's not about insecurity, it's about understanding female nature. With proximity and time, women drop their guard, next thing you know....."it just happened"Personal trainers don't even have to seduce them, the dynamic naturally leads to fukking.Ever have a homegirl you teach something; an instrument, a difficult book, painting etc That teacher student dynamic does something to them, they can't help it

Facts

Every female I ever “trained” straight up said they liked me or let me hit.

Only time I didn’t was because I had a girl so I was trying to be a good nikka and keep my distance….


I almost regret it



Edit: And I think you right, women do like a nikka they can learn something from… vice versa for me too

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

A woman can get a female trainer.

Nothing says the trainer gotta be a dude.

 

[Higher Tech]

If a PT cracks your girl, she wasn't yours to begin with

 

[AllHolosEve]

If that's how you choose to live your life, that's on you, and there's nothing wrong with that.

When I had a pinched nerve in my back and lost feeling in my foot I went to a foot and ankle specialist, the podiatrist who checked me out and was rubbing on my feet in a personal manner was a woman, when I went to a chiropractor to have my foot looked at, the chiropractor was a woman and she said your foot is fine, she ended up cracking my back and relieving pressure on a pinched nerve and fixed my foot. Was there anything weird or sexual about either of these interactions, absolutely not. And yeah I saw the chiro about 5 more times. Was my spouse worried about another human being having physical contact with me? No. Was she happy my foot was fixed. Yes.

I was a personal trainer and of course had clients that were women and men. It's cool but you get about an hour and it's on to the next. This was about money, not sex.

At some point your spouse is going to have an interaction with a human of the opposite gender that includes physical contact. My advice is, it's going to be ok. Physical contact is a part of normal human interaction. If physical contact is a trigger, then that's something that needs to be worked out. And it can be a two way street. Maybe you've been used and abused and they have too so you both agree, absolutely no physical contact and that works for you.

-Reading this it's obvious you either didn't read or comprehend anything I said. You wrote whole paragraphs about nonsense I literally addressed already. The pivot to psychological babble is hilarious though.

 

[TAYLONDO SAMSWORTHY]

DEATH… STROKE… FITNESS